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Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Dec 28, 2017
Do ladies expect guys/men to be broke always especially financially independent ladies?

Why does the society expect men/guys to be broke always, and when one is an exemption, he becomes a suspect

Why is there mistrust and fear when some people come across a few guys that don't fall into the broke category, you walk past a police officer neatly dressed, the next thing, he starts to question you unnecessarily, and if you don't look good and have good profile, one could end up behind bars and spend a few night.


You meet a chick, and you package yourself, you talk tall, have stable ratings, command good level of financial earnings, next thing, you're mistrusted.

People want good people, but when good people come around, they suspect them. Has Nigeria conditioned people for the worst? Why do people suspect one another before they appreciate goodness?


Why do we suspect people in this country without genuine reasons, does Nigeria expect all men to be broke? Are we saying, there are no legit guys making money legitimately?


Please help me out, i'm going bananas here !


Cc: Martin0

Cc: IamJ

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by donstan18: 9:12pm On Dec 28, 2017
When will things like "Society and brokeness" start bothering me?, when I should be striving for other things.

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by coolestofall(m): 9:16pm On Dec 28, 2017
Its just stereotypes. Live with it.

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Dec 28, 2017
coolestofall:
Its just stereotypes. Live with it.

It's annoying, a guy dress well, pass Agege, na war, SARS will stop you and begin interrogation...Why do people allow society condition their minds so easily?

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 9:18pm On Dec 28, 2017
as for police its normal, people looking good have money so they will disturb them more, during my university days, one of my guy get one benz like that, we went clubbing one night, there was police check point in front, my friend turned on his inner light, wen it got to our turn, police man said abeg move, people dey on inner light una join cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy laugh wan kill me that day

that suspecting mata na poor people issues, girl that is thinking abt how to better her life no get time for all those broke people play, poor people are very insecure, that is why they are poor and will neva progress, ugly people own is the worst, toast an ugly girl and she will say u want to use her for rituals, they fear and expect the worst, because they know with their face, its what they deserve

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Dec 28, 2017
If you are rich and you have a job that everybody knows..
Nobody will suspect you..
Nobody will suspect a musician like p square or wizkid..
Nobody will suspect a worker in a multi national company.
If you are rich, make sure the job you do can back up your wealth.

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Hotshawarma(m): 9:20pm On Dec 28, 2017
DrinkLimca:
If you are rich and you have a job that everybody knows..

Nobody will suspect you..

Nobody will suspect a musician like p square or wizkid..

Nobody will suspect a worker in a multi national company.

If you are rich, make sure the job you do can back up your wealth.
you made small sense for the first time.....truly miracle happens....grin

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 28, 2017
DrinkLimca:
If you are rich and you have a job that everybody knows..

Nobody will suspect you..

Nobody will suspect a musician like p square or wizkid..

Nobody will suspect a worker in a multi national company.

If you are rich, make sure the job you do can back up your wealth.


There are people who may know ones source of income yet suspect needlessly? Are Nigerian wired to be foolish and dark ? I've relocated to a new city, stayed there, worked my ass up with my system, this is a city i've never been before, nor do i know the whereabouts of the city, business blow, and they suspect..Why are Nigerians wired to be conceited?
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
as for police its normal, people looking good have money so they will disturb them more, during my university days, one of my guy get one benz like that, we went clubbing one night, there was police check point in front, my friend turned on his inner light, wen it got to our turn, police man said abeg move, people dey on inner light una join cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy laugh wan kill me that day

that suspecting mata na poor people issues, girl that is thinking abt how to better her life no get time for all those broke people play, poor people are very insecure, that is why they are poor and will neva progress, ugly people own is the worst, toast an ugly girl and she will say u want to use her for rituals, they fear and expect the worst, because they know with their face, its what they deserve




I passed a SARS checkpoint. Although that was my best dressed day in 2017, omo, come see interrogation. Thank God for purity of hands, in the end, we became friends. I saw the shock on his face when he asked my monthly income against what i did for living, I saw in his eyes, chai, why i come dey stand inside sun ! I spoke pure crisp English that day....But the thing is why do we suspect people, why people no see say na them get issues, say their eye lens na him dey polluted?


