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I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by faggins(m): 5:41pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Hello Fellow Nairalanders, Complement of the season and merry Xmas. please hear my story. I'm a 300l student of a public university here in the north, 21years of age and Yoruba by tribe. Both my parent alive, am the first born with three siblings. now here is my problem my mother hates me so much that sometimes we don't talk to each other even though she is the one who pays my school fees, she abuses and rain insult at me for any slight mistake. There are sometimes that my mother will threaten me that she won't pay my school fees and that she would curse and disown me. Even today she was talking to me and I was not listening to what she said and before I realized it she start insulting me and she has snubbed me since morning. my mother is so wicked and a snob, sometimes I will greet her but she won't respond. At times when I watch movies or see other people of my age interacting and chatting happily with their parents, I do question why God has decided to give me such an aggressive and hot tempered woman as a mother. plz help me fellow Nairalanders am tired of having a snob as a mother |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by HeyCorleone(m): 5:45pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
So you want another mother or what exactly is it you want? 2 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Homeboiy: 5:47pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
This matter pass me oo op wait elders on their way |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by hillsiderfak(m): 5:49pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Prayer is the key if you are chrsitian , and be wise enof to submit ur self under her authority becos a mothers curse is always powerful. One day you will be free. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by cyrilomoh: 5:50pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by fav444(f): 5:52pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
This should be the more reason why you should double ur hustle, become independent and still be respectful towards her. Walahi, she will just change. 5 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by faggins(m): 5:58pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
hillsiderfak:it seems God don't want to answer my prayer regarding this issue cus have been praying about it for sometime now. Tnx for your input. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by faggins(m): 5:59pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
fav444:tnx ma'am |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by baby124: 6:08pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Just endure it for one more year till school is over. Looks like she is a single mother and carrying all the responsibilities alone. Where is your father? Can’t he help with school fees or upkeep? Anyway, just endure till you finish school and start thinking of handwork or legal business to do so that you can move out of the house when school is over. Don’t worry, you will be fine. Once you are out of the house and able to help with your siblings your relationship might improve with your mother. If it doesn’t improve, just resolve in your heart that you will be a better parent to your own kids than she was with you. If she curses you or insults you, she is cursing herself. None of her curses can ever come to pass in your life. Don’t let it get to you. She is showing signs of frustration and anger at possibly your father but pouring it on you as the first child and son. You probably remind her of your father too. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by hillsiderfak(m): 6:13pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
faggins: I believe u are a christian, remember that men ought always to pray and not to faint, again you may want to see a counsellor. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by crackhaus: 6:13pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Maybe you should just talk to her and be interested in the things that make her happy... also use this opportunity to tell her how she makes you feel and find out (from her) what you can do to improve the relationship between you both. How about that? All I'm sensing here is a serious lack in communication, too many assumptions. 4 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 6:15pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
with what you have written so far, she is still best you can have. do you know what it takes to pay for school fees and feeding. bro celebrate her. there is an adage that it is the child that a parent love, that get scold 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by boldx(m): 6:21pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
If you ask me, na who I go ask? |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by KendrickAyomide: 6:24pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Before u graduate,Hustle hard. carry Laptop.. Bill clients, your luck fit shine dem go pay.. Play along then immediately u graduate, leave the house.. they won't see it coming.. cut off all ties for like a YEAR or More.. Life it too short to endure Bull shyt 4 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by braimeddy: 6:24pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
If u re d only sibling she's treating like dis, den u re an adopted child. Go and ask ur dad who ur real mum was. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by KendrickAyomide: 6:26pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
braimeddy:there might be a mystery behind his birth 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by coluka: 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Are u sure you're her biological child? |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by captainking(m): 7:16pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Something is missing ... Why does your mum pay your school fees when your dad is alive.. Are they still together?? I may be wrong.. But I have a feeling. It has something to do with your dad. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Diamond23(f): 8:16pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
