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Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by macdonaldik: 8:19am On Jan 23, 2018 |
NarnieSnyper: See your role model. Smh 1 Like |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by XingXhang(m): 8:20am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess:your moniker is you |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by XingXhang(m): 8:22am On Jan 23, 2018 |
BIXYBABE: That's how you ladies see it. It's normal. 1 Like |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:22am On Jan 23, 2018 |
BIXYBABE: I agree, plenty men just refuse to marry for no legitimate reasons. Me too was in that category before, i'm now out sha...Praise d Lord. |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:23am On Jan 23, 2018 |
timilinda: Marriage is a good thing, stop deluding yourself 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:25am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: You're trying too hard, stop it. What's the guarantee you will hammer or make the right decisions in your so-called conquest? 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by XingXhang(m): 8:26am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Shortyy: Wow, don't worry, this year; a Rich and 'Godfearing' man will find you. Say AMEN to that. 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:27am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Zykod:In life there are no guarantees, but if you work hard and smart, you'll always get somewhere. And until I achieve my goals, i won't stop. If you like call it "trying too hard" that's your business. Why don't you try stop hustling and gear your whole life towards finding a rich woman who'll take care of your bills? Sound ridiculous to You? Yea me too |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: Lol. You're grinding my balls @ Why don't you try stop hustling and gear your whole life towards finding a rich woman who'll take care of your bills? Sound ridiculous to You? Yea me too Stop playing smart, find a man, or rather, let yourself be found and stop all of these.... 1 Like |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 23, 2018 |
XingXhang:Yes I have trust issues, it's actually a good thing imo |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Shortyy: If i slap you. You call the ebst thread i've seen in years, a dumb ass thread. If i slap you eh 4 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:33am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Zykod: ![]() See how y'all get mad at a woman who wants to be independent, but will be the same ones to complain that Nigerian girls are too dependent on men for everything? It's a cultural flaw |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by XingXhang(m): 8:34am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: For whatever reason: I think we resent what we really are (psychologically speaking). It states that if a person is not trust worthy, they won't trust others. Scan through your values and make propositions according to wisdom. |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:38am On Jan 23, 2018 |
XingXhang:Nope, that's not why. It's a defense mechanism actually. You trust no One, therefore you have little to no expectations of them so when they mess up (as humans do), there's no hurt or disappointment because you had no expectations in the first place |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:39am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: You're trying too hard. This is the essence of this thread. I know your kinds, you live and exist for the rules, and not for the essence of life, which is " living ". I'm 100% sure you will achieve all you dream of, even without a man, but when you have achieved it, you'll turn back, and wish you could have done things differently, trust me, a man the entire world once knew and recognized as the wisest man in his entire generation and 300 years more practiced this same principle of yours, towards the end of his life, he recorded it down, expressing his regrets, and how vain his pursuits were. Nothing beats a life with happiness, satisfaction, laughter, and the little positive things...I won't be in your future, i could be as well,but you'll remember this comment, you're on a path of vanity, and you're been misguided by vain rules and principles. True happiness exists, even though not through a man, but in moderation attaining the little things that fills our souls and makes us satisfied.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:40am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Shortyy: Which obvious ? ![]() Go and read what the op posted That's the truth i And if you not pained by what he said, you will not be out here blabbing so you have been constantly called an hoe So you need a new name What about "biach" Is that 2018 like? Me small Dick? Biach Go and tighten your vagina I will buy a sex doll, thank yOu Her Pussy doesn't smell like fish.. Also, Who cares about you? Well the Oracle that the yahoo boys uses, may care though My momma? I don't blame you and that thing you call a mom I blame your grandma who herself lacks home training ,how will she train your mother and your mother train you. So sad Pained about what exactly? Na me dey go Shiloh? .or na me sey use cucumber? You self go and get a butt and breast implant Oloshi oniranu P.S Go and die 3 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by XingXhang(m): 8:40am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: But do you (inside you) wants others to trust you at least? 