Force men have forced me to create an accent for them, anytime i am stopped by any force official, i have very crisp english i blow and fast, when they see they can't keep up, they bail cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy It always works 100%
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:




I have come across people that know i work, yet say they suspect. I've relocated to a new city, stayed there, worked my ass up with my system, this is a city i've never been before, nor do i know the whereabouts of the city, business blow, and they suspect..Why are Nigerians wired to be conceited?
Every worker has an I'd card, the identification card is to identify you in cases like this..

This is why its important to always take your identity card along..

No offence but The society you live in, does not believe in working with your laptop..

If you work with your laptop, at least have a real physical job.

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 9:29pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:




I passed a SARS checkpoint. Although that was my best dressed day in 2017, omo, come see interrogation. Thank God for purity of hands, in the end, we became friends. I saw the shock on his face when he asked my monthly income against what i did for living, I saw in his eyes, chai, why i come dey stand inside sun ! I spoke pure crisp English that day....But the thing is why do we suspect people, why people no see say na them get issues, say their eye lens na him dey polluted?
that is why i hate ugly people, na evil fill their body, people with ugly faces no like their own life, na ur own them wan like cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

i cant see a fine person and suspect the person but an ugly person, i cant even respond wen they greet me


thats life for u sha, expect the worst from terrible looking people
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 28, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Every worker has an I'd card, the identification card is to identify you in cases like this..

This is why its important to always take your identity card along..

No offence but The society you live in, does not believe in working with your laptop..

If you work with your laptop, at least have a real physical job.



You're kidding me right? I saw some young guys that raked in 10m this year, from their laptop.

I know thousands of freelance ICT workers whom people know their source of income, yet they suspect...Are you reading at all?

People know your source of income, yet they mistrust and suspect. ( THEY KNOW WHAT YOU DO WITHOUT DOUBT, BUT THEIR MIND IS UNSETTLED, READ WELL BRO )
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
that is why i hate ugly people, na evil fill their body, people with ugly faces no like their own life, na ur own them wan like cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

i cant see a fine person and suspect the person but an ugly person, i cant even respond wen they greet me


thats life for u sha, expect the worst from terrible looking people



You no well cheesy
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:




You're kidding me right? I saw some young guys that raked in 10m this year, from their laptop.

I know thousands of freelance ICT workers whom people know their source of income, yet they suspect...Are you reading at all?

People know your source of income, yet they mistrust and suspect. ( THEY KNOW WHAT YOU DO WITHOUT DOUBT, BUT THEIR MIND IS UNSETTLED, READ WELL BRO )
You don't understand me..

Bloggers like Linda ikeji have other businesses apart from their normal blogging..

Even if Linda purchases a billion naira car today..
haters will say her blogging site can't give her that huge amount of money..

But then again, her other investment and businesses will speak for her.

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by linearity: 9:33pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:


It's annoying, a guy dress well, pass Agege, na war, SARS will stop you and begin interrogation...Why do people allow society condition their minds so easily?

Instead of driving your own car yourself; hire a driver and pose at the car owner corner or take Uber, SARS or Police will never trouble you again.

I have tried it many times and it works like a charm...each time I drive myself they are always harassing someone, but once the driver is behind the wheel, if they stop the vehicle and see ‘Oga’ seating at the back, they will wavs you on.

There fears I come to realize is that, they don’t know who ‘Oga’ is; he might be an Army General in morti or a well connected and powerful individual who can terminate their employment with one phone call.
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 28, 2017
DrinkLimca:
You don't understand me..

Bloggers like Linda ikeji have other businesses apart from their normal blogging..

Even if Linda purchases a billion naira car today..
haters will say her blogging site can't give her that huge amount of money..

