tete7000:

And are you meant for me? I am proposing.

No Nigga, am taken

LesbianBoy:
What inspired this thread was a thread that made front-page yesterday about a guy that proposed to his girl in the cinema

So i was imagining she said "no"

What's next?

Guys i would like to hear your opinions, what will you do if you propose and she said "no"

It is been said by peeps who know the duo that he had in past months been sleeping with her friend and as if that wasn't enough, he slept with the friends sister as well. She forgave him through all these months but guessing this was a comeback.

*not a witness though* gotten from other sources

I don't see why the relationship should continue

lilmax:
your wife taught you how to be a man

you be woman before, no be your fault

You got that right. Her ambitions set me on the path to success. She makes sure I don't make rash decisions. Which is what a spouse is supposed to do. Now I'm successful. I know your highest ambitions is to find what to eat on a daily basis so you won't understand .

Friend zone her n go look 4 the original flesh of ur bone

Bollinger:


You got that right. Her ambitions set me on the path to success. She makes sure I don't make rash decisions. Which is what a spouse is supposed to do. Now I'm successful. I know your highest ambitions is to find what to eat on a daily basis so you won't understand .

are you wet already?

how's your husband pounding you? it's a good thing you married the right man though

but tell your husband to teach his children how to be a man, the point to get married, teach them how to manage finances ....so they won't be in the position of being a wife just like you did

your husband deserves awards too ....

All I see on this this thread are religious fanatics and half-witted misogynists. So if a guy proposes to a lady and she says "no", it MUST be her fault... She must be a hoe... after chopping his money, the least she can do is agree to marry him..? Really, guys?? Are you listening to yourselves

After a guy 'spends money' on a lady, the lady MUST marry him? What sorta financial transaction is that and which body or commission regulates it? The Nigerian Association of Misogynists, and Emotionally Immature Dimwits? (NAMEID)

FYI, to the religious fanatics, not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some of them are meant to teach us and make us better partners in our future relationship (s)

Secondly, marriage should only be a subject of discussion for couples who have an almost telepathic understanding of themselves. A man that doesn't understand a woman well enough to even know whether or not she'll accept his proposal, has no business buying a ring.

Thirdly, there's a zillion valid reasons why a lady may decline a marriage proposal. She may not be READY to get married, She may not see him as husband material. Etc. A lot of you penis-wielding jugheads are dating ladies you don't intend marrying right now! You think that luxury is exclusive to you cuz you're a man? Una dey jons!

If a man can decide whether or not he wants to marry the lady he's dating, it's only fair and logical that the lady in question should also be able to decide whether or not she wants to marry the man without anyone calling her names. The man CANNOT make the decision for the both of them. Is an individual sontin.

"WILL YOU MARRY ME? " is nothing but a question and like questions generally, the answer could be negative or positive. The African man should be able to allow his intelligence match his ego and deal with this reality.

Now to the question proper, if a man proposes and she says "no", there are many possibilities here, depending on why she said no in the first place. Her reason (s) for declining the proposal will determine where they go from there.

lilmax:
are you wet already?

how's your husband pounding you? it's a good thing you married the right man though

but tell your husband to teach his children how to be a man, the point to get married, teach them how to manage finances ....so they won't be in the position of being a wife just like you did

your husband deserves awards too ....

Lol. That's what a hungry child would say. Have you eaten today? Phuck am I saying? To eat you need a job don't you?

LesbianBoy:
What inspired this thread was a thread that made front-page yesterday about a guy that proposed to his girl in the cinema

So i was imagining she said "no"

What's next?

Guys i would like to hear your opinions, what will you do if you propose and she said "no"

relationship over
get on with you life

Move on with your tender heart and fall in love again

Nothing special na.

But if we remain friends, na awoof poosie be that.

Bollinger:


Lol. That's what a hungry child would say. Have you eaten today? Phuck am I saying? To eat you need a job don't you?

grownup woman who can't take decisions without guidelines

I know your boss holds your hand everytime so you won't feel alone

your weakness is irritating, wetin you cook sef?

lilmax:
grownup woman who can't take decisions without guidelines

I know your boss holds your hand everytime so you won't feel alone

your weakness is irritating, wetin you cook sef?

