TarOrfeek:

This your story.

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LivingFree:
Your no should mean NO. Tell the guy the truth and tell him she's all his. Change your number if you need to and use the block button on your SM accounts. Jot this down to a lesson learnt and move on.

kingxsamz:
Run for your Life.

Flames000:


Are you insinuating I contact the guy?......I really didn't want to even bring that leg at all...

Flames000:

Bro I don run o.... but world pipo till dey pursue me.

CaptJeffry:
Can't you do your own investigation about the guy to know his capabilities. You seem to be a weakling so I suggest you step aside.

tetula123:
let her be. Because you only going to realize it ain't worth the stress.

Ab025:
Don't be deceived, the lady is playing both you guys.
She still sleeps with both of you....

Forget she is a beau, Good cook, et al......end things properly with her for deceiving u and move on. From your write-up, you seem to still have love for her but bro....she ain't that into you, sorry!

As for her guy, just chill......he has better info than you, he will know once you have properly ended things with his girl.

#she is a serial cheat, you ain't the first guy she is cheating with...



I doubt that

Flames000:

I have decided to let her be..... especially when there are a lot of women out there.....
But I still receive constant threats from the said guy.... how can I handle that.

Flames000:

Bro I don run o.... but world pipo till dey pursue me.

Flames000:
Good morning country men and women...

I'm going to make this as concise as possible please patiently read through and help me arrive at a good decision.....

I'm currently in one of the higher institutions of learning in nigeria in the south_western part of nigeria running a post_graduate programme in Engineering that will end in a couple of months. There's this lady running thesame programme in another institution also in the south west of Nigeria whom I met at a professional gathering 10 months ago.... we exchanged contacts and all that during that programme and ever since, we have been in communication and have also met severally in professional gatherings since the 1st time....

In the course of being friends with this lady, I got close to her and found out she has a man in her life who has been there since her 1st degree days in school....but as time went by we became too close and she was quite attached to me..... we made out a couple of times and all that.... then one day I met her man in one of her family gatherings (as she's from pretty wealthy home which I didn't know initially) where she introduced i and my friends to her man as her collegaues and friends....

Fast forward to months later. The relationship between myself and this lady grew enormously..... she spends time at my home at her spare time, I helped her out with professional work and career related activities...... but I was wary of my relationship with her cus I knew she had a man, and I wouldn't want to cheated upon if it were me. Plus I didn't want trouble and scandal of any sort. This I made known to her.... that was when she revealed she's more like stuck in her relationship with that guy because she fends for the guy financially from cutting his hair to paying for meals and everything else but her family isn't aware of it, she sometimes even get her self expensive gifts and pretend he got it for her, in her own words "he even goes out to incur debts on irrelevant things and makes me pay for it" and she was tired of it all..... that was when I told her it was no reason to cheat on him, instead she could end the relationship amicably. Besides she knew all this at the initial stage of the relationship with him.... (in her defence she was so young then, she was attracted by his looks, and her parents think good of him, becus she portrays a fake image of him to them. And she tried breaking up with this guy, but he will threaten to kill himself, beg and all that, he even as much as go through her siblings and mom to beg her, becus she hasnt told them she bears the guys financial burden as he has never had a job. And she's afraid to do so, so as not to appear foolish and gullible as a 1st daughter).

Fastword again.........

In the following months, I told her I wouldn't want to indulge in controversial affairs of this sort, and she was no longer welcomed at my place till she sorts herself out.. But she always keeps my cell ringing, sending expensive gifts and all, she will even show up at my home unannouced cus she knows if she tells me she was coming, I wont allow it.
Finally she said she broke up with the guy, and we became friends once again. But everytime he calls, she picks up, and wen he enquires about her location, she begins to try to explain herself.... this didn't go down well with me so I queried her about it, which led to her saying she will handle it..... (not knowing to me that her family isn't aware of her breakup with the guy o...) the relationship between us wasn't defined, we were having sex, and liked each other alot, but it was more like hide and seek as we were pretending to be mare colleagues. But as a guy in my very late 20s I was looking for a decent relationship that didn't seem like a secondary school something, but it was too complicated so I agreed to keep things low till she handles things. (Because she was very beautiful, nice, kind at heart and a very good cook)

Somehow the guy suspected the girl was seeing someone else, as she was no longer always at his beck n call.... he made his investigations and got to one of my other friends whom i atrended that 1st family gathering with, telling him to warn me to stay away from his source of joy for my own good.... this was very embarrassing to hear from a professional colleague. I was mad at the girl and broke all contacts with her, and literally dissappeared.... but she still fished me out, begged and begged that everything is settled now.... being someone I like, I let it all slide...

NOTE: I didn't have as much as her family did, the boyfriend was better looking physically lol, she had access to everything money can buy. I couldn't really place why she was into me so madly...

Once again, the guy got into one of her social media accounts and probably saw things he wasn't suppose to see...... he reached me through her very account, and warned me off again, threatening to kill me and all that, I confronted the girl, and she said she doesn't know how it happened.... Recently the guy used the lady's cell number to text me In the middle of the night again (meaning the lady was with him around that time.for someone that has broken up), this time threatening not to warn me anymore and having details of my siblings and their locations...... ever since then I made a resolution to forget the lady entirely, after all if she could cheat on him with me, she could do it to me as well as I couldn't place why she was really into me. besides i was looking for a serious relationship, not a fling. And I wasn't ready for headache and violence.