But then again, her other investment and businesses will speak for her.



Wow ! Learn to pay attention to details. Chao wink

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Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 28, 2017
linearity:


Instead of driving your own car yourself; hire a driver and pose at the car owner corner or take Uber, SARS will never trouble you again.

I have tried it many times and it works like a charm...each time I drive myself they are always harassing someone, but once the driver is behind the wheel, if they stop the vehicle and see ‘Oga’ seating at the back, they will wavs you on.

There fears I come to realize is that, they don’t know who ‘Oga’ is; he might be an Army General in morti or a well connected and powerful individual who can terminate their employment with one phone call.


That day, i was going to buy clothes at a close-by boutique, More so, in Lagos to beat traffic, driving around populated areas aren't my thing. Ilike the hustlers style, Bike or Keke...Once they see a nigge with a laptop bag, or looking clean...Gbam, it's interrogation
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 9:37pm On Dec 28, 2017
linearity:


Instead of driving your own car yourself; hire a driver and pose at the car owner corner or take Uber, SARS will never trouble you again.

I have tried it many times and it works like a charm...each time I drive myself they are always harassing someone, but once the driver is behind the wheel, if they stop the vehicle and see ‘Oga’ seating at the back, they will wavs you on.

There fears I come to realize is that, they don’t know who ‘Oga’ is; he might be an Army General in morti or a well connected and powerful individual who can terminate their employment with one phone call.
make sense die but me i cant ooooo i love driving eh cry cry cry cry i enjoy it like mad, cant allow som1 drive unless its my gf, even if am going out and my friend drives to my house, instead of both of u using his car, i will drive my own and he drives his
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
make sense die but me i cant ooooo i love driving eh cry cry cry cry i enjoy it like mad, cant allow som1 drive unless its my gf, even if am going out and my friend drives to my house, instead of both of u using his car, i will drive my own and he drives his


Try am for Lag, hold up for eat your time die ! The time you spend in hold up between short locations, i've finished my tasks jumped back to my PC, continue my work..


One should be very smart with time management. The time I save by avoiding hold ups is channeled into increasing my productivity. So rather than drive upandan, rather than buy a ride, i'll rather save my dough and invest it bra...
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:



Try am for Lag, hold up for eat your time die ! The time you spend in hold up between short locations, i've finished my tasks jumped back to my PC, continue my work..
if i tell u how many times, i done wish say i fit drive go lagos from ph cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy even after servicing the car and buying fuel, wen day break my mind no go just carry am cheesy cheesy cheesy maybe i dey fear the distance, one day i go run am sha, i go try am soon
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
if i tell u how many times, i done wish say i fit drive go lagos from ph cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy even after servicing the car and buying fuel, wen day break my mind no go just carry am cheesy cheesy cheesy maybe i dey fear the distance, one day i go run am sha, i go try am soon

Bro, do like top earners in the world do. Buy people's time. Driving long distance no be achievement, but make money, increase your productivity and win more medals. I rather sit down at owner's corner and have some one drive me. Or, i rather take a flight. No be that PH wey far like another thing. Distance between both cities isn't a joke oh. Wanna do it, get yourself mentally prepared for it. Anyway i've never fancied driving, cause i'm always about how much work i can achieve during the period i sit inhold-ups. Car is a NO-no unless i'm in a city/state that's not so congested
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by coolestofall(m): 9:46pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:


It's annoying, a guy dress well, pass Agege, na war, SARS will stop you and begin interrogation...Why do people allow society condition their minds so easily?
Welcone 2 Nigeria bro. Its d situation we find ourselves in.
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 28, 2017
coolestofall:

Welcone 2 Nigeria bro. Its d situation we find ourselves in.


