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Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Actuarydeji(m): 5:48pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Actuarydeji:There is a lady in our parent company,seriously speaking I love to the core, but she's very mature. I don't mind marrying her because I am always happy seeing her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Dear poster, marriage is about 2 and not 1. no woman is good or bad, age is just a number. when a man treats his wife right, he will get all the love, respect,submission and kindness from her. women change wen men treat them with disregard Treat her right, take care of her, pet her show her love attention and kindness and let her know its only her....no matter her age, she will submit spiritually, physically, financially, emotionally etc. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by kolawoleibukun: 5:49pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
braine:see your rotten prEEk way don bend finish |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 5:50pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Ur wife to be older than u by 7 yrs? Hmmm the gap is a bit too wide sha. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Spidermon: 5:51pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Dont let societal convention worry you. Highlight the pros and cons and follow your mind. The baggage young girls come with can be very distracting 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by jaychubi: 5:51pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak: U call 35 yrs old madam GF, u get mind sha You DNT kw a woman until u marry her, forget those qualities they are superficial and meant to trap u. Free dt old cargo n look for a nice graduate below 23 n marry Adam was created before Eve Desperation makes older ladies to be exceptionally submissive n good DNT be fooled by fake character 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by wabuk(m): 5:52pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
see young man i will not advise or go against ur wish .if shes ok for u go on and marry her . ●Hardworking ●Humble ●Experienced sexually ●She looks younger than her age. She has all the qualities I want in a woman. What are some issues we might have to face that same age couples wouldn't? Mature response please! Thanks. [/quote] |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by bezimo(m): 5:54pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Don't allow your people know her true age..if not they won't agree.. Especially your mom and sisters... They will not agree oh..How you play that up is up to you since it is you marrying her not your family. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by jobonnairaland: 5:55pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
MasterRahl:This is not a right advice. His family is entitled to know her age. What makes marriage stand the test of time is love. This is particularly why I need to get married to a woman who loves me more and also on the same wavelength with me in terms of idea. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by AreaFada2: 5:56pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Well nothing wrong with it really. But it depends on several factors: How long have you dated? How traditional are you or rather how modern are you? Which environment are you in, 9ja or diaspora? Will you accept if God forbid, she cannot give you kids or manages just one? Are you sure she's genuine in her behaviour and unlikely to change after marriage? What do both your families say? The proof of the pudding , they say, is in the eating. If you have carefully considered all these things going forward and you are still positive, then fine. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Julivas(m): 5:57pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak: So far she is humble and godly, you are good to go. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by abirescholar567: 5:58pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
My guy you can go ahead to marry her even my wife is 7years older than me and we are living fine.Don't let nairalanders to mislead you.one word for you go ahead and marry her ooooooo! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by salt1: 6:06pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
I know a few couples where the wife is older. They SEEM to be happy. But it is often at a cost: the woman may not be accepted by the man's family and friends and may feel stigmatized and isolated. This can damage in law relationship. A woman longs to be loved and accepted. Secondly normal misunderstandings may not be handled in a dispassionate manner as the man sees every issue as a challenge to his leadership. Again some women's libido (sexual desire) reduces with age. So while the man is still desiring a lot of fun, he's tied to a woman who is already feeling frigid and indifferent. Result: sexual frustration or adultery The couple will forever be hiding their ages. I know a couple that doesn't celebrate any birthday because of this : the man out of sensitivity to his much older wife keeps his own age a secret. But people still know. But it's not all negatives: an older wife normally comes with less drama, may be more experienced sexually to assist the young man, and may show more care and forbearance. She may have longed for marriage so much that she will be ready to mother and smother her husband. But generally women don't like to marry those they are older than. They want to marry those they can look up to and admire / respect. There could also be fertility challenges with an older bride 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Thatnawtichick(f): 6:08pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
LAGATA:God will keep blessing your marriage...thanks for sharing 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:08pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
jobonnairaland:Noted. I just don't feel happy when a young & promising couple suffer pains and emotional trauma because the family is against the marriage for whatever reason. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by sirfee(m): 6:10pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
