XhosaNostra:


And I'm saying you're wrong. Finish. You can't tell me what I'm lying about or not lying about when you're not me.

You're lying, finish. How can you tell me you can do with or without sex? Unless he is not sexually attracted to you anyway... In which case, I wonder why you'll be in such relationship in the first place

XhosaNostra:


Ditto! The thought alone makes me depressed. Can you imagine!

LMFAO @ gives me nothing but attention & jokes.

I wonder why nairaland tends to paint the " rich" guys as villains as if they are all the same.

Lol, but that's what they do . I would rather download a Chris Rock video on YouTube and buy a puppy to follow me all over the place .

Lionessza:



I wonder why nairaland tends to paint the " rich" guys as villains as if they are all the same.

Lol, but that's what they do . I would rather download a Chris Rock video on YouTube and buy a puppy to follow me all over me .

Let me help you out. Rich people, 99.9% of the time reach for females within their caste. We, the poor guys don't have problems with that. But when the gluttons among them come for those few beauties within our caste, what do you expect us to do? Continue to smile while suffering?
Thus, the need for these drastic measures to sort of create "fear of the unknown" in our poor female population becomes imperative ... Ain't we just geniuses?

Opentokwowledge:
You're lying, finish. How can you tell me you can do with or without sex? Unless he is not sexually attracted to you anyway... In which case, I wonder why you'll be in such relationship in the first place

I'm not talking about when I'm in a relationship Even relationships, I can take them or leave them. Nobody burns bridges like I do You have to understand that people operate on different levels. I have extreme loner tendencies. I honestly feel like I do not need people to feel "alive". Usually I lock myself away without talking to anyone other than my immediate family, for months at a time. When I'm single, I can also go years without sex. That's me. I don't need it. It's not nourishment. In fact, I feel more balanced & connected to myself when I isolate myself. But with prolonged isolation comes loneliness, which is what drives me to forge relationships. Otherwise, I'm good. It's nothing physical, I just miss people sometimes.

Opentokwowledge:
Let me help you out. Rich people, 99.9% of the time reach for females within their caste. We, the poor guys don't have problems with that. But when the gluttons among them come for those few beauties within our caste, what do you expect us to do? Continue to smile while suffering?
Thus, the need for these drastic measures to sort of create "fear of the unknown" in our poor female population becomes imperative ... Ain't we just geniuses?

Lol, you can't stop the exodus to the other side though . Women are beginning to see poor " humble " men for what they are.

Lionessza:



I wonder why nairaland tends to paint the " rich" guys as villains as if they are all the same.

Lol, but that's what they do . I would rather download a Chris Rock video on YouTube and buy a puppy to follow me all over the place .

Lol, funny I was thinking the same thing about a puppy & comedy.

Exactly! They're not all bad people, just like being a pauper doesn't make you a person of good character or a diamond in the rough. Some of them are assholes in-waiting, they just lack something to get douchey about.

MhizAJ:


But you said all girls are gold diggers
that's not true

Read again. I said gold diggers by default

XhosaNostra:


I'm not talking about when I'm in a relationship Even relationships, I can take them or leave them. Nobody burns bridges like I do You have to understand that people operate on different levels. I have extreme loner tendencies. I honestly feel like I do not need people to feel "alive". Usually I lock myself away without talking to anyone other than my immediate family, for months at a time. When I'm single, I can also go years without sex. That's me. I don't need it. It's not nourishment. In fact, I feel more balanced & connected to myself when I isolate myself. But with prolonged isolation comes loneliness, which is what drives me to forge relationships. It's nothing physical, I just miss people sometimes.

Something is wrong somewhere. I can sense it but I can't place it just yet... I mean, we all need to go back and recharge once in a while, but that doesn't mean switching off on people like they don't matter only to miss people and then switch on on them like they are play things... What is wrong with you? Have you lost touch with your hormones ? Or Have you just not met the man that's worth your devotion? Help me understand this

greiboy:
Miss cokie the rescuer of broke men

The only hope of we broke guys

May you live long

but broke guys should struggle to be rich always. You know?

Lionessza:




Lol, you can't stop the exodus to the other side though . Women are beginning to see poor " humble " men for what they are.

That's unfair. It's not always true. Some poor guys are just victims of circumstances and you can see them trying to balance the equation. They deserve love and you should not deny them...

Opentokwowledge:
Something is wrong somewhere. I can sense it but I can't place it just yet... I mean, we all need to go back and recharge once in a while, but that doesn't mean switching off on people like they don't matter only to miss people and then switch on on them like they are play things... What is wrong with you? Have you lost touch with your hormones ? Or Have you just not met the man that's worth your devotion? Help me understand this

Sick or not, that's who I am & the only way I know how to be. It's not done maliciously on my part, I don't use people, I just don't feel like I can't do without so & so. That's not me. I can write anyone off in a second, regardless of how long I've known them or how close we were. I think losing both parents at a very young age kinda made me fear getting too emotionally attached to people. Subconsciously it's there, reason I can do a 180 without feeling as much as a heartburn about it.

