northvietnam:
use her for money retual then use the proceeds and get ur mom a Rover 2018

hahahahahahahaha typical igbo man with this kind mentality.
Smh

EternalTruth:
shut up kid.
Must you also comment?

mtcheeeeew

dahmie2013:
Y don't u & ur mum embark on a fasting & prayer session 4 her. Dere is nothing God cannot do, prayer changes things & people. Pls I will recommend u get dis book by Bishop David Oyedepo, "Walking in the newness of life" & "Conquering Controlling Powers". She has started beating ur mum, dis is no more a battle u can fight physically, take it 2 God, she herself will come begging.
It is well.

wetin ds one dey talk

Oyindidi:
mtcheeeeew

roll back to the romance section kid.
Your fellow mates are out there waiting to play with you

nnamdiokere45:
wetin ds one dey talk

e fit be say hin na prophet wey wan swindle O.p with the guise of praying for him.

izzy4shizzy:
Am not calling ur mum a liar but mothers have a way of making things sound more serious than they actually are....

My advice, since u dont know all the facts yet , listen to your sisters side of the story... what ever her issues are, shez just growing up,....yelling at her or beating her might not be the answer, talk to her and understand what her problem(s) are....from there u can start the journey of fixing those problems

exactly

Neoteny:


What are you a man for?

Go back home immediately and break some bones.

Kill her if you have to.

Then go back and finish your school.

same pple wey say "kill am" na same pple weu go curse u if u kill am

splenzard:


thanks bro, but she's a cultist like I said earlier, I've tried beating her but it's as good as flogging a dead horse, she's hardened

She needs rehabilitation in a psychiatric hospital plus deliverance prayers from anointed men of God.
Also, she might need to relocate away from the location where you have the cultists and drugs.

splenzard I don't normally give this kind of advice but go to the army barracks, buy them few drinks( beer and weed) and give them small change then table your matter. If they don't beat the cultist and mother beater out of her then change my moniker.
NB: That's the only thing Nigeria armed forces are good for. And please, don't call SARS if not say goodbye to your sister. You won't even know where they take her to. They deal with cultist the way a shark deals with blood in the sea

EternalTruth:
roll back to the romance section kid.
Your fellow mates are out there waiting to play with you

Swerve joor!

splenzard:
Hello Fellow Nlanders,

Compliments of the season.

As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point.

I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission.

Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc).

At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night.

As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior.


right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum.


Please guys i need your matured advice here

This is really deep. The hard substance she is taking is taking its toll on her. Unfortunately, there are no trusted asylums that can bring her back to sanity(no sane man or woman would beat his/her mother) I would advise that you liberate your mother from that torture by making her to leave that house. You may have to thread carefully thought,lest she assaults you too. A good bait to get her out of that house is helping her secure a better job far from home or even an admission. Above all, dont forget to pray for the redemption of her soul. Good luck!

splenzard:
Hello Fellow Nlanders,

Compliments of the season.

As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point.

I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission.

Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc).

At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night.

As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior.


right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum.


Please guys i need your matured advice here

U have no shame....
Kai.....
Seeking for advice on NL about what to do to ur on sista who beat up ya mama?
Such a dumb fvck!!!

if u think she can't change from her evil ways then take ur mum along with u let ur sister stay alone mothers are very important I won't allow anybody to treat my mum like that I would rather die defending her not even an outsider not to talk of my sister or brother, that ur head go straight by force