donsiqua:You are blessed 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by bezimo(m): 6:12pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
perousd: Poster..take note..you should prove her as advised before taking her home..to be sure she isn't pretending to be awesome while hiding her true colours since age isn't on her side. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Thatnawtichick(f): 6:13pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Age is just a number....So far you understand her and she understands you too and the respect is there..... Please ride on.....And for those talking about her body count... Age has nothing to do with bodycount...A lady in her twenties might have more bodycount than one in her thirties...Good thing she doesn't look her age....Your happiness is all that matters.....RIDE ON!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by munas: 6:15pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak:Forget about all that qualities and look for a younger woman. By the time she is 40yrs with 2 kids,she will be like your aunt. When she us 50 and you are 43 she will be like your mother. Even my wife that is 5 yes younger than me currently look like my mate. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:19pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Don't even ATTEMPT it... .......else EFCC will be invited into this matter |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Immarocks(f): 6:20pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
And here.... just a year older but his mama says dez no future for us..... |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by nowpresence(f): 6:22pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Seun:what nonsense |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:22pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Thatnawtichick:...uh na don start abiii.. When he will rush back to NAIRALAND crying, uh na go begin mock am 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by olusola200: 6:26pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Ur happy ness is important to me Age is nothing but a number... Wish u happy married life 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by marvin904(m): 6:28pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
dude if you love her.. and she tick's all your boxes go for it.. you just made me remember when my cousin brought he's wife to introduce to us for marriage the girl was older than him..we show am pepper sha one for bringing an older lady second the chick nor just fine buh the dude get strong head sha later on discovered that her character isn't that good most of my family don't even like her buh what to do he don marry he don marry.. fun memories sha ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Seun(m): 6:30pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
nowpresence:There’s nothing wrong with the age gap, but late pregnancies are problematic. If he wants to have kids with the lady, he needs to get to work! 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:30pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
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Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by jobonnairaland: 6:30pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
MasterRahl:Okay. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by vicben27(m): 6:32pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
obiorathesubtle:Who gives a fucck about body counts? are you holier than the most high? the guy as found peace let him live his life. my advise is they should try and have all their kids b4 she get to menopause. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Safiaa(f): 6:34pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Tetragramaton:im telling you. Things that you look down so much on, especially things that we cannot control or change, will end up someway in our lives. He might end up marrying his young Queen with all those traits that he mentioned about older women. People should learn how to be careful with their words. Its okay to have a preference, but don't dehumanize people who don't fit into that. Everybody will get old one day, I just think its extremely shallow to look over some one simply because of their age. And to just assume all these negative traits about someone because of their age is just stupid to me. I just feel sorry for people who worship social media, and follow what people say into their personal life. Have your own mind ahbeg and do what is best for you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by baysol: 6:45pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Amedak:If she is trully God fearing and not fake born again. Pray fervently about it carefully and ask for devine intervention and wait for God's response before going ahead. |
Re: My Fiancée Is 7 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Seun: Sometimes, an unmarried person might not offer the best advice on marriage. Meanwhile OP, please be calm. Many advising you here, and sharing their wonderful experiences won't be in the same house with you and the lady months/years from now. I dare say you (or your marriage) won't be in anyone's memory weeks after the wedding except through your souvenirs. I once commended you for asking the question because that's the first step to wisdom. Detecting and embracing the right counsel is the hardest part. Your situation is very similar to someone venturing into inter-religious or inter-tribal marriage. That it worked so well for some does not mean it would work for you and you don't have to use your precious life to prove it works so well. Conclusively, you must admit that you are about to swim against the tide, therefore you would have to fortify yourself (with all that is required) if you eventually decide to embark on such life's journey. Please prayerfully make your decision. 1 Like 1 Share |
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