pocohantas:
LOL.
One was kinda 'cocky', he asked for my number and I declined.
He said something like, "I'm not a nice/patient guy, I won't ask you for this a second time". He kept to his words and I liked that. He is a NLder, nice guy, but I didn't want that 'closeness' .

There was this one that kept going on and off. Said so many nonsense, then he prophesied how I will never get married or have kids. My village people have tied me and he wants to help with my deliverance... more nonsense again. I couldn't keep up

Jman06:
I still wonder why guys are the ones fighting more to have ladies, yet we keep hearing that there are more ladies than guys.

Please if one lady turns you down, move on to the next!

The last thing i'll do in this life is whine for being rejected by a lady. Some guys don't know their worth sha!

Gangster1ms:

Girls like u are usually very ugly.. no ass no boobs.. then u come online and be forming queen that u are not. Smh

JudgementHammer:
Unfortunately women have no or perhaps only neglible experience in handling rejection as men do. They never know how d feeling is. That's why they give it the way they can't accept. The best way is still to avoid gradually and in silence.

Abi how would one explain a man who have carefully thought of how to approach a girl he's being admiring for about 4weeks only to get a rude response. My dear the wisest thing ur mind would think of at the moment is to break her too for a balanced feeling..its a very normal psychic and its nothing to be shy about. When you say or do a mind-breaking thing in return, you'll get that attention somehow even if its not a date-me attention anymore and you'll relieve ur mind of stress for a longer life.

That's what I'm good at o and I just want to be better.

TheSuperNerd:


Loooollll.... So just because she is saying her mind, she now belongs to the ugly crew right?

Man... I think you are an example of the kind of guy who will throw a tantrum when a woman rejects you. Just look at how you downgraded the lady for sharing her honest and educative opinion.

And don't even cross the line of saying I am an asslicker... That is what guys with no better intellectual response will do just because a man speaks up boldy and truthfully for a lady here. Look, we got lots of asslickers on NL... But I surely ain't one of them and can never ever be.

Your attack on the lady is lame and childish man. Grow up. Lol

Jman06:
I still wonder why guys are the ones fighting more to have ladies, yet we keep hearing that there are more ladies than guys.

Please if one lady turns you down, move on to the next!

The last thing i'll do in this life is whine for being rejected by a lady. Some guys don't know their worth sha!

JayIlych:
This is another reason i rarely approach girls again directly. Bunch of rude, self-centered bítches.

That was how i was with a fine gal at an atm, the machine wasnt paying, 2geda we walked to another bank to withdraw. On the way, we got talking. Found out we were from the same local govt, she laughed at my jokes and all.
Oya after she finished withdrawing, she waited for me. Then i asked for her number, she just smiled and told me she was scared i'll ask her that, then politely declined.

I quote "if God designs us to meet again, i'll give you my number".

AFTER ALL THE GREEN LIGHT?

Confused humans!.

I still don't see myself being abusive or threatening a gal when jilted/rejected.

Personally, i've always known that the secret of making a girl give u her mumu button is NEVER to ask/collect number on the first meeting.

Dimples129:
You ain't all that anyway, Biatch
#Classics

Dimples129:
You ain't all that anyway, Biatch
#Classics

Gangster1ms:

Guy forget.. it's not the matter of this topic... I've been observing her posts when it comes to matters relating to this.. always claiming right in every of them and insulting guys. I swear she is the ugly type.. that's how they behave.

lefulefu:
there was this story i saw on investigative discovery channel where this beautiful lady narrated how she was beaten up by a guy and eventually the guy used his Prado jeep to run over her three times all because she rejected his advances. Her spinal cord got broken and she's now a cripple for life.When i watched the story i almost cried.any man who feels like doing physical harm to a lady cos she told him she ain't interested is mentally sick and a psycho. If a babe say she no want just waka and let her be.other babes boku.

Gangster1ms:

Guy forget.. it's not the matter of this topic... I've been observing her posts when it comes to matters relating to this.. always claiming right in every of them and insulting guys. I swear she is the ugly type.. that's how they behave.

pocohantas:
LOL.
One was kinda 'cocky', he asked for my number and I declined.
He said something like, "I'm not a nice/patient guy, I won't ask you for this a second time". He kept to his words and I liked that. He is a NLder, nice guy, but I didn't want that 'closeness' .

There was this one that kept going on and off. Said so many nonsense, then he prophesied how I will never get married or have kids. My village people have tied me and he wants to help with my deliverance... more nonsense again. I couldn't keep up

JayIlych:
This is another reason i rarely approach girls again directly. Bunch of rude, self-centered bítches.

That was how i was with a fine gal at an atm, the machine wasnt paying, 2geda we walked to another bank to withdraw. On the way, we got talking. Found out we were from the same local govt, she laughed at my jokes and all.
Oya after she finished withdrawing, she waited for me. Then i asked for her number, she just smiled and told me she was scared i'll ask her that, then politely declined.

