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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 10:37am On Jan 05, 2018 |
davidif: BRO, GO AND MARRY YOUR YORUBA WOMEN, I MEAN, HER PARENTS WILL FOOT THE WEDDING EXPENSES. THAT IS WAT U WANT. FIRST AND FOREMOST, NO IGBO PARENT PRAY TO HAND ANY OF THEIR CHILDREN TO NON IGBO, THEIR DREAM IS THAT THEIR CHILD MARRIES FROM THEIR OWN CULTURE. ALL CULTURES, INCLUDING RACES HAVE THIS PRINCIPLE. IT IS DEFENSIVE MECHANISM, AS THEY ASPIRE TO CONTINUE THEIR CULTURE AND KEEP THEIR IDENTITY. SO FOR U TO LEAVE YOUR PLACE AND AN IGBO PARENT WEIVE THEIR DREAM AND ALLOW U A FOREIGNER TO MARRY THEIR DAUGHTER, U SHOULD DO SO QUIETLY AND GO AWAY. 6 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by MizMyColi(f): 10:37am On Jan 05, 2018 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() LoJ: Any discerning person would have seen beyond all that and read you loud and clear. So many things my people do in the name of Omenala I'm just not cool with anymore. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Ikechuob: 10:39am On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6: Thank you. Ironically all the people that have some shit to say are all Yorubas. I swear they make me ridiculously sick. This is why i hate them. The same set of people that shout on top of their lungs that igbos should respect their worthless culture can't even do as they preach. Whenever it comes to igbo culture, they always have some shit to say and trying to get it changed because according to them "it's backwards". I swear that tribe is fucking annoying as hell. Noone forces none igbos to marry igbo women. This is our culture!!!!! If you can't afford the igbo bride bride then GO AND MARRY SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!!!! It is just that simple. Nobody is stopping anyone from seeking a cheaper bride price somewhere else. Why the Bleep should we change our culture to appease y'all broke asses? The Bleep!!! We igbos are content with that culture. If we aren't complaining, the Bleep you complaining for. Go and marry your own women. We'll even prefer that shit even cause y'all niggas are corrupting our bloodline already. Noone forces y'all niggas to marry igbo. NOONE!!! and we sure as hell ain't begging y'all niggas to come into our culture; infact, we even trying to get the hell away from your country so we sure as hell not begging y'all niggas to marry within our community. That brideprice culture was created to test the ability of a man to take care of his family. Children cost money. The brideprice culture for igbo is to test the man's ability to one maintain the wife's lifestyle as well as the future children to come. If a man can't even afford a brideprice talkless a traditional wedding, then the said man is not yet ripe for family. That's why igbos have no problem with the culture because it test our ability as men. In addition, it reduces chance of marriage problem and reduces chances of divorce. As even studies have proven our ancestors accurate that the number one conflicts for couples is finance. For those of your morons that do not know jack shit about igbo culture but always got some shit to say. Bleep off to all the non igbo that shit to say about any igbo culture. Bleep off and go and die. Eediots. As for that girl. I don't blame her. I blame her parents for bringing such a classless, idiotic girl into this this world. I am extremely proud of her parents for marrying off to a non igbo. We really need to start pushing off all this uneducated, poor mannered and worthless igbo children away. We really don't need this type within our midst. What child goes on social media to degrade her family? Likewise her so called ethnicity? And worse her culture? Nothing but a classless girl with zero respect for herself. In effort to insult her father, the idiot insulted her husband as well because she just exposed how broke her husband is. Likewise, how low she views herself because by the sound of it she paid a significant part of her bride price as well. How desperate do you have to be to pay for your brideprice? How desperate do you have to be? Tufiakwa i pray none of my sisters ever copy that shit. The same for any igbo girl out there. Don't you females ever pay for your brideprice. Never!!!! If your suitor can't pay it, lady he can't take of you and your children 5 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 10:48am On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6: Not everyone "leaves their place and looks for a foreigner to marry". Some people simply just run into other people that they are attracted to and who they have chemistry with and that they happen to have chemistry with. That's life and that's part of the human experience. In simpler terms, love just happens and it is a beautiful thing until all the ugliness like greed, prejudice, tradition and tribalism begin to come into play. No one is born from the womb hating someone of a different tribe, its something they learn from their parents, friends and their society. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 10:56am On Jan 05, 2018 |
oyb: Please tell them jare. |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 10:56am On Jan 05, 2018 |
davidif: U ARE THE SAME PEOPLE THAT SPEND MILLIONS ON OWAMBE BUT DAT LOVE CANNOT DRIVE U TO SPEND MILLION ON UR OWN WEDDING. IGBO CULTURE VIEW WEDDING AS ONCE IN A LIFE TIME OCCASION. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGw5BKRQO8w 2 Likes
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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 11:03am On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6: First of all not every Yoruba person spends money on "owambe" so get your facts straight. Secondly, marriage is a beautiful and honorable thing but unfortunately some unscrupulous and greedy families have commercialized it and used it as an avenue to satisfy their lust for money. The truth of the matter is that some people are simply slaves to greed and won't mind selling their own children for money. Utterly shameless. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6: 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6: Ozuo!!! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 11:09am On Jan 05, 2018 |
