remsonik:
She's totally right. Many children are brought into this world carelessly with no plans for them. If you are not ready to make a sacrifice to train a child then there's no need having a child!
It's a bitter truth you need to adjust the way you live your life when you start having children. This involves both father and mother but in the case where parents are estranged and not together such a child have very slim chances of enjoying life and getting the best from it.

Just like all those women on the road with 5 children begging and she’s still breastfeeding another one. Got me wondering “so a man can spend his energy to straff and sweat ontop of you yet he can’t sweat to feed them”

Priscy01:
A Nigerian Mental Health Practioner has declared and given her reasons why she feels children are a burden.

In her tweet that has since gone viral, she wrote children often slow down careers, and they are very costly and time also consuming.

Read her full tweets below;
“Children are a burden (I don’t mean this in a bad way, it is what it is). They often slow down careers, are very costly and are very time consuming. It’s sad that some are carelessly brought into the world by people unwilling to make those sacrifices.”

“Without a kid you typically have to mainly worry about yourself. With a child, you have to factor them into every decision you make. You have another load to carry, you can’t be as impulsive and frivolous, you shift your way of living to accommodate them.”


https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/children-are-a-burden-they-slow-down-careers-and-are-very-time-l

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

IN PEG'S VOICE "SHE WAS ONCE A CHILDREN"

Priscy01:
A Nigerian Mental Health Practioner has declared and given her reasons why she feels children are a burden.

In her tweet that has since gone viral, she wrote children often slow down careers, and they are very costly and time also consuming.

Read her full tweets below;
“Children are a burden (I don’t mean this in a bad way, it is what it is). They often slow down careers, are very costly and are very time consuming. It’s sad that some are carelessly brought into the world by people unwilling to make those sacrifices.”

“Without a kid you typically have to mainly worry about yourself. With a child, you have to factor them into every decision you make. You have another load to carry, you can’t be as impulsive and frivolous, you shift your way of living to accommodate them.”


https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/children-are-a-burden-they-slow-down-careers-and-are-very-time-consuming-lady.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

ignorant

Akwuna ga ebe akwa nwa na una nka? Do u tink u will flirt 4 ever don't worry wen dose two balls u hang on ur chest goes flat like slippers ur eyes go clear. The beautiful ones are not yet born and ur here talking thrash. U no go find ur sef a better guy dat will Bleep u and give u adam and eve dey dia dey waste ur miserable life.

zolajpower:

I will.agree with you on the first comment you made about having a sizeable number of children you can cater for even the rich who have money tends to look after few kids . But on your second statements i totally disagree. What if she has her masters degree and shes yet to marry let alone having kids? Have you thought about that ,so life is a give and take you take whatever it present to you. I have seen career ladies with phd but are yet to have a man in.there life all.because they feel.there struggle to career part is much important than having a man in there life.

Is that a bad way to reason?

Is a man supposed to be more important than their career?

DrinkLimca:
Bringing a child one can't take care of to this world does not make the child a burden...that is a very wrong thing to say..

What?

ManFromJos:
How can she start her tweet with, "children are a burden?".. That's totally wrong from someone with bulgy big popping-out eyes.
Anyways, that one na her opinion.. As for me, children 'cannot be a burden'..
I even wonder why she said they are time consuming.. For fucksake, we do have nannies.. If u dont have the time for them, these nannies do..
For her to Say that you have to change your life style to blend their's, shows how immature, incompetent, stupid and dirty her life is..
If you dont keep late nights, drink toomuch, smoke, sleep around or even mismanage your resources or commit unnecessary 'basic' vices,.. then which life did you say you want to change?
Someone just play for her that M.I's song..
When she finally fixes her miserable life, she'd know that children aren't burdens.. Instead, na her lifestyle dey bother am.


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[bur-dn]
noun
1. that which is carried; load:
a horse's burden of rider and pack.
2. that which is borne with difficulty; obligation; onus:
the burden of leadership.

Elvixbeatz:
GOD will bless dis lady.. Sm idiots will attack her without reasoning.... Ok b4 bashing her ask ur mom if d life she is living now is wat she dreamt of.....

A failure is a failure with or without children.

emmayayodeji:
See bashing comments!!
This girl is actually saying the bitter truth

Especially in this part of the world where the sole reason for most marriages is to start manufacturing children with no adequate plans and amenities to cater for em

I dey tell you. I know someone with two set of twins, but still jobless. If you can't take care of them, don't bring them into this world

remsonik:

You were never a burden cos your parents made sacrifices and plans for you. Some are never ready to take care of their children cos when they are growing it's a burden to them. You need to adjust your lifestyle for them as responsible parents.

She said children are a burden, she did not classify whether it is the ones that were prepared for.

Most women in our present contemporary society don't value marriage hence they assume children to be a burden n even in most cases still relates it to their men.am sure with time Nigerians will adopt the life style of the western folks where contract marriage seems to be the way to a full liberal life.

Is true now

kenodrill:
Most women in our present contemporary society don't value marriage hence they assume children to be a burden n even in most cases still relates it to their men.am sure with time Nigerians will adopt the life style of the western folks where contract marriage seems to be the way to a full liberal life.

Yeah at least the westerners don't have more kids than they can afford like Africans

emmayayodeji:
See bashing comments!!
This girl is actually saying the bitter truth

Especially in this part of the world where the sole reason for most marriages is to start manufacturing children with no adequate plans and amenities to cater for em

God bless you jaree.
especially in Nigerian churches where they scream be fruitful and multiply!
there are more pressing issues nowadays.
Nigeria would be the third most populous country by 2030, imagine that population with the current state of things.

Priscy01:
A Nigerian Mental Health Practioner has declared and given her reasons why she feels children are a burden.

