How can I end a relationship in a gentlemanly manner or approach as I can no longer see any driving force of attraction towards my bae.

N:B: She is faithful,decent and god fearing. I just
don't have feelings for her anymore.

And you realised all this just a day to valentine?

Yoruba demon. Why don't you ask google

Be honest.

Sometimes it's better when you do it via text or a letter, because you can get straight to the point without interruption or guilt

Visit her in her house and let her know..

u don chop her clean mouth nah...quantinu.

adeleke5157:
How can I end a relationship in a gentlemanly manner or approach as I can no longer see any driving force of attraction towards my bae.

N:B: She is faithful,decent and god fearing. I just
don't have feelings for her anymore.

The best time to tell her will be when she is in the kitchen cutting meat with a very sharp knife

Val break up abi


Simple... Tell her na

Just tell her the truth. She will cry but pray hard first as it could be demonic manipulation from your side or hers

Uniqueness01

Xinzu:
And you realised all this just a day to valentine?

Just a mere coincidence o.

XhosaNostra:
Be honest.

Sometimes it's better when you do it via text or a letter, because you can get straight to the point without interruption or guilt

Thanks sis, I think TEXT will be a better option

adeleke5157:

Thanks sis, I think TEXT will be a better option

Awesome.

Btw, I applaud you for choosing to break up instead of stringing the poor girl along. This way you'll both be free to meet other people. She deserves to be with someone that loves her, just like you deserve to be with someone you have genuine feelings for. That way noone's being played.

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∆ Check yourself well bro!

Have you slept with her? If yes, then you're wicked. But if not, let her know that you're no longer having feeling for her and you guys should part ways.

But I hope you won't become jealous and have a renewed feeling when you see her with another man. ∆



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XhosaNostra:


Awesome.

Btw, I applaud you for choosing to break up instead of stringing the poor girl along. This way you'll both be free to meet other people. She deserves to be with someone that loves her, just like you deserve to be with someone you have genuine feelings for. That way noone's being played.

Thanks for your mature response on this. I once broke up with her before we came together again and ever since I have not in anyway feel romantic or attracted to her thou she does.

I just feel it is right for me to tell her I am no longer interested

Holla! Good evening.

Xinzu:
Uniqueness01

adeleke5157:


Thanks for your mature response on this. I once broke up with her before we came together again and ever since I have not in anyway feel romantic or attracted to her thou she does.

I just feel it is right for me to tell her I am no longer interested

You're the better man. Though I feel like you shouldn't have gotten back together in the 1st place, because now she may feel like you used her. Just curious, who suggested the 2nd attempt, you or her? And why didn't you nip it in the bud from the start if you knew you've lost feelings for her? I'm asking because it comes across somehow, almost like a power trip.

Tomorrow is Val. don't be weeket.


I suggest you ask her where she has be wishing to visit for a long long time but she's not privileged (around your state tho).


Take her there tomorrow.. Do the best you can for her... Let her feel loved so when it's time to go home.. Take her home when you reach her house then tell her....

She get all these qualities and you still no belleful. Na mami water you dey find eh?

it will be quite hurtful if u make the already sour relationship(from your side) go any further.

in situation like this, avoid contact, just as someone earlier said, it could be through phone or letter.

after the break you gonna feel good about it, but sometimes you gonna feel soba, regret your actions or even try to make a comeback out of pity. she is gonna cry, her DP pictures will tell how sorrowful or dejected she is. her friends and family will call to intercept and make an attempt to talk sense into u....these and many more.

its sad that the amazing ladies/guys who go out of their ways to make relationship work get dumped along d way.

Hahahahahaha.......seems we have alot of kids here, u guys will come here looking for how to woo her then come back looking for how to break up in ''GENTLE MANLY MANNER'' hmmmmmm

adeleke5157:
How can I end a relationship in a gentlemanly manner or approach as I can no longer see any driving force of attraction towards my bae.

N:B: She is faithful,decent and god fearing. I just
don't have feelings for her anymore.

if you don't have the courage to end something that may not be in your interest, when are you gonna ever have courage for anything?

XhosaNostra:


You're the better man. Though I feel like you shouldn't have gotten back together in the 1st place, because now she may feel like you used her. Just curious, who suggested the 2nd attempt, you or her? And why didn't you nip it in the bud from the start if you knew you've lost feelings for her? I'm asking because it comes across somehow, almost like a power trip.

I knew I made mistake by coming together on the second date. I was the one that actually suggested the second attempt thou she indirectly made the move with her incessant calls and emotional conversations but I was not careful then.

I just don't want her to feel bad now that I have used her and dumb her,but I need to let her know also that I am not interested in the relationship anymore. This is the DILEMMA am into now

N:B : No sexual relationship involved.

adeleke5157:


I knew I made mistake by coming together on the second date. I was the one that actually suggested the second attempt thou she indirectly made the move with her incessant calls and emotional conversations but I was not careful then.

I just don't want her to feel bad now that I have used her and dumb her,but I need to let her know also that I am not interested in the relationship anymore. This is the DILEMMA am into now

N:B : No sexual relationship involved.

Gotcha.

Lol @ no intimacy. IMO, that changes nothing. Sex is not a contract. Oh well. Good luck.

Uniqueness01:
Holla! Good evening.

Evening dear, how are you?

adeleke5157:
How can I end a relationship in a gentlemanly manner or approach as I can no longer see any driving force of attraction towards my bae.

N:B: She is faithful,decent and god fearing. I just
don't have feelings for her anymore.

She has all these qualities and you still want to dump her....no problem before you do answer these questions honestly

When did you stop having feelings for her and what triggered it ?
is it something she has control over or something nature has endowed on her (height, size etc) ?
What do you want in a relationship?
Has she given you these?