stupidity:
na to kill your self remain!!! Because of woman!!!

LOL, STUPIDITY.
NA YOU DE WORRY AM NA.

Prec1ous:
I wanted to skip, but having experienced something similar, i will help!!!

First
You invested too much in the relationship and it is that loss that is killing you. You have to wake up this day and tell yourself that you have been scammed by the person you loved.

You have to see all you have done for her as bad debt, like a scholarship!

Second
Take out a sheet of paper and write out all the bad things about her, look at each and ask yourself if you really want to face such oddity.

Third
Stop trying to replace her perfectly, you can never do that. Instead you need an hybrid, someone better than her in all ramifications or at least assume that person is.

Fourth
You have to mourn that relationship like you lost a loved one. Mourn it, not because you want it back but because you are letting it go.

Five
The stage you are in is what is making it hard, you are a sore loser now and you have to change that too. Get a job or create one, the idea is just to get busy with anything that can be distracting enough for you to forget food.

Drastic Measure - Face the source of your pain!!!
This one works very fast but it can be devastating.

- Delete and discard all you have about her, numbers, pictures ... anything that is from her, has her input or reminds you of her. Do not stop thinking about her, do not fight it. Every time you remember her, smile and tell her thank you in absentia, you have to diffuse her effects on you. You have to overcome the pangs of pain you get when you remember her.

- Now goto her FACEBOOK WALL, start to check all her pictures and read her posts, you will feel the pain swell in you, you will get emotional and you may want to cry BUT DON,T EVER.

You see how happy she is without you, look at her smiling picture and ask yourself this, did you cause that smile? NO i guess. Now let that pain convert to PURE ANGER, that lady there is now your motivation to SUCCESS AND THE DRIVE OUT OF YOUR SHITHOLE LIFE, You have to revenge by taking hold of your life.

- Now you see that you need to have your own life, so go get it and stop living for a woman who is going to ride another phallus tonight!!!

912:
Your village people have taken hold of your destiny. Keep crying over woman instead of you to go seek deliverance.

Hopeless emotional wreck. If the person you are crying over and even lost your job because of, can move on so easily from a relationship that you think was of importance then you are a really dumb 1st class holder and I advice that you return your certificate because lack brains.

tosyne2much:
It is something nearly every man will experience at least once in his lifetime


Welcome on board bro

dna4ril:
I loved her so much, it was heaven on earth, six yrs plus..from 100level to 3yrs after service, until late last yr wen we broke up, few days to my birthday...
I wept bitterly even during the post break up days as I saw her loose interest in me and i was doubling up, doing everythin i cud to stil make it work, bt alas i cudnt..
How much more wen we did break up..it was hell at the initialy stages, cudnt concentrate well at work, tnks to ma colleagues, severl sleepless nights, wet pillows nd all....
But then with time, that phase passed and i summoned courage somehow to find reason to move on, little did i no i was joking...she abruply stop comm, she even blocked me nd all, so i also decided to face my life...

However, being wth this babe, for the six yrs plus of my life, i knew no oda lady aside her, but since shes gone in six months av known 5 ladies...had sex wth two of them...I say this with deep regret looking back, the most recent one, i rembad calling her name (my ex) while in cosy mood with the most recent lady...

My search for love to fill that vacuum she left has led me into untold character flaws, nt her fault dou, as i take responsibility for my weakness..I guess i took it too far, built my whole life and essence around her amd now that shes gone, everythn seems to be falling apart..i lost my job ystday, my boss says my delivery had been poor, that i had known ovatime, as i first class material, my self esteem and ego had been really battered as am on active search for a new job...

Got alot fghting now,but how do i really deal wth this back and forth feeling for this my ex..I feel i need more than all the therapies out ther cos av read,sort advice bt yet everyday even after six months she takes a toll someau on me and shes just cool where she is...

So i tot to give up on my search for love, a replacement or a filling of the vacumm she created after my most recent sexual escapade cos i see how its draining my energy, spitually and intellectualy ovatime...i tot to cut off from competely in my search for love, just face my life, God, and secure a good job....thats what i shud do and i no it, but its been pretty hard...

I need help...i dnr want to be reduced to a vegetable
A genuine cry for help
.Matured response pls...
Esp from christian singles...
Thanks

God pls help me....and gimme anoda chance.

dna4ril:
I loved her so much, it was heaven on earth, six yrs plus..from 100level to 3yrs after service, until late last yr wen we broke up, few days to my birthday...
I wept bitterly even during the post break up days as I saw her loose interest in me and i was doubling up, doing everythin i cud to stil make it work, bt alas i cudnt..
How much more wen we did break up..it was hell at the initialy stages, cudnt concentrate well at work, tnks to ma colleagues, severl sleepless nights, wet pillows nd all....
But then with time, that phase passed and i summoned courage somehow to find reason to move on, little did i no i was joking...she abruply stop comm, she even blocked me nd all, so i also decided to face my life...

However, being wth this babe, for the six yrs plus of my life, i knew no oda lady aside her, but since shes gone in six months av known 5 ladies...had sex wth two of them...I say this with deep regret looking back, the most recent one, i rembad calling her name (my ex) while in cosy mood with the most recent lady...

My search for love to fill that vacuum she left has led me into untold character flaws, nt her fault dou, as i take responsibility for my weakness..I guess i took it too far, built my whole life and essence around her amd now that shes gone, everythn seems to be falling apart..i lost my job ystday, my boss says my delivery had been poor, that i had known ovatime, as i first class material, my self esteem and ego had been really battered as am on active search for a new job...

Got alot fghting now,but how do i really deal wth this back and forth feeling for this my ex..I feel i need more than all the therapies out ther cos av read,sort advice bt yet everyday even after six months she takes a toll someau on me and shes just cool where she is...

So i tot to give up on my search for love, a replacement or a filling of the vacumm she created after my most recent sexual escapade cos i see how its draining my energy, spitually and intellectualy ovatime...i tot to cut off from competely in my search for love, just face my life, God, and secure a good job....thats what i shud do and i no it, but its been pretty hard...

I need help...i dnr want to be reduced to a vegetable
A genuine cry for help
.Matured response pls...
Esp from christian singles...
Thanks

God pls help me....and gimme anoda chance.