I was born solo!

XhosaNostra:


Lol, funny I was thinking the same thing about a puppy & comedy.

Exactly! They're not all bad people, just like being a pauper doesn't make you a person of good character or a diamond in the rough. Some of them are assholes in-waiting, they just lack something to get douchey about.

Lol, I always find it funny when we poor ladies mock the rich women with puppies as lonely bytches in mansions. Funny thing is , the poor girl ain't happy as well plus she has to endure living in squalor with multiple hungry kids and a husband with an inferiority complex . And you know the funniest comedians are from poorer backgrounds . There's a reason for that.

LMAO @ the bolded . Not to add that , most domestic violence cases are between poor couples . I'm not saying the rich don't fck each other up but the rate can't be compared.

Opentokwowledge:
That's unfair. It's not always true. Some poor guys are just victims of circumstances and you can see them trying to balance the equation. They deserve love and you should not deny them...

I'm not putting down broke guys , never. But I'm also against this notion of them being the best partners because they are " caring " . It's a lie. Yes , some maybe genuine and would still be the same when well off but they aren't in majority. Yes , we all deserve love and happiness, but we should also not be judged on how we choose to go about achieving these. To each it's own.

Lionessza:



Lol, I always find it funny when we poor ladies mock the rich women with puppies as lonely bytches in mansions. Funny thing is , the poor girl ain't happy as well plus she has to endure living in squalor with multiple hungry kids and a husband with an inferiority complex . And you know the funniest comedians are from poorer backgrounds . There's a reason for that.

LMAO @ the bolded . Not to add that , most domestic violence cases are between poor couples . I'm not saying the rich don't fck each other up but the rate can't be compared.

Lol, me I'd trade any Romeo with nothing more to offer other than a dick & a headache for one of those mansions. I'm not a character in a romance novel abeg Practicality is numba wan * In Jacob Zuma's voice*

When the rich f*ck each other over, at least one of them will walk away with a lump sum as compensation. You wanna stress me when all I'll be walking away with is a bad taste in my mouth & a tattered suitcase? Erm, I don't think so! Your no-money having ass better take a bench!

Lionessza:



I'm not putting down broke guys , never. But I'm also against this notion of them being the best partners because they are " caring " . It's a lie. Yes , some maybe genuine and would still be the same when well off but they aren't in majority. Yes , we all deserve love and happiness, but we should also not be judged on how we choose to go about achieving these. To each it's own.

That's the ultimate saying and it is not good for debates

XhosaNostra:


Sick or not, that's who I am & the only way I know how to be. It's not done maliciously on my part, I don't use people, I just don't feel like I can't do without so & so. That's not me. I can write anyone off in a second, regardless of how long I've known them or how close we were. I think losing both parents at a very young age kinda made me fear getting too emotionally attached to people. Subconsciously it's there, reason I can do a 180 without feeling as much as a heartburn about it.

I was born solo!

Astounding declarations to say the least. It's good to be independent but not to this almost mind shattering extent. There is a popular saying among my people that goes "One tree does not make a forest". Just think about that...
Or, do you see life as a warzone lol?, your lifestyle reminds me of this Yoda saying from Starwars ...

Opentokwowledge:
Astounding declarations to say the least. It's good to be independent but not to this almost mind shattering extent. There is a popular saying among my people that goes "One tree does not make a forest". Just think about that...
Or, do you see life as a warzone lol?, your lifestyle reminds me of this Yoda saying from Starwars ...

Lol, let me explain something to you. I'm a very complex person emotionally. It's either I'm all in or all out. When I do get attached on the rare occasions that I have been, it's not healthy attachment. I become needy & demanding, it's not fun Hence I prefer to stay as far away from emotional attachments as I possibly can. Because if I don't care about you, I won't be going through the emotional ups & downs because of you. Caring for me comes with strings attached & an emotional hell for everyone involved, myself included. I don't Bleep with feelings, sorry.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, me I'd trade any Romeo with nothing more to offer other than a dick & a headache for one of those mansions. I'm not a character in a romance novel abeg Practicality is numba wan * In Jacob Zuma's voice*

When the rich f*ck each other over, at least one of them will walk away with a lump sum as compensation. You wanna stress me when all I'll be walking away with is a bad taste in my mouth & a tattered suitcase? Erm, I don't think so! Your no-money having ass better take a bench!

LMFAO, truth. But I think it's difficult for some to accept that not all of us are into the Romeo and Juliette thing . I would trade the siamise twin with a humongous dyck and poetic skills for , a mansion with no dyck as long as I will have peace of mind ,and my pride won't be stepped on. * priorities* .


