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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Codes151(m): 8:34pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Her salary! Do what u want with urs |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by charmosky(m): 8:34pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
is important to know you love your wife and you both are new wed... i might not be the best person to advice you, but as a man, you need to handle this matter caution... is a very sensitive matter, to handle this matter, my candid advice will be to show her love more love than ever, dont let her feel you are more concerned with her salary, show her more love, get her to trust you on this matter....then she weakened, and work on her..get her to see the bigger picture of what you guys have ahead and need to accomplish together..... |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by GoodFaith: 8:36pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Phi001: marriage is a team (one) U don't know if it affect the family |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by makydebbie(f): 8:37pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
TheUbermensch:Honestly it's annoying! Every little thing, they'll be saying they should leave their partners as if that's how relationship works and most of these folks endure rubbish in their relationships then come here to form alpha males. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 8:39pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
tonytony208:My dear, I'm a core kingdom man, I will never tarnish the image of any church. I believe we are all children of the kingdom. I used to follow her to her charismatic renewal prayer section any time I'm chance. Even yesterday, we went to "chapel" (a silent place for prayer) in her catholic church and we prayed for hours. I don't discriminate between denominations. God is more concerned about nations and generations, not denominations. God bless..... 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by sirabbey(m): 8:42pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome: I think you are wrong also. God is a God of order and is not the author of confusion. Spiritual level rating or not, the husband is the head of the wife, and God recognizes it so, nay scratch that, the husband is the head of the wife and God made it so and honours it as well. Spiritual level rating or not. It is no wonder, the bible says a husband has the spiritual authority over his wife and can even cancel the vows she made to God without her husband knowledge. Giving to the Reverend gentlemen is a commendable act of faith but doing it without his husband knowledge and agreement is spiritual rascality and is condemnable. See Num 30:6-16 6 [b]“Now suppose a young woman makes a vow or binds herself with an impulsive pledge and later marries. 7 If her husband learns of her vow or pledge and does not object on the day he hears of it, her vows and pledges will stand. 8 But if her husband refuses to accept her vow or impulsive pledge on the day he hears of it, he nullifies her commitments, and the LORD will forgive her. 9 If, however, a woman is a widow or is divorced, she must fulfill all her vows and pledges. 10 “But suppose a woman is married and living in her husband’s home when she makes a vow or binds herself with a pledge. 11 If her husband hears of it and does not object to it, her vow or pledge will stand. 12 But if her husband refuses to accept it on the day he hears of it, her vow or pledge will be nullified, and the LORD will forgive her. 13 So her husband may either confirm or nullify any vows or pledges she makes to deny herself. 14 But if he does not object on the day he hears of it, then he is agreeing to all her vows and pledges. 15 If he waits more than a day and then tries to nullify a vow or pledge, he will be punished for her guilt.” 16 These are the regulations the LORD gave Moses concerning relationships between a man and his wife, and between a father and a young daughter who still lives at home.[/b] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nancy2016: 8:43pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Guysses: This is a big fat lie. There is nothing like sowing of seeds in the Catholic church. During offering, a basket is sent out or people walk up to the front to drop their offerings. You are encouraged to give what you can afford and no mention is made of tithes. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Op, i wudnt say it is wrong but you have to caution ur wife, talk to her so she wont repeat it again Since she said the holy spirit spoke to her to give the pastor, she would later come with other revelations saying that the holy spirit told her to do this and that and the circle continues, believe me it will take a toll on your marriage. Speaking from experience, mine was too much,we had to leave the church. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lookingfly: 8:45pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
ubunja:just shut ur stinking mouth already. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Sheunma: 8:49pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
postmann:how predictable ![]() |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nancy2016: 8:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
tonytony208: That was the same thought I had when I read the op's story. I just thought to myself that maybe the Catholic church in Nigeria has changed its approach because the Catholic church I know does not lay emphasis on tithes and it certainly has no such thing as "sowing of seeds". Sowing of seeds is done in the Pentecostal churches. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by FakeAccount(m): 8:52pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by FakeAccount(m): 8:52pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Espada10: 8:55pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
alexialin:I have been seeing your comment and this is not ass-licking but saying it as I see it... The one good thing I noticed( even in some places I don't agree with you) is how independent you truly are ..not all this nairaland, lazy, broke slayqueens that only make noise here w. Only a woman who have a business of her own and makes her own money will make this kind of comment you just did. 2 Likes
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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by coputa(m): 8:56pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:What is the difference between last fruit and first fruit,in so far it's your entire earnings for that month.Your complaints is unfounded. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Pierohandsome: 8:58pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
