Hi,

I need u guys advice on this issue as I just need someone to talk to about this.

I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months now and I really like her, she’s 19 and I’m 22, she’s a virgin as well and she said she doesn’t wanna have sex “until she’s ready” I don’t really like that but I really like her cause she does everything for me( I mean everything). Ok, so I decided to be with her cause I believe she’s the responsible type.

So we had an argument last week, and she went partying with some of her friends and blocked me on her Snapchat so I wouldn’t know what was going. I kinda knew she was going to the party cause she asked me to drop her dress she’s gonna where to the party at her place, I only dropped her dress for her and turned back.

After all of that, we got back together and settled everything, then I asked her why she removed me from her Snapchat, she was lying about it as if she didn’t know what happened at first. After a lot of talking on the phone she admitted to blocking me before she went partying.

Now this is the thing, I know within me that nothing happened with other guys at the party but I’m just having a second doubt as she lied about it bringing up different excuses for several hours.

I don’t wanna be the guy who stick to a girl for years and the girl ends up messing up, I’m just going to look like a maga and mumu if it happens.......

I trusted her cause I know the type of girl she is.

Please I need you guys to help me out, or am I just overthinking it, what do you think is best in a situation like? Should I break up with her and just continue my normal life or ...............


Thanks

If the girl is actually "responsible" like u said, i think u should stay with her.
But why would she go partyn after break up of few days, i fear grlz dis days.
I don't believe in commitn myself to any grl, just keeping it simple like fun fare.

Thanks

U self learn 2 fall in love with ur head, not ur heart n never b d gate keeper 4 any gal's pussy.

Grayjoy:
If the girl is actually "responsible" like u said, i think u should stay with her.
But why would she go partyn after break up of few days, i fear grlz dis days.
I don't believe in commitn myself to any grl, just keeping it simple like fun fare.

Coz I broke up with my girl yesterday means I cant go partying the next day? Abi bomb dey your head

But your girlfriend deleted you on social media so you have no idea what’s going on and she lied about it when asked

LessNoise:


Coz I broke up with my girl yesterday means I cant go partying the next day? Abi bomb dey your head

GrandTheftPant:
But your girlfriend deleted you on social media so you have no idea what’s going on and she lied about it when asked

You and I know she went to have fun.....deep down your gut is always right....use your head.....think ahead (Gold circle)

Thank you

oga relax,don't be too fast,we all can do annoying tins out of anger,u both should come together and make tins right, every relationship has ups and downs,some break-up for years and still unite. Just make sure you shine your eye wella,the little things u neglect in d actions of a woman can be mightier dan u will ever imagine. Women always say one thing but do another tomorrow,love with your brain and keep ur heart safe

LessNoise:


Coz I broke up with my girl yesterday means I cant go partying the next day? Abi bomb dey your head

Was it a break up or misunderstanding?

Your heart breaks will be so much in life, if you continue like this. Can't u focus on ur career for now and forget girls.You are too young to carry girl matter for head.There is time for everything in life.Pikins of today have notn for head than exploring their sexuality.Go and read ur book.

Grayjoy:
Was it a break up or misunderstanding?

It was a break-up

HI everyone , Please I need an advice from you all, I am a university graduate and I also own a registered company, Am currently 22 years old, I saw a lady yesterday when I took a cab, the Lady is extremely beautiful, when I first saw her my body started doing me somehow, She was a secondary school girl but very matured , I haven't met someone beautiful like that before in my life, I really like this girl cos of her beauty, as a sharp guy I talked with her a while and she gave me her contact details, the question is can I be in a relationship with a secondary school girl?? Is nothing wrong with that??

LessNoise:


It was a break-up

then it signifies d lady was actually waiting for the break up so that she do whatever she wants, dnt u thnk so?

Grayjoy:
then it signifies d lady was actually waiting for the break up so that she do whatever she wants, dnt u thnk so?

There's always two sides to a coin we shouldn't judge the girl without listening to her side of the story......you dig

LessNoise:


There's always two sides to a coin we shouldn't judge the girl without listening to her side of the story......you dig

am nt judging. Bt 4 a lady to do such, her heart must have been far 4rm u and she may have been contemplating either to leave or stay.