will be 21 by Oct this year and a 400l student in a fed university. I am an introvert and find it hard keeping conversations with the opposite sex though recently I have been managing to crawl out my shell and be more free with the opposite sex though that has not been easy.

I have not known any girl since my teenage years and I find it somehow unfulfilling to graduate next year without knowing any woman throughout my 5 years in the university

This is the problem. Anytime I am with a girl in my room(I live alone offcamp) and wants to make a move I feel very uncomfortable to the extent that my stomach starts making some disturbing noises. I can't explain the reason for the fear because I am sure that the girl wants what I want and I am also 100% sure she won't refuse. This has happened multiple times.

Recently I had this bae in my room. she came to collect movies from my laptop. she had no bra on just a short gown and her nips was pointing with her curved backside showing in the revealing tight gown.

she was clearly in the mood as she sat beside me and placed her head on top my shoulder with her warm nips pressing hard against me. I was totally nervous and my body became very hot, I just didn't know what to do or how to start the action as fear gripped me. I just disengaged from her and pretended to get something from my kitchen.

So naira landers, I don't know why I can't summon courage to subdue a woman despite the glaring green lights. I can't explain the sudden fear and nervousness that grips me whenever I am with a potential F-mate.

pls I want to know if the fear is common with first timers or is there something biologically wrong with me?

pls I really need this advice.

U don't need one

akeentech:
U don't need one

why?

Don't worry Conji will teach you how to subdue a woman

Na today oooo... All Chelsea fans go sleep for 2days after barca trash dem.... I predict 3-1 in favour of barca

Whenever a girl comes to your house,go and drink Black bullet,buy Obit chewing gum. And kiss her lips,if she does'nt resist you're gradually going home.

Ahem!

Calm down my dear. You see, you need not be nervous or confused or worried about it.

Here is the thing: You are called to be a celibate. Go and fulfill your destiny!

Inugo?

You really want to sleep with a girl before you graduate, what if after sleeping with her and you graduate with HIV-AIDS?

Splinz:


Ahem!

Calm down my dear. You see, you need not be nervous or confused or worried about it.

Here is the thing: You are called to be a celibate. Go and fulfill your destiny!

Inugo?

lol. my hand no dey that one. no be my destiny be that. But is the fear associated with first time?

You are just 21,at 21, I was not thinking that way.You have a long way to go.
Some people are nervous the first time(ladies narvosity na die on that.)

If you had slept with one of them,she might become preginat and that COULD affect your destiny.

Because
1)you might be forced to marry her
2) your academic dreams(furthering) could be hampered
3)You could make do with any available job just to Carter for her
4)you are not matured for it
5)you are not breaking any record by ensuring you sleep with a lady before you graduate.
6)Some have slept with some ladies and their destiny where ruined

When you grow up you will discover that you can place a call to some of your ladies( friend )and they will appear in your room and have sex with you.(Defrent sizes and beauty).
Don't rush anything.Be warned from one who was in your current position though with more wisdom and principle.

LordNapoleon:
You really want to sleep with a girl before you graduate, what if after sleeping with her and you graduate with HIV-AIDS?

k

igbozionism:


my mom is a govt health worker. stole some condoms from her office

You never hear sey condom dey blow during sex?

chivic:
You are just 21,at 21, I was not thinking that way.You have a long way to go.
Some people are nervous the first time(ladies narvosity na die on that.)

If you had slept with one of them,she might become preginat and that COULD affect your destiny.

Because
1)you might be forced to marry her
2) your academic dreams(furthering) could be hampered
3)You could make do with any available job just to Carter for her
4)you are not matured for it
5)you are not breaking any record by ensuring you sleep with a lady before you graduate.
6)Some have slept with some ladies and their destiny where ruined

When you grow up you will discover that you can place a call to some of your ladies( friend )and the will appear in your room and have sex with you.(Defrent sizes and beauty).
Don't rush anything.Be warned from one who was in your current position though with more wisdom and principle.

I understand you but my mind is already made up. I am going to graduate with a good result but my social life is messed up. trying this out maybe a couple of times won't kill me and I know I will eventually stop because I get bored with things easily.

I am a little obsessed and I know that this is affecting my social life which id very messed up so I need to get done with it and get over my obsession.