[s] davidif:[/s] GUY, U SOUND BROKE, GET OFF LINE AND FIND A PROPER MEANS OF MAKING MONEY. I AM TIRED OF ALL UR EXCUSES AND LOVE DEFNCE RUBBISH. MARRIAGES THESE DAYS ARE HIGHLY FINANCIAL AND HAVE VERY LITTLE TO DO WITH LOVE. U MUST BE BRINGING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE AND UR PARTNER MOST COMPLIMENT YOUR EFFORT IN HIS OR HER OWN WAY. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 11:19am On Jan 05, 2018 |
CaptainG00D: Goodness! Some of you are just simply slaves to tradition its so sad. In this day and age where we have gone to school and we have the ability to reason objectively and with logic yet some people still succumb to pathetic traditions. News flash: not all traditions are right. In fact, some are just plain evil like the old calabar tradition of killing twins. This right here is just an example of human greed hiding under the guise of tradition. |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 11:20am On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6: So marriage is all about money right? Gotcha! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 11:23am On Jan 05, 2018 |
davidif: TODAY YES! NOT EVEN THE OCCASION, DAT IS JUST CEREMONY. UR LIFE PARTNER WANT TO KNOW WAT U DO FOR A LIVING. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 11:31am On Jan 05, 2018 |
olawonder: You dey mind Nigerians? You know a lot of them are not the most enlightened species in the universe. If you expose abuse instead of them condemning it they wout even jump on you and possibly tear you into pieces. |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by berrystunn(m): 11:37am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Bigsteveg: What do you know about Igbo's and their traditions ? Every village in Igbo land have their different requirements for traditional marriage. They will provide you a list and all the steps needed for the traditional marriage... No body will force the list on you if you are not capable, Or if you needed more time or years to get things done.. No problem The stupid girl saw the list or know about the requirements before the marriage... But she waited till after the marriage... Before she oppose the list in public... For your information is not the Father , the list is from the village community/kinsmen. That is the reason why they take the marriage to the village ,If not the father will choose to receive his in-laws in Lagos or else where.... 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by davidif: 11:38am On Jan 05, 2018 |
macof: Dude the fact that something has been done for thousands of years don't make it right it simply means that people didn't know any bettter like the killing of twins in old calabar. You are a twenty first century man who probably went to school and has being taught to think critically and to question things whether you agree with them or not so start using your knowledge and try being objective instead of falling back on the tired old crutch of "culture". Wrong is wrong and right is right irrespective of how long it has been practiced. This here is greed plain and simple and that family should be ashamed of themselves. Stop being a slave to tradition and be free of unnecessary shackles biko. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by tossie101(f): 11:44am On Jan 05, 2018 |
ashjay001: Sorry but u are rolling with prostitutes. Thats why they accept ur "offers" Act and dress responsibly and u will meet well behaved girls 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by vaca1: 11:45am On Jan 05, 2018 |
humilitypays:confirmed 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by almarufade(m): 11:46am On Jan 05, 2018 |
CaptainG00D:And there daughters will became grand ma in there house [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Id4Jesus: 11:47am On Jan 05, 2018 |
PearlStreet:Hahahaha... Nairalanders na wah o |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by vaca1: 11:50am On Jan 05, 2018 |
wtfcoded:well said bro. well said. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by vaca1: 11:52am On Jan 05, 2018 |
loveth361:nada. no way. don't say that pls |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 11:57am On Jan 05, 2018 |
berrystunn: WHILE BUHARI COLLECT 12 GOLD COIN ON ZAHRA FOR HIS OWN POCKET AS BRIDE PRICE. LAZY ASS MEN THAT ABANDON THEIR FREE WOMEN, WANT WHO EXACTLY TO FOOT THEIR WEDDING EXPENSES IN IGBOLAND? 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
humilitypays:There's no tautau discrimination..tautau is tautau... ![]() |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Bigsteveg(m): 12:01pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
berrystunn:I agree with you on the girl attitude. Back to the village wedding, it should not be so. Girl child should not be a commodity where the whole village will cash on. Also, being able to meet up with the bride requirements does not mean the man will be able to take care of the woman. It can even make it worse because the man has this sense of him acquiring the woman like a yam u buy in the market. |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by seniorkachion(m): 12:01pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
Onyi42: Don't mind the fool. I paid #60 for my wife from Igbere 12 yrs ago. My total expense was 35k including hiring transport for my kinsmen. |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
hammerF6:If she's not a virgin...she's a O...why discriminate? |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by adescopy(m): 12:25pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
humilitypays:I'm not sure you know what you are saying about Yoruba wedding party. Do know for record purpose that the wedding party as you call it in yoruba instance is majorly from the bride side; the groom only contribute a little to the reception. So know that in south west spending, its spend and I spent. |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
CaptainG00D:my dear, i'm fine o, BEDC dey play with their selves |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by kakacoke01: 1:05pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
CaptainG00D:are you sure u re normal |
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by CaptainGOOD: 1:10pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34: Lols..ok boo. But help me on that "ABCDEF" part ![]() I dont seem to get that part clearly. ![]() |
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