In her tweet that has since gone viral, she wrote children often slow down careers, and they are very costly and time also consuming.

Read her full tweets below;
“Children are a burden (I don’t mean this in a bad way, it is what it is). They often slow down careers, are very costly and are very time consuming. It’s sad that some are carelessly brought into the world by people unwilling to make those sacrifices.”

“Without a kid you typically have to mainly worry about yourself. With a child, you have to factor them into every decision you make. You have another load to carry, you can’t be as impulsive and frivolous, you shift your way of living to accommodate them.”


https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/children-are-a-burden-they-slow-down-careers-and-are-very-time-consuming-lady.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

beta go find work nd stop stalking pple online

If that is the point she was trying to make, she should have said children are big responsibilities. Using "burden" makes it sound negative.

Butoneday2:
Akwuna ga ebe akwa nwa na una nka? Do u tink u will flirt 4 ever don't worry wen dose two balls u hang on ur chest goes flat like slippers ur eyes go clear. The beautiful ones are not yet born and ur here talking thrash. U no go find ur sef a better guy dat will Bleep u and give u adam and eve dey dia dey waste ur miserable life.

Will you carter for there needs? how would you feel if your parents are unable to provide your basic needs or simply think there are better things to do than nurse a baby, but still brought you to this world to suffer. Its a crime to birth a child you cannot carter for, in Europe.

She should just yarn us the truth....she has a problem with producing babies.

eleojo23:
I think she is indirectly trying to say that people should give birth to the number of kids they can take care of.

Don't go and be producing children as if na only you God give the command 'be fruitful and multiply'

And she is also right on the second point. My Mum got her master's degree when I was studying for my own first degree... something she would have gotten earlier if she wasn't busy taking care of us.

I know men who do 2 jobs because they have kids to take care of. If they didn't have kids, they can live on one job comfortably with their wives.

So parenting involves sacrifices.

she didn't make any indirect comments. She was very unambiguous. She sees children as a burden cause of d things she won't b able 2 continue doing if she has them.she wasn't talking about family planning

ImaIma1:
If that is the point she was trying to make, she should have said children are big responsibilities. Using "burden" makes it sound negative.

They have the same meaning. Some of them will grow up to become a problem to the society. If you can't give them the best, please save the world another trouble maker. Only well trained children are beneficial to the society and worth celebrating. My cents

ImaIma1:
If that is the point she was trying to make, she should have said children are big responsibilities. Using "burden" makes it sound negative.

she knew exactly what she wanted 2 say. She sees children as a burden

remsonik:
She's totally right. Many children are brought into this world carelessly with no plans for them. If you are not ready to make a sacrifice to train a child then there's no need having a child!
It's a bitter truth you need to adjust the way you live your life when you start having children. This involves both father and mother but in the case where parents are estranged and not together such a child have very slim chances of enjoying life and getting the best from it.

first of, she isn't talking about family planning. She's sees children as things that won't enable her do d things she wants 2do.

My dear,if ur mother had had the mentality that if she gives birth to u and ur siblings,you will b a burden to her she wouldn't have gven birth to you and you won't b here spewing this rubbish...who u epp self,if u can't conceive again u better tell us,rather than giving us filmsy excuse about having kids....maybe you need a mental checkup...children are the heritage of the Lord...in this part of the world,if you have everything and you don't have child/children then you are not accomplished yet cos you're 'agan'

Donald3d:
Why all of una dey misunderstand the lady na
Una no do english comprehension for primary school ?
She is saying the truth, she is saying what it means to have kids and the sacrifices you have to take .
She no talk say make una no born pikin.Its simple logic
I don taya for una

am sure she was also a burden to her parents and they didn't throw her away

kense88:
They have the same meaning. Some of them will grow up to become a problem to the society. If you can't give them the best, please save the world another trouble maker. Only well trained children are beneficial to the society and worth celebrating. My cents

burden and responsibility aren't d same thing.Children aren't a burden, they are an investment that's y parents take responsibility for their upkeep and training. when u use d word burden, u are saying I have something that is a nuisance. With such a mentality, I don't how a child will grow 2b anything meaningful

Hmmm. But, she's someone's child and her parents didn't consider her a burden. This is expression of foolishness.

If your parent have thought like this, they wouldn't have given birth to you, and you won't be here talking trash... My children are a blessing

kense88:
I dey tell you. I know someone with two set of twins, but still jobless. If you can't take care of them, don't bring them into this world

that's family planning which is different from.what she talked about

[quote author=Elvixbeatz post=65654136]GOD will bless dis lady.. Sm idiots will attack her without reasoning.... Ok b4 bashing her ask ur mom if d life she is living now is wat she dreamt of.....
you re nt responsible for the current condition,every one is living with the consequences of their decision like you will also do when you become one,that's y it is advisable to have got everything u want to get b4 'dabbing' to marriage...but saying having children waste one's time...may our life not be like a snake that crawl on a rock without traces...in this part of d world,if u dnt have one either adopted or biological,u wil get fustrated one day

lexy2014:
first of, she isn't talking about family planning. She's sees children as things that won't enable her do d things she wants 2do.

Well its her life, no one is obliged to have kids. All this Fulani herdsmen wey dey kill people, na very good example of poor or no parenting.

Cutehector:
You see Darling, when you are broke in life, things like this becomes a nightmare for you.


Have money.. Everything gets easier. Even with kids, some people still survive and are doing better than the single ones out there.

It's not all about money.
Have you seen a woman with twins or triplets?

My aunt almost had a nervous breakdown... imagine having to breastfeed 2-3 hefty kids turn by turn at same time?
So what can money do in such scenario?...buy breast milk?