It is very unfortunate that I passed through the uni but the uni didn't pass through me.

igbozionism:


lol. my hand no dey that one. no be my destiny be that. But is the fear associated with first time?

So you sef want follow big boys dey chop better edikangikong and Afang soup?

Chibuzor, you ah join bad gaaaaaaang...

Anyways. Yes, the fear is normal for a first timer.

Op please if you can keep your virginity till marriage. I promise to pay your groom price and spoil you with lots of love

I so much love virgin guys

Rukkydelta:
Op please if you can keep your virginity till marriage. I promise to pay your groom price and spoil you with lots of love

I so much love virgin guys

lol. very funny

Rukkydelta:
Op please if you can keep your virginity till marriage. I promise to pay your groom price and spoil you with lots of love

I so much love virgin guys

Op loves virgin gals too. R u a virgin?

when the next girl comes around,make the room condusive,put romantic movie for her..drop some sexy compliment in a funny way like"ask her what she has been eating that shez been getting more prettier and gorgeos",when conversing,if she lies or say funny things,you say"if you lie or say that again,i will bite off your lips"

When you guys are watching d movie,make sure u stay very close to her,touch her tactfully by saying"are you a last born,act as if you are reading palms by holding her hands and guessing her position in the family"...MAKE SURE YOU LOOK AT HER EYEBALL TO EYEBALL,BE CONFIDENT AND BOLD.DONT STAMMER,FIDGET,SHE AINT GONNA SWALLOW YOU

Fornication brings untimely death.

Ask her the name of her hair she plaited or make,start touching and tickling in a soft manner..tell her you know how to plait hair that your ex gf that travelled to usa,taught you#this will make her a lil bit jealous#she will start asking you about her,CREATE A STORY,or tell her she got a scholarship during yr1 and left

While tickling or playing wit her hair,you can kiss her and start handling her boobs(note that,she might resist,dont stop but come on and tell her to calm down,she will succumb)... OR next time she visits,tell her that you have something special for her,a gift,she will ask whats that,tell her that

its a surprise package,act as if you went to bring it(note make sure shez sitting on the bed,remove ur chairs if possible)go through her back,folding one of your hands,tell her to close her eyes and open her hand.use one of your hands to consolidate her closed eye and kiss her...and start romancing....take things from there.MAKE SURE YOU HAVE SOME MOJOS FOR YOUR SYSTEM AND MAKE SURE SHE SEES THEM WHEN SELECTING UR MOVIES,girls love it.

op,during my school days,i be confirm bad boy when it comes to bleeping,starting from my yr1 to 500l graduated with 2nd class upper but now i don hang boot coz all na VANITY.....i would advice u not to be engrossed in girls matter but rather concentrate on ur studies.however,it's good to have experience,so go boy and try.you're a man

Don't wait for the girl to make the first move because it hardly work that way.you initiate it and forget about your fears man.highest na shout she go shout which nothing will happen cos its ur house man,damn!trust me,after kissing her,she might wanna resist but don't stop till she succumbs.but if she doesn't,let her be else be ready to be tagged a RAPIST

I just saw one guy following a snake, and he was hailing the snake.... chairman! chairman!! anything for your guy

nwanneni:
Don't wait for the girl to make the first move because it hardly work that way.you initiate it and forget about your fears man.highest na shout she go shout which nothing will happen cos its ur house man,damn!trust me,after kissing her,she might wanna resist but don't stop till she succumbs.but if she doesn't,let her be else be ready to be tagged a RAPIST

nice.i hate shy men or guys wey no get liver.he should try and the girl will forever respect him for that

I shake my head at this OP..

I am sure you are trying to impress your friends...

You better face your studies. There is time for everything.

hmmmmm wonders shall never end so it is a bad thing to be a virgin

my bro
there is no gain having sex with any lady
remember everybody has his own demon in his/her body,d more u sleep with ladies,the more u share in her demons,same as ladies sleeping with various men

kindly thank God for who you are today and focus on something important in life

regards

You want us to teach you how to subdue a woman ba? Ok.


Your stomach making noise ba? Ok.


You wan fvck before next year ba? Ok.


You are 21 ba? Ok.


Please, 21 is still a teenager. Continue wanking and study hard.