sirabbey:That is a vow, a vow is different frm divine instruction. A vow is an oath made to God to fulfill some conditions if God does grants a request. A divine instruction is a command which must be obeyed without seeking for consent Frm anyone and that is what the woman did. Think of it, if she told the husband and he refused what do u think will happen? That will be be worst, at that point is either she obeys God and disorganise her home , or disobey God and bear a more serious consequence for her disobedience. There are certain divine instructions that u dnt need to confide on anybody if u want to obey it, or they wil confuse u |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by brookz: 9:00pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Hahahahahahaha..... 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 9:04pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lookingfly:that will never happen. and you know it. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by babstope05: 9:06pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
It is totally wrong for her to do that without the consent of the husband. Pls read Numbers chapter 30 |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by fpeter(f): 9:07pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome: You're VERY WRONG. If you are a pastor or counsellor never ever tell a couple such crap. The Bible commands that the woman must submit to her husband. You think the submission is just physical? The husband is her spiritual head, he is the priest of the home, he should be consulted before such decisions are taken by his wife. Do you know that as a husband, the man can annul his wife's fast or vows if he's not in agreement? God is not an author of confusion, a believer is admonished to marry a fellow believer so even if she feels she's unequally yoked...she MUST submit to the man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by adelacuna(m): 9:08pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
This is not right, I believe the wife should notify the husband on this before taking any step. "What God has joined together let no one put asunder". 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Andy2274: 9:08pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:. My guy keep your marriage to yourself because a marriage of four months is too young to be on nairaland. Besides I don't think your story is true based on your last paragraph of your complain. Asking if sowing seed is a doctrine in catholic church when your G.O is demanding 1billion naira. In as much I don't support your wife for not telling you, I still doubt the authenticity of your story. If you are a kingdom man as you claim you wouldn't have asked if sowing seed is a doctrine in a church when 80% of RCCG members first salary is used for seed sowing. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Neozy(m): 9:11pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:I don't think it's the best to share your family issues here on social media. You will get different advices that can harm your marriage. My humble opinon. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by bukatyne(f): 9:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Lol! So nairalanders sabi bible like this? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 9:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome:what a load of bull. if she wanted to do it right she should have told her husband BEFORE she made the vow. you people need to understand that once you are married you are one person spread over 2 people.some of the secretive things you used to do as a single person must end. thats why a saying says " a family that prays together stays together". coz the two of you are suppossed to be a team. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by akinejame: 9:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
cerowo: The day you start treating your family like your workplace, you've given thee devil a free VIP ticket into your marriage. Be careful! |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Pierohandsome: 9:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
fpeter:u dnt submit whn it comes to divine instruction. Read that post well, she was divinely instructed to give the priest her whole salary, and u are talking about submission. Should she rather submit to God or man? What she did is not a fulfulment of vow, but a prompt obedience to divine instruction. Vow and divine instruction are not same. What if the husband refuses aFter telling him? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 9:17pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Thank you all for your advice. Me and my wife appreciate your views. I'm not against seed sowing, I felt I should be informed. I hardly turns down her request and I don't discuss my family affair with neighbors or parents, I just posted it here to get random views. I have gave consent to hard request: She has apologized for not telling me before sowing the seed and I have accepted. No love lost...we wish u a prosperous and a praying year.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by nwosu1982: 9:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
AnodaIT:Did u listened to ur sef b4 talking rubbish? So somebody cannot give something to a priest or pastor without his/her partner? Is the wife under age? Did d Rev knew about dia arrangements? Mind wat u r saying & try reason maturedly |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: So you allow people to have say over your Marriage life, i pity your future. I'm a RCCG member i love what your wife did. She's not doing it because of anything else but for God to make your family Fruitful & blessed home. Don't put your trust on animals 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by redsun(m): 9:19pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Reverend fathers are very randy chaps that are almost always in heat like elephant bulls. They know how to spice up the lives of bored and sex starved nigerian housewives. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by fpeter(f): 9:19pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome: I would like to know where you worship. I'd like to understand this new doctrine that seeks to bring division in the home. I am a member of the RCCG and I was thought differently. |
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