There are ways to solve this kind of issue.it happened to my last born and I suggested to my parent several times but they think it was spiritual,it was until they had enough that they took one of my ways and today they are happy and the guy just passed her ican exams moving into writing pe1 exam..
Firstly you need to find a way to get hold of her and keep her incommunicado either in a hospital or anywhere private,the keeping will span for like 3 to 6months, it depends on her level of response..the first one month will be used to clean her system of any drug trace,the doctors will know what to do to clean the body systems...after like a month, you will introduce a psychiatric psychologist to take the next step, along the way your pastors or Alfa will be coming to pay a visit(mind you not for prayers oooo but gisting),you also need to invest in books for her during the time(you don't give it to her,with time she will pick it up herself),she must not have access to any phone,browsing with an exception of movies which she will be using to while away time..someone will need to be with 24hrs for the first two months atleast and she must never be judged rather move into her shoe and feel her pain cos she is really suffering( she will admit the suffering later on)....this will cost you alot of money and time, for my brother it was just 4 months and we spent close to 300k and after he left the asylum he wasnt allow to come home instead I sent him to one of my sister place where he has something to do like helping her in her shop (but the real purpose for sending him there was to increase the distance btw him and his group)...I was always with him playing chess and mostly discussing mystery of life( you should understand that she has seen more than you and you should never discuss mundane things like hellfire,God love with her cos it will all sound childish to her)...
The journey you sister have started is downward spiral and it will take special mind to help her with a lot of patience...I hope you have what it takes...

If you need any other insight you can let me know

Hashimyussufamao:
I will deal with her for you. Tell her to send her account details together with her BVN.

abeg teach me this stuff
I b gt my ex acc and bvn

lumzybo:
Why do I think the op is kinda scared of confronting her sis?

If u can't handle her alone, report her to the nearest SARS/anti cult dept of NPF.

Thank me later

Sarz no, just beat her up and warn her not touch their mother again, u want to ruin ur sister life?

northvietnam:
use her for money retual then use the proceeds and get ur mom a Rover 2018

Lol!
Man,u dey craze o!

I support some people that say you should drive her outside. Yes, cut her off completely and let her know that she lost a brother and a mother now.

reality will dawn on her quicker when she realize it's her against you and your mom.

bethmartin031:
We should love and protect our parents especialy our mother.

Hello,welcome To Naija Media.

Princeoflimpopo:



abeg teach me this stuff
I b gt my ex acc and bvn

lol, simple stuff how Much u go transfer for me first?

bro,if u really luv ur mum,i wud advice u 2 hustle 4 sum money n get ur mum away 4rm dat aos and get r a new apartment.thank God u r in 400level

This op is afraid of confronting the sister, I had to enter the first bus going to lag hearing that my bro insulted my mom, sh*t got real when I came home , had to beat him up. I even turn again my siblings once it gets to moma.

I'm very sure op is from Rivers state

larrybee2017:

Then ure done for!!!!

.

Ok Sir. It's not new.

splenzard:


Baba i didn't say I'm scared. I've done that countlessly. even in medicine, once a bactaria is used to a drug, it becomes resilient. same scenario is happening, only that it's in my family

What she needs is prayers and rehab. Go report her to the NDLEA, they will custody her and rehabilitate her, when she return home, she will be a change person.

Ohh my God... Pls put her to order... This is a terrible curse unto her, she may might be unfortunate in life... Ask her to change her ways and ask for forgiveness pls.... Talking out of experience... Happened to my brother now he is useless and homeless... Please help her... The Lord is her strength

She is a caused child.its a bit of a hopeless case but pray nothing is impossible with God

koolaid87:
I support some people that say you should drive her outside. Yes, cut her off completely and let her know that she lost a brother and a mother now.

reality will dawn on her quicker when she realize it's her against you and your mom.

Yeah I support tough love

Archangel15:


Too harsh.

What's more harsh than the foolish girl beating her own mom?

Sometimes we need to chastise our loved ones when they act crazy. And we're only doing that because we love them

splenzard:
Hello Fellow Nlanders,

Compliments of the season.

As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point.

I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission.

Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc).

At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night.

As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior.


right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum.


Please guys i need your matured advice here

To think about what you should do or the action you should take shows you don't have sense at all.
It also shows your brain needs reformatting because you can't even save your thoughts.
Matured advice gbuo gi there

[quote author=splenzard post=63683072]Hello Fellow Nlanders,
poison the bastard slut.thank me later.

MissJayne:

To think about what you should do or the action you should take shows you don't have sense at all.
It also shows your brain needs reformatting because you can't even save your thoughts.
Matured advice gbuo gi there

this was why I said "matured " advice..

thanks though