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Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by cerowo(f): 4:06pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
tete7000:No Nigga, am taken |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by mcPhuture(m): 4:15pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
LesbianBoy: It is been said by peeps who know the duo that he had in past months been sleeping with her friend and as if that wasn't enough, he slept with the friends sister as well. She forgave him through all these months but guessing this was a comeback. *not a witness though* gotten from other sources |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
I don't see why the relationship should continue |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Bollinger(m): 4:20pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
lilmax: You got that right. Her ambitions set me on the path to success. She makes sure I don't make rash decisions. Which is what a spouse is supposed to do. Now I'm successful. I know your highest ambitions is to find what to eat on a daily basis so you won't understand . 2 Likes |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Swazzkid(m): 4:24pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Friend zone her n go look 4 the original flesh of ur bone |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by lilmax(m): 4:30pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Bollinger:are you wet already? how's your husband pounding you? it's a good thing you married the right man though but tell your husband to teach his children how to be a man, the point to get married, teach them how to manage finances ....so they won't be in the position of being a wife just like you did your husband deserves awards too .... |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Beemhan(m): 4:40pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
All I see on this this thread are religious fanatics and half-witted misogynists. So if a guy proposes to a lady and she says "no", it MUST be her fault... She must be a hoe... after chopping his money, the least she can do is agree to marry him..? Really, guys?? Are you listening to yourselves After a guy 'spends money' on a lady, the lady MUST marry him? What sorta financial transaction is that and which body or commission regulates it? The Nigerian Association of Misogynists, and Emotionally Immature Dimwits? (NAMEID) FYI, to the religious fanatics, not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some of them are meant to teach us and make us better partners in our future relationship (s) Secondly, marriage should only be a subject of discussion for couples who have an almost telepathic understanding of themselves. A man that doesn't understand a woman well enough to even know whether or not she'll accept his proposal, has no business buying a ring. Thirdly, there's a zillion valid reasons why a lady may decline a marriage proposal. She may not be READY to get married, She may not see him as husband material. Etc. A lot of you penis-wielding jugheads are dating ladies you don't intend marrying right now! You think that luxury is exclusive to you cuz you're a man? Una dey jons! If a man can decide whether or not he wants to marry the lady he's dating, it's only fair and logical that the lady in question should also be able to decide whether or not she wants to marry the man without anyone calling her names. The man CANNOT make the decision for the both of them. Is an individual sontin. "WILL YOU MARRY ME? " is nothing but a question and like questions generally, the answer could be negative or positive. The African man should be able to allow his intelligence match his ego and deal with this reality. Now to the question proper, if a man proposes and she says "no", there are many possibilities here, depending on why she said no in the first place. Her reason (s) for declining the proposal will determine where they go from there. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Bollinger(m): 4:42pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
lilmax: Lol. That's what a hungry child would say. Have you eaten today? Phuck am I saying? To eat you need a job don't you? 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Lules(f): 4:43pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
LesbianBoy:relationship over get on with you life |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Iphran6: 4:48pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Move on with your tender heart and fall in love again |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Spidermon: 4:53pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Nothing special na. But if we remain friends, na awoof poosie be that. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by lilmax(m): 4:54pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Bollinger:grownup woman who can't take decisions without guidelines I know your boss holds your hand everytime so you won't feel alone your weakness is irritating, wetin you cook sef? |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Bollinger(m): 5:04pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
lilmax: Lol. I'm every woman's dream. A spouse that complements them. Oh by the way, we are at the grocery store doing some shopping and I relayed your message so she asked me to give the middle finger. Like it?
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Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Mommydaniella: 5:07pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
na to move on na, women plenty for town |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by lilmax(m): 5:16pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Bollinger:you are every man's dream? as for the middle finger, the same finger he uses to finger your brain out so you'll ask him for directions in your life because you can't make good decisions? no thanks.... now I know where your problem started ...you're brainless of course, you called your husband for help, what was I thinking |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Bollinger(m): 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
lilmax: Loooooooool. You got that right. Every woman's dream. She also controls my impulses. Makes sure it doesn't go haywire. Last month I wanted a new toy and almost bought a spyder 2017. She talked me out it. "Do we really need it?" She said. That's a spouse right. What did you significant other help you with. I'm pretty sure she hid the last garri in the house make you no finish am. . That's your best and most important possession. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by lilmax(m): 5:37pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Bollinger:exactly... you need a man he talked you out of it because you don't have brain to think of yourself, you are still a kid to crown it all, he guides you from making wrong decisions na see as you dey do aproko like woman sef, you just dey tell me your family matter confirm woman .....so what did your husband stopped you from doing again? so what do your sons do? girls brigade? super falcons? |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Bollinger(m): 5:41pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
lilmax: Lol. You are probably 12 years old. Smh. Again that is what spouses do. Guide and complement themselves. Meanwhile, i didn't buy the spyder. Guess what i bought in it's place. A 2003 boxster. Sweet ride. You should get one. Oops. You are unemployed. Sorry. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by tete7000(m): 5:57pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
cerowo: Oh!, I moved. Good luck to me. Just like you advised. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by GindoX(m): 5:59pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Ijebube: Shooo, na female dey talk this? Your family on fire? |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by nkemjacob2(m): 6:00pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
na dem sabi.... some ladies do not like open show... maybe she might have love the guy but the approach might've mistaken |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Tayo2018(m): 6:37pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
[b][/b]he should just try again laterhe should just try again later |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Edonojie007:Can you actually read and comprehend at all? |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by linearity: 7:07pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
marvin902: Sometimes, it’s not as simple as that. Some might not be ready yet. Maybe, if the guy dropped some hits privately, she have explained and the whole embarrassment show would have been avoided. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
desreek9: Your eyes and Lips though. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Ijebube: Chai! you no get chill at all. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by kaymical(m): 7:38pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
opestein:lol, and what's your own bros |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by LoveDocAdeshina(m): 8:14pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
You move on... You can't force marriage.. Accept your faith and proceed to the next available. There are plenty fishes in the water. Though you will be pained but be courageous. |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Ijebube:with this answer, are you from Ondo state |
Re: If A Man Proposes Marriage And She Refuses. What Next? by Liams24(m): 9:21pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
March forwardMarch forwardMarch forward |
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