Nothing. Default mode.

XhosaNostra:


I don't cheat. As in having sex with other people whilst IN a relationship.

But I'll tell you what makes my interest to wane though. It's when I don't feel emotional supported by my partner. I have a great deal of emotions & I understand that it could be overwhelming sometimes. But I still need to be heard & told everything is going to be alright. That's the only thing I'd say starts to make other men more attractive in my eyes. I'll admit, I have a roving eye & crush a lot, but I'd never really cross the line.

Are you a Nigerian? Love your answer though.

Jesuspikin8:
Are you a Nigerian? Love your answer though.

South African.

XhosaNostra:


I beg to differ. Because a relationship is a partnership. I'm a fair person. I have no qualms supporting my partner emotionally if he lets me in. I expect the same in return. Period. What's the point of being in a relationship if I can't be transparent with you with how I'm feeling? I don't see it. If I shouldn't vent or share my frustrations with you, then you're no use to me. Fullstop. See, some people require financial support, sexual needs met etc. All I want is for someone to LISTEN. That is all! A failure to do that, I'm sorry, but I'll start ogling others & plan my exit strategy. Btw, I'm very vocal, so they'll see it coming.

Enough about me. What makes you cheat or entertain the thought?

Omg!

Love this

Cus i bliv my partner cheats

XhosaNostra:


I don't cheat. As in having sex with other people whilst IN a relationship.

But I'll tell you what makes my interest to wane though. It's when I don't feel emotional supported by my partner. I have a great deal of emotions & I understand that it could be overwhelming sometimes. But I still need to be heard & told everything is going to be alright. That's the only thing I'd say starts to make other men more attractive in my eyes. I'll admit, I have a roving eye & crush a lot, but I'd never really cross the line.

Madam your guy being broke makes you cheat simple


Leave long story

Tomoyayi:


Do you know what self control is?
A woman in love never cheats.

Waiting for the quotes o.

"A woman in love never cheats"

lie of the century

kenex4ever:


"A woman in love never cheats"

lie of the century

Yes a woman in love never cheats, infact a person in love never cheats until something changes.

Whoever wants to cheat will cheat whether they are deeply in love or not. These days people cheat for frivolous reasons such as: distance, lack of self control, just wanting to have fun etc. Some relationships are a joke as both partners cheat on each other. It's scary to be in a relationship these days as you don't know what to expect from your partner.

Maycher:
Whoever wants to cheat will cheat whether they are deeply in love or not. These days people cheat for frivolous reasons such as: distance, lack of self control, just wanting to have fun etc. Some relationships are a joke as both partners cheat on each other. It's scary to be in a relationship these days as you don't know what to expect from your partner.

I wan ask you question

Tomoyayi:

I wan ask you question

Okay

Being neglected or lack of attention

FriendofGod:
I am a virgin so I can't answer the question yet.

Interesting

Dimples129:

Interesting

beauty, intelligence, care

Tomoyayi:


Yes a woman in love never cheats, infact a person in love never cheats until something changes.

You are inexperienced

Temptation does not care if you are in love.

You can love your wife so much but still cheat on her.

kenex4ever:


You are inexperienced

Temptation does not care if you are in love.

You can love your wife so much but still cheat on her.

Mr experience, did you read the part in my post that says 'a person in love never cheats Until something changes'
Una go just dey quote without reading.

Tomoyayi:


Mr experience, did you read the part in my post that says 'a person in love never cheats Until something changes'
Una go just dey quote without reading.

Nothing needs to happen guy

You can b in love with a girl and you come across another girl that will capture your attention. If you are thinking in your mind " but dats what I meant by something needs to happen" you are wrong because in dat case something also needs to happen for someone not in love to cheat too.

In summary people do cheat whether in love or not.

You statement should have been that it's more difficult to cheat when one is in love.

Ask urself why most rich men cheat even though they love their wives so much. Once they feel they can comfortably take care of their wife n kids, the extra cash goes to side chicks

bqlekan:
beauty, intelligence, care

Nobody (wether man or woman) in love cheats.

Tomoyayi:


Do you know what self control is?
A woman in love never cheats.

Waiting for the quotes o.

Shut up

kenex4ever:


Madam your guy being broke makes you cheat simple


Leave long story

charijee:

Errrmm unsee the post

XhosaNostra:


Lol, I don't think so. I have self control. If it does happen, it'd probably be emotional cheating because I'm also very cautious about being taken advantage of, especially when it comes to sex.

Someone with value, can we atleast see the face behind this moniker that reeks of good moral value? Just for curiosity sake

kenex4ever:


Nothing needs to happen guy

You can b in love with a girl and you come across another girl that will capture your attention. If you are thinking in your mind " but dats what I meant by something needs to happen" you are wrong because in dat case something also needs to happen for someone not in love to cheat too.

In summary people do cheat whether in love or not.

You statement should have been that it's more difficult to cheat when one is in love.

Ask urself why most rich men cheat even though they love their wives so much. Once they feel they can comfortably take care of their wife n kids, the extra cash goes to side chicks

Have you fallen in love before? From your post it's obvious you've not.
Do you know what that feeling is like?
When two people are in love ,none of them cheats until something changes It could be distance, money, sex...
Loving eyes never sees...

As for the rich men you talk about
It's obvious they don't love their wives anymore because something changed. Wives of rich faithful men cheat, That your talking about money as no basis.

Dimples129:
Being neglected or lack of attention

True

Maycher:
Whoever wants to cheat will cheat whether they are deeply in love or not. These days people cheat for frivolous reasons such as: distance, lack of self control, just wanting to have fun etc. Some relationships are a joke as both partners cheat on each other. It's scary to be in a relationship these days as you don't know what to expect from your partner.

True

XhosaNostra:


Ok. Is the husband innocent in all this? Just curious.
Also you have a choice, take it or leave. Why remain in a situation that serves you no purpose?

Well I won't know how complicit the husband is or isn't but I do know that she used to say cheating was a deal breaker. To see her now cheating amuses me in a queer kind of way.

traeces:


Well I won't know how complicit the husband is or isn't but I do know that she used to say cheating was a deal breaker. To see her now cheating amuses me in a queer kind of way.

Perhaps something happened that made her question her own loyalty & devotion. IDK. Shrugs.

RadicallyBlunt:

Trusting yourself is already a weakness.

Emotional cheating lacks control about sex. You're d best mechanic of ur emotions and not some man.

Its ur husband I pity.

guess you are just attacking her because she is a woman. i thought the post was for you to learn? don't listen to your woman and don't act like you care let's see if she doesn't go beyond the emotional cheating sef... mtcheew

being in love doesn't make you not to cheat. Discipline is what does. a disciplined person with no tolerance to cheating won't just cheat. argue all you want.....you are cheating because you lack discipline.

JoyceMeyersFan:

guess you are just attacking her because she is a woman. i thought the post was for you to learn? don't listen to your woman and don't act like you care let's see if she doesn't go beyond the emotional cheating sef... mtcheew

Shut up joor. What do you know

RadicallyBlunt:

Shut up joor. What do you know

keep talking. mr know-all