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My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by lebroske: 12:18am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Thank you great nairalanders. i have been following your trends for months and i can tell that i had learn a lot. What i really want to know is how to manage my wife's talkativeness. She doesn't keep secretes from her family. We have been married for four years now and all these years, every little thing that she does like putting food on the table, paying part of the rent, buying clothes for the kids, she tells her family that she is the one sustaining the family. No matter how little they are. And i observed that each time she spends her money for up keeping in the house, she will start insulting me, tells me i am irresponsible man and so on. She makes money more than i do. but even at that, i am the one paying the kids school fees, we pay the house rent together and as for the house up keeping, she brings when i am buoyant. i pay most of the bills at home. I don't demand anything from her but any time she assists in paying one or two bills, she becomes arrogant and insulting. Please, i want to know how to manage such a wife because i have stopped appreciating her and telling her some confidential matters because of her childish attitude. Thank you very much. Your opinions are welcomed. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Godson201333(m): 12:32am On Mar 04, 2018 |
lebroske: She probably do not have respect for you and she is arrogant.Have you tried to talk to about keep stuff Private ? |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Khonifer: 12:37am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Is she the only one meeting you halfway? Are you doing same? Because if she's carrying two burdens, financial and domestic she will surely feel cheated. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Ginaz(f): 12:40am On Mar 04, 2018 |
First of all, have you tried to communicate with her in a "civilized" manner about her character and how you think it is damaging to your family, especially to you as a husband? Note, I said "civilized " not in a "rude or insulting" way. Well I think your marriage is great. There's just some things missing . Respect for each other. And a bonding . Both of you should learn to respect each other. There is clearly a lack of respect from both of you. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by stefanweeks: 12:43am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Simple Tell ur family the same thing she tells her people. But this time take the credit. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Rosarie(f): 12:56am On Mar 04, 2018 |
pray.marriage is not easy at all.stopballoqing the issue affect you.marriage is a very delicate issue. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Rosarie(f): 12:59am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Khonifer:so u will narrate ur family cos u feel cheated.commuication is d key but most times is one person talking and the other party will not accept and work on he or herself so no commuication.so if d man has challenges with his job then d whole world will know what is going on in their home |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by thesicilian: 1:08am On Mar 04, 2018 |
There's no way to manage such a wife, believe me. You don enter one chance. Before bringing this online I'm sure you must have tried all manner of 'communication' to no avail. She doesn't respect you, and that may not even be due to you financial status. It's the way she is. Even if you start earning one million naira monthly tomorrow, there's no guarantee it will change anything. Just accept the situation like that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Khonifer: 1:09am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Rosarie: I didn't say she's right. I'm only proferring a possible reason for her behavior |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Nobody: 1:38am On Mar 04, 2018 |
OP in marriage there are a lot of shut you have to swallow that are undignifying. you guys are meant to support each other as you're doing now. don't be rude to her and don't discuss this with people around you. find her in her private time when everything seems cool. then talk to her about this. but don't make attempt at flaring up when she get rude. my take on her is that she never experienced life enough to know it ain't smooth with time she will gets to appreciate you. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Liliyann(f): 5:36am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Married men should stop bringing their problems here biko Mr man am very sure you saw all this qualities in her even before you married but you were blinded by your lust and greed for her salary. Nothing wrong in her doing all those things coz truth is if she don't,you may claim responsibility for everything. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Nobody: 5:54am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Liliyann: Can u hear yourself? So dats why she shud insult her husband.. Some ladies like you are meant to die single 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by lastmessenger: 6:43am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Liliyann:A lioness in the internet, A pet cat a home.you all know how to open mouth and say all sort of arrogant things in the internet but you all maintain your chill at home like a pet cat. |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Liliyann(f): 6:54am On Mar 04, 2018 |
lastmessenger: Everybody can't be a pussy like you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by lastmessenger: 9:50am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Liliyann:oh sorry your pussy smells like dead cat 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by crackhaus: 11:09am On Mar 04, 2018 |
lebroske:So you're still with this 'imaginary' wife? Almost all your topics is about your wife. Only she seduces men, only she waits for you to initiate sex, only she sleeps with her brother, only she was giving you reasons to suspect she's cheating on you, only she again don become talkative. My friend, goan sleep. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tells Her Family Every Secrete In Her Marraige by Young03(m): 1:06pm On Mar 04, 2018 |
make una just try check ops topics and judge from there 1 Like |
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