I quote "if God designs us to meet again, i'll give you my number".

AFTER ALL THE GREEN LIGHT?

Confused humans!.

I still don't see myself being abusive or threatening a gal when jilted/rejected.

Personally, i've always known that the secret of making a girl give u her mumu button is NEVER to ask/collect number on the first meeting.

TheSuperNerd:
Now this is one of the worst kinds of scenarios I pray no lady get into. Just imagine!

I think our ladies should be very careful about guys they engage too. Sometimes, it is safer not just giving some men audience because it is from stopping to listen to him that things can really get awkward and very very bad.

We got men with huge psycho issues out there who just cannot handle rejection. I have seen some cases related to your story Sir Lefu... Very very sad indeed. And the thing is no matter how polite the lady was, the man would still feel offended and want to get his "revenge" by hurting you for rejecting him.

Our ladies just have to learn to be discerning of such guys to avoid such encounters. They are usually very sweet and smart-like. My God, you would think you have met Prince charming even... Some are also kinda awkwardly social but sweet in convo. Sometimes you just cannot tell the difference between a real cool guy with a good heart and these sort of psychos or men with low self esteem who cannot handle a "NO". Our ladies should not engage every guy who tries to stop them to have a small talk... Sometimes, ignoring or doing as if you never heard is the best way to go to avoid you having to say no and then later suffer a car accident caused by same man just because you refuse to give him your number.

It is a sad story Sir Lefu and many more cases like this still happen in today's world. Our ladies should be more discerning and careful. Really must not engage every guy not even for a hi. Some things are just best avoided.

JayIlych:
This is another reason i rarely approach girls again directly. Bunch of rude, self-centered bítches.

That was how i was with a fine gal at an atm, the machine wasnt paying, 2geda we walked to another bank to withdraw. On the way, we got talking. Found out we were from the same local govt, she laughed at my jokes and all.
Oya after she finished withdrawing, she waited for me. Then i asked for her number, she just smiled and told me she was scared i'll ask her that, then politely declined.

I quote "if God designs us to meet again, i'll give you my number".

AFTER ALL THE GREEN LIGHT?

Confused humans!.

I still don't see myself being abusive or threatening a gal when jilted/rejected.

Personally, i've always known that the secret of making a girl give u her mumu button is NEVER to ask/collect number on the first meeting.

Gangster1ms:

Guy forget.. it's not the matter of this topic... I've been observing her posts when it comes to matters relating to this.. always claiming right in every of them and insulting guys. I swear she is the ugly type.. that's how they behave.

Gangster1ms:

Girls that will eventually reap u off... supposing the girl said yes then what next? We are still in the loosing end cos the highest we fit gain na pussy. We guys too mumu abeg...

mrphysics:


Bros fear God nah. That story can't happen in Nigeria. And I think you are overthinking this issue. Guy calm down. Ladies only get threats and insults from guys that can't handle rejection. All those threats and insults are empty and nothing more. How often do we hear stories of serious scenes or attacks taken after one get's rejected. Abeg forget all these long epistles.

mrphysics:

Bros, if I will advise you, I will only recommend you forget about this battle you are about to start.

Let everyone air their opinion bro, they have the right to and we should not forbid them from doing that.

Having said that, the lady you are about to start the battle with is equal to the task. Ever heard of antibrutus? . It literally means aunty brutal. Just in case she decides to eat the food you presented to her, kindly accept my condolence in advance

nkemdi89:
One guy approached me in my area years back I refused to stop, the next he said was " sister na wa for you o, if man no approach you shey na spirit go come toast you?"

Rozaytee:
omo i cant just begin to list how most guys have acted to me for rejecting dem....dere is something guys dont understand.. a lady cannot say yes to every tom dick and harry dat comes her way

nkemdi89:
One guy approached me in my area years back I refused to stop, the next he said was " sister na wa for you o, if man no approach you shey na spirit go come toast you?"

Gangster1ms:

*yawns* only weak ones get bothered about what some ugly person wey u never see before have to say... nothing wey she fit talk go get to me cos I've heard it all

TheSuperNerd:
Hmmmm.... Okay Sir Gangster. If you say so... Didn't know yoy have been stalking her posts too.

Well, if she insults we guys, then maybe I havent noticed. I don't stumble on her posts all the time.
But I just feel she made a valid point as regards this topic. Maybe you know her better from her posts but again that should not give you the right to call her ugly naa... I mean, you haven't even see her pic before.. Or you dying to see her pic to see if her words matches her beauty? Come on man.. Confess.. No harm done in wanting to take a glimpse eh... looolll...

Just take it easy on the lady okay. Be the gentleman and dont be so quick to write people off.