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Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by TheSuperNerd(m): 11:34am On Feb 08, 2018 |
Loooolll... I receive nothing my good man. I'm just another guy who believes in justice and allowing people air their views. I believe there are other ways you could register your displeasure with her without being so insultive. And this is no business... It is rather a matter of me keeping things balanced and true. You had no business insulting her looks especially when you haven't seen her. And you cannot allow your perceived hate for her to block out the fact that she was making sense in the end. So my advice, just wear your gentleman hat and act like this never happened. Gangster1ms: 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 11:39am On Feb 08, 2018 |
blackbeau1:"ugly" and "shapeless" these words sent me with a speed of 175.5km/h to ur dp and after dat, I was like... 1 Like
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Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by ponti93(m): 11:40am On Feb 08, 2018 |
I dnt knw if its just me... I dnt see any big deal in a gal refusing to giv me her contact... Afterall many that i got their contacts... I mostly 4get to follow up... Many a times i meet a girl and we get all lafin and chatty... At d end of the meet... I rarely ask for contact... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by DonroxyII: 11:42am On Feb 08, 2018 |
VampireeM:There is nothing up there to learn ..... U ask a gal for her number , she decline .... u move on .... She gives her number , u ask her for a date , she decline ..... u move on .... She accede to ur date request , u ask her for romantic friendship..... she decline , u move on .... She accede to ur request, u ask her for marriage she decline .. u move on .... I always believe a girl stand to gain more from me than me from her ... so when she says No, I say "Ur loss" !!!! 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by ballerin(m): 11:44am On Feb 08, 2018 |
Daeylar:This one insults men too much. share your experience, you no gree, na to dey insult men you sabi. may sense locate you. 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Gbanj11: 11:45am On Feb 08, 2018 |
it all boils down to learning how to handle rejection . Brothers, only ask for her number if there's notable chemistry..i know the struggle , but let the blood rush to your head and not your johnny, use your head . If she declines, walk away. You lose nothing. Walk away dignified. And ladies, if you are feeling the boi, pass him the number , in fact offer him the number. The ball is in his court at that point and if he doesn't call, you have given him the brightest green light. His loss So guys ask for the number , OR girls offer the number PS: Yet to meet a naija woman who offered her number, so you might want to skip that bit 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by JudgementHammer: 11:46am On Feb 08, 2018 |
lefulefu:OK that shows that rejection somehow doesn't go too well with us all. However instead of taking it to the extreme, just say ur mind out on how u don't like what she did and walk out....that's all. It helps one recover fast but taking it to d point of killing is absurd and ill-mental. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by ehinmowo: 11:46am On Feb 08, 2018 |
One of the most painful thing is for you to condescend (perhaps because of konji) to "toast" a girl dt is not physically honorable; yet she turns you down. Chai. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
JayIlych:you are actually the confused one. How does she being nice and friendly translates to green light? I guess you wld have prefered her being rude. She declined politely, that is enough to show her respect. She declined maybe she is into a rship. That a gal is nice, easy going and friendly doesnt mean she is showing green light. Do you expect gals to go about sharinr their contact to every guy that asked? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by frugal(m): 12:10pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
If I fancy a lady after a conversation, I give business cards. 99 percent of them call same day. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by stacyadams: 12:16pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
frugal:clean as a whistle |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
pocohantas: prophesied ke? How strange. After reading this, I clearly understand why you have an Aggressive response to any who actually approaches you since almost everyone from Nairaland have a psycho problem. Btw getting someone's number doesn't even mean you will get a date or sleep with. You might call & she won't even respond |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Rozaytee: 12:21pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Ekiseme:..... men approach women daily....omo dem don reject u tire.. ...pele 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Jozzy4: 12:24pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
prestigiouslady: Don't mind the fellow, His reaction revealed his kind of person ... Also shows your not accepting such a person is a good decision. #Take care , May Jehovah be with you . 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by EOOJ(m): 12:26pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
pocohantas: Can i have ur number |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
My boss asked me out and when I turned him down he said and i quote "you are very useless to me" (meanwhile i help him out with secretarial duties). "I will recommend you for a position in the state exco" (those grannies weh no de carry eye see woman of any color or size) "I will see how you will refuse to donate to them" Now knowing I am dating one of his best men, he said and I quote "you can date anybody else but not that one else I'll have him dealt with severely" This is a man married with kids now telling me who or who not to date. Married men please leave us singles alone. I for one hate ladies who date married men for any reason because as you lay your bed so you lie on it. I wish to get married someday and wouldn't like another woman frolicking around my hubby 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by EOOJ(m): 12:28pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Ghnaija: I concour 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Papanwamaikpe: 12:30pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
alexialin:Stories as usual 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
JayIlych: Yea been in this situation before. It is like a template which they follow. Which doesn't have any significance. I quote "if God designs us to meet again, i'll give you my number". So she said this exact same words, And I told her, Look babe, to be honest, There are plenty ladies in Lagos, I like you but its is imperative that know. If I meet you any where else, I won't ask for your number, not because I'm proud, but because that is the right thing to do. Also I have noticed that First impressions that comes with you Driving a car or looking Materialistic wouldn't get you a NO. |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by TheSuperNerd(m): 12:34pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by EOOJ(m): 12:38pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Angelawhite: Two bottles of legend for u.... U knw wats up... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
winnar: No, you obviously do not know Women. OR you are a woman yourself finding excuse for your fellows. If you are not interested in going forward, Don't start a Journey. |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Rozaytee: 12:40pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Elsielex:hope u arent working wit dat psycho anymore 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Babyurgly1(f): 12:41pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
I refused to accept a guy's friendship proposal and d guy finished me up. He said" see as u be like eleganza pen, u think say any guy go see u toast? Na even force dem force me come toast u". I wan cry that day. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by labanj1(m): 12:42pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
JayIlych:Same here. I've decided not to collect any girl's number on first meetings. Even on second meeting, it depends on the situation. If she like make she turn green lantern. I'm always happy doing that because I know it'll definitely get them thinking. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Rozaytee: 12:44pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
alexialin:not all guys have sense..some are just plain and naturally stupid.... lol |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Rozaytee: 12:45pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Babyurgly1:why u wan cry...ladies should learn to ignore dumb guys 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Rozaytee: 12:48pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Gangster1ms:i no say gals don reject u tire.. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Daeylar(f): 12:48pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
TheSuperNerd:You're welcome Loved every single post you made on this thread 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Letzdothething: 12:48pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Ask for numbers? most times i don't and when i do i do it once. i have met a few girls where after we gist i just walk away and their face be like sometime last month i was coming from work a lady gave me fliers and we started talking religion, it was fun . but when we wanted to get down she asked me that i take her number i said ok. gave her my phone and she dialed it. i didn't even save it. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by mikebrown92: 12:50pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
pocohantas: Your name must be brain... |
Re: Ladies, What’s The Worst Response You Have Heard After Turning A Man Down? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Rozaytee: Honestly just too bad. And he's in his 30s o It's not like he's a juvenile . May God save us ladies, from wolves in sheep clothing.. Amen |
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