1 Like |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Zykod:Read the last part of my previous post again. We're saying the exact same thing : When you give yourself multiple sources of happiness, one missing source won't make a big difference. |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: Psychological defense mechanisms, that's why this generation doesn't love right. All these insecure elements are the reason love is now complicated. You don't want to be hurt blah blah blah, see what ever actions protrudes from negativity can never be healthy, which is why y'all intelligent and seemingly sophisticated ladies can't find love, you make it too mechanical like it's rocket science. It is what is expected, when you all gather to listen to tales of good marriages turn bad, you begin to setup complex barriers in your mind, that unknown to your peers keeps you chained, in bondage and limited, imprisoned, when the less-intelligent ones are getting married, staying married, and being happy in it. Your complexities drives you to a state of confusion,a haphazard existence where you're tossed to and fro, never having peace, or being in peace, in constant watch against betrayal. Your minds needs cleansing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:43am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: When you give yourself multiple sources of happiness, one missing source won't make a big difference. Hypothetical until proven. Marriage opens doors to multiple sources.... You just mumbled up rules to keep yourself in your self-limiting prison. Your mind's warped. 1 Like |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:45am On Jan 23, 2018 |
XingXhang: Legitimate question. Deep down inside, they have yearnings they can never confide in anyone. Leave them. When they hit 45, the regrets begin to come....If Solomon could regret his path and his ways, these ones are too small bro 3 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:45am On Jan 23, 2018 |
maynia: Lol @ Na me dey go Shiloh? You wicked, i swear ! 1 Like |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:47am On Jan 23, 2018 |
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Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:49am On Jan 23, 2018 |
maynia: I've noticed. Last time i was @ Shiloh, omo over 50 chicks had their eyes droolling over me and my buddy, like say them never see man before, i felt pity for them, all looking forward to something that may not come... Damn, i've enjoyed this thread, see you guys later in d day, make i rush go sell pure water today 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by timilinda(f): 8:51am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Zykod: U say I'm deluding myself? I'm happily married with 3 kids ok. I've been married for 10yrs nw. All I'm saying is that marriage is NOT THE ONLY criterium to happiness. Also y is it always a woman's fault if she's nt married before the age of 30 (I got married at 26 so dont think I'm "deluded" on that too). |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:51am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Zykod:My lack of trust doesn't only mean I won't trust a man I'm in a relationship with, it means I trust no One. Absolutely no one. I see nothing wrong with it, and of course I won't tell people that I don't trust them but I really don't. Love has always been complicated, not just now and it isn't just a result of trust issues or psychological defense mechanisms And by the way, as you might have noticed from our recent exchange, life to me isn't a competition for who gets happily married first so, so called "less intelligent" ladies finding a husband before I do (if I ever do, lol) doesn't bother me |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:52am On Jan 23, 2018 |
timilinda: Tell the young one the truth, the way you talk am, marriage is not an achievement is hypocritical and weird, are your lovely kids not a beautiful thing if we don't even talk about other attachments? Whatever you lack or look forward to in marriage is okay, but your kids nko? No be achievement? |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:54am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Zykod:You don't have to wait for marriage to open such doors. Having money will make me happy so I'll work hard, being a mother will make me happy so I'll adopt or visit a sperm bank, having my family makes me happy so I'll visit them often, I'll have friends at work and outside of work. These are multiple sources of happiness that one can get without marriage. To me, marriage is what they call "jara". Not a necessity (well not to me anyway) |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: I can relate, perhaps e belong to the same team, cool down on the hustle, i've been there, threw ladies away just to make money, in the end, it comes calling you need a partner, money doesn't fill that hole, i know so, cause i've been there, in fact crisis many times comes and take much of the same money self. Our associations can not be affected if managed right, but money, no guarantees babe. Nice chatting, i've gotta roll now |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 8:56am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: Anyone waiting for marriage as an access to open doors is a dimwit, i simply said marriage is a corridor to many open doors....Marriage isn't jara, you're fixated on your ideals, dildos won't satisfy ya bae ![]() |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by Nobody: 9:01am On Jan 23, 2018 |
XingXhang:Would be like an honour to know that someone trusts me but I don't expect it and I don't mind if they don't |
Re: 14 Behavioural Changes In Ladies As They Advance In Age (Pictures) by XingXhang(m): 9:04am On Jan 23, 2018 |
trustyshoess: I would love to recommend a book for you, that's if you are the reading type. Trust is a compulsory ingredient for any friendship to thrive. 1 Like |
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