Lol. I'm every woman's dream. A spouse that complements them. Oh by the way, we are at the grocery store doing some shopping and I relayed your message so she asked me to give the middle finger. Like it?

na to move on na, women plenty for town

Bollinger:


Lol. I'm every woman's dream. A spouse that complements them. Oh by the way, we are at the grocery store doing some shopping and I relayed your message so she asked me to give the middle finger. Like it?

you are every man's dream?

as for the middle finger, the same finger he uses to finger your brain out so you'll ask him for directions in your life because you can't make good decisions? no thanks....

now I know where your problem started ...you're brainless

of course, you called your husband for help, what was I thinking

lilmax:
you are every man's dream?

as for the middle finger, the same finger he uses to finger your brain out so you'll ask him for directions in your life because you can't make good decisions? no thanks....

now I know where your problem started ...you're brainless

Loooooooool. You got that right. Every woman's dream. She also controls my impulses. Makes sure it doesn't go haywire. Last month I wanted a new toy and almost bought a spyder 2017. She talked me out it. "Do we really need it?" She said. That's a spouse right. What did you significant other help you with. I'm pretty sure she hid the last garri in the house make you no finish am. . That's your best and most important possession.

Bollinger:


Loooooooool. You got that right. Every woman's dream. She also controls my impulses. Makes sure it doesn't go haywire. Last month I wanted a new toy and almost bought a spyder 2017. She talked me out it. "Do we really need it?" She said. That's a spouse right. What did you significant other help you with. I'm pretty sure she hid the last garri in the house make you no finish am. . That's your best and most important possession.

exactly... you need a man

he talked you out of it because you don't have brain to think of yourself, you are still a kid to crown it all, he guides you from making wrong decisions na

see as you dey do aproko like woman sef, you just dey tell me your family matter

confirm woman .....so what did your husband stopped you from doing again?


so what do your sons do? girls brigade? super falcons?

lilmax:
exactly... you need a man

he talked you out of it because you don't have brain to think of yourself, you are still a kid to crown it all, he guides you from making wrong decisions na

see as you dey do aproko like woman sef, you just dey tell me your family matter

confirm woman .....so what did your husband stopped you from doing again?


so what do your sons do? girls brigade? super falcons?

Lol. You are probably 12 years old. Smh. Again that is what spouses do. Guide and complement themselves. Meanwhile, i didn't buy the spyder. Guess what i bought in it's place. A 2003 boxster. Sweet ride. You should get one. Oops. You are unemployed. Sorry.

cerowo:

No Nigga, am taken

Oh!, I moved. Good luck to me. Just like you advised.

Ijebube:
next step..he sets her nd her family on fire

Shooo, na female dey talk this? Your family on fire?

na dem sabi.... some ladies do not like open show... maybe she might have love the guy but the approach might've mistaken

[b][/b]he should just try again laterhe should just try again later

Edonojie007:

Thats Why I Said,nairaland Girls Are Disgusting...!
See The Kind Advice Wey You Dey Give People; I Believe Thats The Way You Roll.
My Friend!!....If You Are Not Ready To Get Married,dont Date!
Or You Are Just A Bleep-mate,nothing Differentiate You From A Hoe!
Period!!

Can you actually read and comprehend at all?

marvin902:
why would she even allow the relationship to get to that point..
if she knew she wasn't going to take that big step forward
stupid trash

Sometimes, it’s not as simple as that.

Some might not be ready yet. Maybe, if the guy dropped some hits privately, she have explained and the whole embarrassment show would have been avoided.

desreek9:
Smh for the guys above that said she stayed becos of money, is everything about money? why do most guys in this forum have this mentality, everything is not about money.
There would have been some signs from the lady showing that she is no more interested, e.g
withdrawal, lack of interest in anything involving him etc. so it's either he chose to ignore the signs or he believed there was no way she would say no.

As for the lady, maybe she was looking for a perfect opportunity to be done with him although this situation was rather embarrassing.

Your eyes and Lips though.

Ijebube:
next step..he sets her nd her family on fire

Chai! you no get chill at all.

opestein:
una see una lives?

lol, and what's your own bros

You move on... You can't force marriage.. Accept your faith and proceed to the next available. There are plenty fishes in the water. Though you will be pained but be courageous.

Ijebube:
next step..he sets her nd her family on fire

with this answer, are you from Ondo state

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