lefulefu:
well he shouldn't give up dat easily cos i saw a piece here sometime ago about a guy who was toasting a girl in his church for 8 good yrs b4 she finally said yes.

alexialin:
Honestly some guys cannot take no for an answer.

There is this guy who came to visit his friend on my street, then saw me as i walked past. He said Hi, hmm av been watching u walk to and fro buying stuffs and all, and I like you and admire you. Please can I have your number? I looked at him, he looks OK. I then gave him my number. He started calling later in the evening, with small talks and it was cool. Then he asked me out, I replied, I will let u know when am. Less busy. He said ok. So one fateful day, I came back from work, pissed from one annoying customer attitude. I was trying to contain my anger. When I was close to my house, I saw him with friends. He waved at me, smiled. I waved back and walked home, then I called him, can u come to my place, I need to talk to someone. He said ok. He came. Have not even finished my story about the client, he was all over me and I was like WTF!
I quickly withdrew from his hands and say guy! I didn't call u here for sexxx. All I need is someone to talk to, and release my frustrations about an annoying client today. He moved closer, saying don't worry I will. Make u happy and relaxed. I was so mad! I was like see this guy o! Is he crazy or what? That's how we started struggling o. He almost overpowered me, so I relaxed and said Cmon? Take it easy? U want fun Abi? Then let's do it properly and I smiled sweetly and I said lemme go and change into a nice sexy lingerie. U will love it.
So he released his grip, as soon as he released, I ran out of the house

And screamed get out! Before I call security. Just get the fucvk out of my house!
He was like I knew u will play this stunt on me, Oya come back nw? I won't touch u I promise. I shook my head. Just get out! So u want to rape me? Are u mad? Do u think sexx is my problem? Please leave now! Then he left.
Since that day, he apologized on phone that he doesn't know what came over him and he's sorry and he loves me and all.
I said look I will never date u, if u are the last man on earth. Get it into your thick skull. So I stopped picking his calls.
One day he was knocking on my gate furiously, that I must answer him. And he's not going anywhere.
And that was on Sunday, the security guard was not around. Nobody in the compound even answered him. Then he got tired of banging the gate, then he left.
I was like God! Is this how this guy is?
Thank God I now know.

Later I called his number and warned him Severely if he doesn't back. Off, I will call my friend in the army to show him pepper, if he thinks am alone. Army guys will beat him black and blue! And have told my army friend already about him.

Since then he backed off but series of insults, he hurled at me thru phone. I just cut the call and blocked him.

Some guys are just stupid.

blackbeau1:
lol. That requires serious patience. Most guys don't have that.

mamachizzy:
my dear, the tori long. the harassment and insults I went through chaii just cause I said no, was unbearable

blackbeau1:
lol. That requires serious patience. Most guys don't have that.

monex:

LessNoise:
I came here to park the bus the way CHELSHIT gon do on FEB 13TH

Tajbol4splend:


Tell me you cooked this up

Dimples129:


My trick is to play deaf

Like I never hear them and then they shout 'You ain't all that anyway, Biatch'

JudgementHammer:
Unfortunately women have no or perhaps only neglible experience in handling rejection as men do. They never know how d feeling is. That's why they give it the way they can't accept. The best way is still to avoid gradually and in silence.

Abi how would one explain a man who have carefully thought of how to approach a girl he's being admiring for about 4weeks only to get a rude response. My dear the wisest thing ur mind would think of at the moment is to break her too for a balanced feeling..its a very normal psychic and its nothing to be shy about. When you say or do a mind-breaking thing in return, you'll get that attention somehow even if its not a date-me attention anymore and you'll relieve ur mind of stress for a longer life.

That's what I'm good at o and I just want to be better.

Franky826:


And your profile still reads female.

Lala come and warn this catfish ooo

Dimples129:
You ain't all that anyway, Biatch

#Classics

manitobor:

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DonroxyII:
There is nothing up there to learn .....
U ask a gal for her number , she decline .... u move on ....

She gives her number , u ask her for a date , she decline ..... u move on ....