Lol, exactly. Nothing more to add here . Hahahahaha@ the tattered suitcase compensation.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, let me explain something to you. I'm a very complex person emotionally. It's either I'm all in or all out. When I do get attached on the rare occasions that I have been, it's not healthy attachment. I become needy & demanding, it's not fun Hence I prefer to stay as far away from emotional attachments as I possibly can. Because if I don't care about you, I won't be going through the emotional ups & downs because of you. Caring for me comes with strings attached & an emotional hell for everyone involved, myself included. I don't Bleep with feelings, sorry.

Wow, from nutcracker to bombshell. But I think I understand and I hope you find LOVE. The only feeling that has nothing else to explain it

Opentokwowledge:
That's the ultimate saying and it is not good for debates

Lol, it does not have to end the debate . My point was that, let's not stone those who choose to live their lives a certain way . If one wants to stick it out with a broke guy , good for them . If one wants to work with someone on their level to reach a common goal , good for them . If one wants to go for the rich guy , good for them.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, let me explain something to you. I'm a very complex person emotionally. It's either I'm all in or all out. When I do get attached on the rare occasions that I have been, it's not healthy attachment. I become needy & demanding, it's not fun Hence I prefer to stay as far away from emotional attachments as I possibly can. Because if I don't care about you, I won't be going through the emotional ups & downs because of you. Caring for me comes with strings attached & an emotional hell for everyone involved, myself included. I don't Bleep with feelings, sorry.

LMFAO, you are such a horrible person. I like it.

Lionessza:



LMFAO, truth. But I think it's difficult for some to accept that not all of us are into the Romeo and Juliette thing . I would trade the siamise twin with a humongous dyck and poetic skills for , a mansion with no dyck as long as I will have peace of mind ,and my pride won't be stepped on. * priorities* .


Lol, exactly. Nothing more to add here . Hahahahaha@ the tattered suitcase as compensation.

Qha! LMAO. They can keep deceiving themselves. Not all of us are looking for or waiting for Prince Charming. Even if I'm 40 & single, if I'm rich he can keep his worthless dick, no love lost here

Opentokwowledge:
Wow, from nutcracker to bombshell. But I think I understand and I hope you find LOVE. The only feeling that has nothing else to explain it

Thanks for the well wishes

Lionessza:




LMFAO, you are such a horrible person. I like it.

Yhu, do you know how painful it is to care? Sorry but I'd rather not care & live happily ever after with zero f*cks given.

MhizAJ:
I can't date/marry a broke guy

It's not gonn ever happen!!!

I am not a gold digger...stop generalising

I don't see any disadvantage in being with a rich guy

Rich guys any day any time

I would definitely share the same view with you if I were a lady. But since I'm not...Lemme drop a little secret for your own good...

If you ain't half as rich as that nigger, better take a walk. Unless you regard yourself as a 'thing' and not a 'human being'. By having some financial strength yourself, you've obtained a fair amount of bargaining power and control. But if you're broke, better stick with guys in your level.

Rich guys, especially those who made their own money, are f##kingly smart people. It takes a good brain to make money. That good brain can equally conjure never-fail plans to maim or destroy human life when the need arises.

XhosaNostra:


Qha! LMAO. They can keep deceiving themselves. Not all of us are looking for or waiting for Prince Charming. Even if I'm 40 & single, if I'm rich he can keep his worthless dick, no love lost here

Lol, you know ?. What will a hungry dyck bring me ? , if not more problems like kids we can't feed, and wrinkles before I turn 40? Nonsense lol. I would take the riches with no bed partner any day , more space to roll around lol. Plus, there's nothing more satisfying than doing what you desire and when you want to it.

Lionessza:




Lol, you know ?. What will a hungry dyck bring me ? , if not more problems like kids we can't feed, and wrinkles before I turn 40? Nonsense lol. I would take the riches with no bed partner any day , more space to roll around lol. Plus, there's nothing more satisfying than doing what you desire and when you want to it.

LMFAO. Exactly.

As for hungry dick, out!

XhosaNostra:


Yhu, do you know how painful it is to care? Sorry but I'd rather not care & live happily ever after with zero f*cks given.

Uzisindisa amagxa ngomntu , that's too much work . You will become psychotic over someone who is enjoying themselves at your expense. Looking out for number 1 ngundoqo. It's sounds evil and cold but , I would take that label before being an emotional yoyo lol.

Lionessza:



Uzisindisa amagxa ngomntu , that's too much work . You will become psychotic over someone who is enjoying themselves at your expense. Looking out for number 1 ngundoqo. It's sounds evil and cold but , I would take that label before being an emotional yoyo lol.

Ndiyayazi ne-emotional yoyo. It hurts just reading those words When we get back at them for playing with our feelings, they're going to say we're wicked. So I'd rather save them from the tsunami that would knock them out cold

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Exactly.

As for hungry dick, out!

Lol, now you have just made me imagine how a hungry dyck would look like . I'm out though .

Poor girl with poor mentality.

If u have ur career intact and u are not expecting relationship to be a business venture, all those 5 points are not applicable.


Most times it starts with genuine love until you can not hide the fact that u are simply a thief. He pays u for ur service and dump u.