Na wa oh. Person broke na problem. Person dey work, dey make bar, it is normal to be suspected. It's sad. Nigerians are depressed people, i'm living for Ghana. ABC transport go charge me just 30-35k for the trip
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 9:49pm On Dec 28, 2017
Jupxter:


Bro, do like top earners in the world do. Buy people's time. Driving long distance no be achievement, but make money, increase your productivity and win more medals. I rather sit down at owner's corner and have some one drive me. Or, i rather take a flight. No be that PH wey far like another thing. Distance between both cities isn't a joke oh. Wanna do it, get yourself mentally prepared for it. Anyway i've never fancied driving, cause i'm always about how much work i can achieve during the period i sit inhold-ups. Car is a NO-no unless i'm in a city/state that's not so congested
even if i get billions, i will still drive myself, i enjoy it, i will do like amechi that year, escort will follow but he will drive himself grin i like speed too na why i dey fear distance cry make i no use 140 end my life journey, i dey envy all those seme border drivers, those guys dey press 160 easy kiss kiss
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
even if i get billions, i will still drive myself, i enjoy it, i will do like amechi that year, escort will follow but he will drive himself grin i like speed too na why i dey fear distance cry make i no use 140 end my life journey, i dey envy all those seme border drivers, those guys dey press 160 easy kiss kiss


Cool. Me, i go employ driver. By the way, it's almost new year. First One Billion must show oh Lord, we must buy Nigeria.


Haters will say blood money or ritual or oil bunkering again. People want success but hate successful people. God punish devil
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by tomtyte02(m): 11:47pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
as for police its normal, people looking good have money so they will disturb them more, during my university days, one of my guy get one benz like that, we went clubbing one night, there was police check point in front, my friend turned on his inner light, wen it got to our turn, police man said abeg move, people dey on inner light una join cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy laugh wan kill me that day

that suspecting mata na poor people issues, girl that is thinking abt how to better her life no get time for all those broke people play, poor people are very insecure, that is why they are poor and will neva progress, ugly people own is the worst, toast an ugly girl and she will say u want to use her for rituals, they fear and expect the worst, because they know with their face, its what they deserve


Lmao... Ugly people deserves to be used as sacrifices?
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by tomtyte02(m): 11:57pm On Dec 28, 2017
iamJ:
even if i get billions, i will still drive myself, i enjoy it, i will do like amechi that year, escort will follow but he will drive himself grin i like speed too na why i dey fear distance cry make i no use 140 end my life journey, i dey envy all those seme border drivers, those guys dey press 160 easy kiss kiss

Bro, ease up on the pedal pressing and the rubber burning. Remember you are not the presidents son. Even the presidents son has not been revived. Speed kills.
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 11:35am On Dec 29, 2017
tomtyte02:


Lmao... Ugly people deserves to be used as sacrifices?
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy swear say when u see ugly person, sacrifice no come ur mind, only dem get face like sacrifice cheesy cheesy
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 11:36am On Dec 29, 2017
tomtyte02:


Bro, ease up on the pedal pressing and the rubber burning. Remember you are not the presidents son. Even the presidents son has not been revived. Speed kills.
u no go understand sha, e get as e dey do me, especially wen u dey play better jams, driving fast sweet die
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by tomtyte02(m): 12:16pm On Dec 29, 2017
iamJ:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy swear say when u see ugly person, sacrifice no come ur mind, only dem get face like sacrifice cheesy cheesy

lmao....i have never thought of sacrificing people o abeg
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by tomtyte02(m): 12:18pm On Dec 29, 2017
iamJ:
u no go understand sha, e get as e dey do me, especially wen u dey play better jams, driving fast sweet die

True. Ma sweet things they kill sha. Thank God you put 'die' after the sweet'
Re: Do Financially Independent Ladies Expect Guys/men To Be Broke By Default? by iamJ(m): 12:20pm On Dec 29, 2017
tomtyte02:


True. Ma sweet things they kill sha. Thank God you put 'die' after the sweet'
if i fit enter 140 again , i go try snap my dashboard, show u the pix, nothing day happen grin

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