[color=#770077][/color]No luv supersedes mother's LOVE. Even after threating not to pay ur fee, she still does. She may utter doz words out of annoyance ND dat doz not mean she meant wot she said.since u know she z hot tempered just try as much as possible to avoid all doz tins u do dat makes her say a bad word to u.sometimes mothers do carry out der frustration on der child(ren) wen it becomes unbearable for dem to handle. To be a mother z nt an easy job xo just be a little nicer nd drop some of d bad habits dat makes her to curse u, all mothers meant well for der children..............whether ADOPTED or NOT she is still ur mother. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by sisisioge: 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Your body language abi na words fusion reeks of defiance already. If my mom were to be yours, you would have opened countless threads about her niyen ke. Hian, take it easy. Be calm. Pay attention. Listen. Bring your shoulders down. Show some respect. Smile...then maintain eye contacts while interacting with her. She's your mom. She pays your school fees. Your other physiological needs don't fall from heaven, do they? Relax...all will he well. In fact, let me go and call my mom sef...my troublesome rock ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Richy4(m): 8:59pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
When someone stays in a particular place, he/she feels that the grass is greener on the other side of the wall.. .. <<she pays your school fees instead of buying handbag and shoes << she feeds you << she gives you pocket money << when you were sick while at a tender age, she looks after you << she did not abandon you @ the orphanage <<she did not flush you to maintain her figure << she was there for you and wiped your dry a$$ when u pooped all over her I can go on and on but I have to pause here so that you can count your blessings and name them one by one 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Faggins...lol please remain a f*g.She pays your school fees and she is the worst mother.Are you a child?I think you are one?My friend delete this account and learn to act right. faggins: |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by EfemenaXY: 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
faggins: How rude and ungrateful. Why don’t you just move out and go live with your dad instead? |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by kingreign(m): 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
faggins: You're a fool. Is this the reward that innocent poor woman gets for giving birth and training you? Do you know how many times she's gone hungry, thirsty, denied herself of important things her age grades and age mates are acquiring because of you imp? Do you know how many times she's fallen I'll cos of you? How many times she's prolly begged someone who's not worth her pleas just cos of you cow? How many times she's had to clean your shyyte, saliva, catarrh and vomit and stained herself in the process cos of you ungrateful dog? I feel like splitting your head with a knock ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Angy55(f): 9:59pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Patience my dear! Patience! And don't try to talk back at her. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by TheeDetective: 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
@op you well so? Something must be really wrong with you to come out to tell the whole world that you have the worst mother in the world ![]() ![]() She not only pays your school fees but also provides a roof over your head, feeds you, cloths you and gives you money for spending and this is how you say thank you to her? ![]() ![]() Look at the example you give that today your mum was talking to you and you were not listening to what she was saying; very disrespectful of you if you ask me for someone to be talking to you and not paying attention to what they were saying. Whether it is your mum or anybody else, you need to learn some etiquette, and pay attention when people talk to you; as you won't like it either if when you are talking to someone and the person isn't paying attention to you. Listen mate; you need to retract your steps as to why your mum is angry with you (maybe she is not your real mum, a question you can ask her directly) as I see you as a very disrespectful somebody and no wonder your mum behaves in that manner towards you. When you start showing respect to your mum, you will see changes occur. What you need to do now is to have a close door one to one session with your mum and let her know that you will like this unfriendly situation happening between both of you to be resolved. You will like to be close to her, you will like to be able to gist with her and laugh out lough together without this drama that currently exists between both of you. Try that and see if things wouldn’t improve after this method ![]() Lastly, never ever come out again to bring down your mother in this manner; even if you are that angry with her. ENOUGH SAID. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 10:23pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
the family structure among the black race is flawed. Anyone who births a Child has the full responsibility to cater for their own kids. Its not a privilege on the part of the child but a right. If you aren't ready to cater for a kid, don't birth one. Now to the matter, hustle hard and one day it would pay. Just be prepared to leave home cause it might never end. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 10:32pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Diamond23:I love your personal text on ur profile. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by anitapreeti(f): 10:33pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
I pray you don't get go realize how much your mother is worth when you lose her ![]() |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by EfemenaXY: 10:33pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
okotv: From his write up, his mother appears to be the one Training and bringing up the kids alone while the father seems to be a “hands off dad”. Yet the mother is the one bearing the brunt of his insults. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 10:36pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:well, the girl didn't birth herself. The only thing wrong here on the girl side is making the issue public. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Diamond23(f): 10:37pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:Tnxx |
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