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| Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 11:17pm On Mar 21, 2018 |
Fellas, I am faced with a difficult situation here, I started dating this girl from my NYSC and we conveniently dated for a year and all through this time, she professed love to me each day because I acted the man, I gave her good sex, shared with her, knew her family and was always supportive. We play like children and have some crazy and fun moments together but service wasn't rosy afterall due to money issues and some Ponzi investment which went wrong. She swore never to cheat on me and showed me love always, things were rough but one way or the other we scaled through together despite the rough financial stance, fast forward, I got a well paying job and I told her about the salary and was truthful to her. I am a computer science graduate into Ethical hacking and I managed to bug her phone, I read her messages(WhatsApp and Facebook ) and discovered she was sleeping with men to get money(runs girl), I played along and was reciprocating the love because my properties where in her custody and she knows I'm relocating so I wanted my properties sent to me before I opened up, so when it was finally sent to me through a friend that did a waybill. I called her and told her she was cheating, she denied and even swore with her life till I showed her the chat, she now admitted and started crying that it was because of her predicament, that she needed money for her school fees and it was due. My surprise is how she was cheating and still calling me always and still swearing love. I have forgiven her because of the predicament issue and she promised to change and never cheat but I want to breakup. Please advice me constructively and with good judgement. 2 Likes
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| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by nuggarito: 11:36pm On Mar 21, 2018 |
Emotional cheating, I can bear that but you fucking around mehn that's heavy , bro please go and do a test, you dating a hoe is putting your life at risk. Dating a hoe is same as walking on a death trap. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 11:48pm On Mar 21, 2018 |
nuggarito: Shey, I even went raw thinking I was on a clean slate. The pretense really turned me off...I feel like she's bin doing it even while we were dating |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by 1stSonOfLucifer(m): 12:05am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Eleyi gidi gan-an. Anyways, ain't gat GF. Lemme wait for the elders |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by olafunny(m): 12:12am On Mar 22, 2018 |
The truth is bitter. She might love you truly, but once a LovePeddler, always a LovePeddler. What gives you the assurance that she's not gonna do same if u eventually get married to her and things go south. Be careful!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Nobody: 3:32am On Mar 22, 2018 |
she swore dat she will never cheat on u but she did .....if u go ahead to date her and finally marry her she will do the same.... .. wise up man..........a girl who can open her legs for money is nothing but a prostitute ...... 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by don4real18(m): 4:38am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Move on... Do you know how many sex partners she has professed love to 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by lenghtinny(m): 5:08am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Greenstar1: You should be grateful you made it out of that relationship without Stds...... I wasn't so lucky  1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by egworlordor(m): 5:24am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Dump her ass; although every body has a skeleton in their cupboard, but d person whose skeleton is found is d real culprit. Love no be for mouth 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by ubunja(m): 6:14am On Mar 22, 2018 |
hajoke2000:he'll still forgive her and take her back. men of today have zero standards. |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 6:20am On Mar 22, 2018 |
olafunny: Exactly my thought |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 6:21am On Mar 22, 2018 |
hajoke2000: You are the best. Saying she was forced by circumstances |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Nobody: 6:23am On Mar 22, 2018 |
smh  Nigerian men getting weaker by the day Men losing their D I C K S and growing pussies |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Sunexy(m): 7:07am On Mar 22, 2018 |
If it's me, I might forgive and be blowing   ....nobody is talking about marriage |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by MhizzAJ(f): 7:50am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Yes Go on and date her |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Olalan(m): 7:58am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Since you know the true color of your girl, you need to move on, cheating is a big slap on the face |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Divay22(f): 8:11am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Funny thing about giving relationship advice is that, at the end of the day, op will still decide and that decision he has already made before opening this thread... But just to chip in Follow your heart... A relationship is as good as dead if you can't trust your partner... She'll change, but there's every possibility that she might go back to her old ways, if you're broke again... |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Nobody: 8:22am On Mar 22, 2018 |
That's why I don't waste my time on thread like this, OP has already made up his mind to go back but just in case he cares... my advice is that, she can't be saved. Someone that lied to your face that she won't cheat on you and yet she sleeps around and you still thinks she won't cheat on you ? Grow up man. |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by ImaIma1(f): 8:41am On Mar 22, 2018 |
If you go ahead and mend things with her and marry her, will your mind be at rest? You know what you should do from your answer. |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Greenstar1: thanks.....that girls of this 21st century for u ... |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Nobody: 9:26am On Mar 22, 2018 |
ubunja: heeen....men ke.....some are very wise .... |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 10:09am On Mar 22, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: I believe you are being sarcastic |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 10:13am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Divay22: True, a very close friend of mine that's a lady who she knows very well said I should forgive her and accept her back. For the fact that she was hiding it and still pretending to be. I hate her for that. |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Greenstar1(m): 10:17am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Bbbbbbbbbbbb: Nigeria men loosing sense by the day, how is this a constructive advice. GOAT! |
| Re: Should I Still Date Her? by Nobody: 10:48am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Greenstar1: He-goat spotted. How did you escape from the ranch? Mumu of the highest order |
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