She accede to ur date request , u ask her for romantic friendship..... she decline , u move on ....

She accede to ur request, u ask her for marriage she decline .. u move on ....

I always believe a girl stand to gain more from me than me from her ... so when she says No, I say "Ur loss" !!!!

Wow!@bold above, Sincerely my dear I would want to know what and what females gains by dating a guy? Cause the last time I checked I don't see anything men offer in relationship that makes most of you think you doing females the favour. I will appreciate if you can enlighten me

Jozzy4:


Good evening

Any problem Sir ?

oshaosha2014:
God bless you.

lefulefu:
i don't have it either. I hail his patience.its like d story in d bible wey Jacob wan marry beautiful Rachel then laban d father say Jacob must work for im farm for ten yrs b4 he give am recheal to marry.after d ten yrs den laban gave Jacob his ugly daughter Leah to marry.jacob was angry then laban tell am again dat if he is really serious on recheal then he must work on his farm for another ten yrs. I respect men wit such patience.

lefulefu:
the guy see light skinned girl and he no wan waste time in chopping. Just be careful when u invite a man to ur house . If its a guy wey u no too know its safer u have a third party with u if u must invite a dude. For safety's sake.

blackbeau1:
most of us in this generation don't. Everything has to happen now. And to an extent , it's not really our fault. We've been conditioned to have everything now - from the fast food joints to the cellphone to the microwave to cars to the bank apps to the atm, it's a wonder we even know the word patience exists

manitobor:


Good evening.

No o, no problem o. It's just that the ingratiating tone of that post of yours left me in stiches. The last line was especially funny.

alexialin:






My dear, have stopped inviting since!
I don't do it anymore.
It was a past experience.
Honestly some guys are not "it" @ all.
Ladies if u are about to be raped by a guy? Please don't struggle much with him if he's having the upper hand, relax, smile, even kiss him back and say u want it to be special and romantic, so why the rush and manhandling, he should relax and let him enjoy u well, by allowing u to remove your clothes and wear something mind blowing with G string.
He will hesitate abit and say OK, Mehn this is more like it! . Smiles back as he loosens his grip, at that one minute or so, run fast as your legs can carry u outside your apartment, he will follow in hot pursuit when he sees u running, then scream with a piercing voice ! Ole! Ooooo. Ara dugbo! Help me o! Compound people come o!


He will be shocked, and keep away from u, saying ssshhh! be quiet!
Then tell him : Oya! walk out Orelse u will scream again. He will virtually walk so fast away from you and your compound.



That's how we do it!

lefulefu:
might not always work out like dat oooo. Even if u pacify,if na mad man he might still harm u.just to be on the safe side if ur mind no too clear on a man its better not to invite him to ur pad.same with the come to my house guys wey dey intent on inviting u to their room or house first time they said hello to u on Facebook on twitter.

alexialin:








Don't invite or even visit is ideal. That's true

But assuming the lady forgets and sees herself in an uncompromising situation. The way I mentioned, is a way of escaping a dangerous situation.

Jozzy4:


There is nothing ingratiating about the post Sir , I dont seek human approval.

I was just pained at how the said guy could rubbish her just because she is mother of one , calling her " EXPIRED PRODUCT " , that can hurt any woman .

Who knows how what the said guy uttered must have affected her ? Or probably she still thinks about it to even narrate it on here .. This is what gave birth to the last line. Just a reassuring text that she still has value on her own no matter what anyone might say .

Try to get where am coming from before you conclude .

Have a nice day Sir

elyna:
I refused to date him so he told me I'll later beg him to marry me.

omolorlarh:

Lmao...
A guy also told me this exact words.
Some guys don't just get it. It is not every time you expect a lady you approach to give you a positive response.

elyna:
you too? to say I was scared is an understatement. I was suspecting him of being diabolic.

zeb04:
you are just ridiculous.when you are rejected by a company, an organization,Your parent. do you threaten to burn the place down or kill them or stuff.

There is no justification for stupiid.it is an insane behavior and it doesn't get you what you want so who is the looser?

Angelawhite:


Can't someone post with his sister's phone in peace again?