But the problem is the guy still threatens me often with every occasion being more fierce than the previous one... (although he hasn't met me in person or via a phone call)
and I'm not willing to talk to him or the lady either, as I wanted everything to die peacefully....

But this time, he claims to know my parents residence,, and to leave my corpse on their doorsteps if I dont back away....

Usually, I see things like this as 'noise' ..... but coming from a guy that has all loose, financially, and other wise, as the girl is his source of income, etc... I'm beginning to take the threats seriously.
[/b]WHAT CAN A MAN DO?[b]

Flames000:
Good morning country men and women...

I'm going to make this as concise as possible please patiently read through and help me arrive at a good decision.....

I'm currently in one of the higher institutions of learning in nigeria in the south_western part of nigeria running a post_graduate programme in Engineering that will end in a couple of months. There's this lady running thesame programme in another institution also in the south west of Nigeria whom I met at a professional gathering 10 months ago.... we exchanged contacts and all that during that programme and ever since, we have been in communication and have also met severally in professional gatherings since the 1st time....

In the course of being friends with this lady, I got close to her and found out she has a man in her life who has been there since her 1st degree days in school....but as time went by we became too close and she was quite attached to me..... we made out a couple of times and all that.... then one day I met her man in one of her family gatherings (as she's from pretty wealthy home which I didn't know initially) where she introduced i and my friends to her man as her collegaues and friends....

Fast forward to months later. The relationship between myself and this lady grew enormously..... she spends time at my home at her spare time, I helped her out with professional work and career related activities...... but I was wary of my relationship with her cus I knew she had a man, and I wouldn't want to cheated upon if it were me. Plus I didn't want trouble and scandal of any sort. This I made known to her.... that was when she revealed she's more like stuck in her relationship with that guy because she fends for the guy financially from cutting his hair to paying for meals and everything else but her family isn't aware of it, she sometimes even get her self expensive gifts and pretend he got it for her, in her own words "he even goes out to incur debts on irrelevant things and makes me pay for it" and she was tired of it all..... that was when I told her it was no reason to cheat on him, instead she could end the relationship amicably. Besides she knew all this at the initial stage of the relationship with him.... (in her defence she was so young then, she was attracted by his looks, and her parents think good of him, becus she portrays a fake image of him to them. And she tried breaking up with this guy, but he will threaten to kill himself, beg and all that, he even as much as go through her siblings and mom to beg her, becus she hasnt told them she bears the guys financial burden as he has never had a job. And she's afraid to do so, so as not to appear foolish and gullible as a 1st daughter).

Fastword again.........

In the following months, I told her I wouldn't want to indulge in controversial affairs of this sort, and she was no longer welcomed at my place till she sorts herself out.. But she always keeps my cell ringing, sending expensive gifts and all, she will even show up at my home unannouced cus she knows if she tells me she was coming, I wont allow it.
Finally she said she broke up with the guy, and we became friends once again. But everytime he calls, she picks up, and wen he enquires about her location, she begins to try to explain herself.... this didn't go down well with me so I queried her about it, which led to her saying she will handle it..... (not knowing to me that her family isn't aware of her breakup with the guy o...) the relationship between us wasn't defined, we were having sex, and liked each other alot, but it was more like hide and seek as we were pretending to be mare colleagues. But as a guy in my very late 20s I was looking for a decent relationship that didn't seem like a secondary school something, but it was too complicated so I agreed to keep things low till she handles things. (Because she was very beautiful, nice, kind at heart and a very good cook)

Somehow the guy suspected the girl was seeing someone else, as she was no longer always at his beck n call.... he made his investigations and got to one of my other friends whom i atrended that 1st family gathering with, telling him to warn me to stay away from his source of joy for my own good.... this was very embarrassing to hear from a professional colleague. I was mad at the girl and broke all contacts with her, and literally dissappeared.... but she still fished me out, begged and begged that everything is settled now.... being someone I like, I let it all slide...

NOTE: I didn't have as much as her family did, the boyfriend was better looking physically lol, she had access to everything money can buy. I couldn't really place why she was into me so madly...

Once again, the guy got into one of her social media accounts and probably saw things he wasn't suppose to see...... he reached me through her very account, and warned me off again, threatening to kill me and all that, I confronted the girl, and she said she doesn't know how it happened.... Recently the guy used the lady's cell number to text me In the middle of the night again (meaning the lady was with him around that time.for someone that has broken up), this time threatening not to warn me anymore and having details of my siblings and their locations...... ever since then I made a resolution to forget the lady entirely, after all if she could cheat on him with me, she could do it to me as well as I couldn't place why she was really into me. besides i was looking for a serious relationship, not a fling. And I wasn't ready for headache and violence.

But the problem is the guy still threatens me often with every occasion being more fierce than the previous one... (although he hasn't met me in person or via a phone call)
and I'm not willing to talk to him or the lady either, as I wanted everything to die peacefully....

But this time, he claims to know my parents residence,, and to leave my corpse on their doorsteps if I dont back away....

Usually, I see things like this as 'noise' ..... but coming from a guy that has all loose, financially, and other wise, as the girl is his source of income, etc... I'm beginning to take the threats seriously.
[/b]WHAT CAN A MAN DO?[b]

TarOrfeek:

This your story.

Fast forward, fast forward, fast forward.


Na you buy DVD for us?!