WHY DO WOMEN TAKE QUIET MEN FOR GRANTED.. SHOULD HE PRAY OR JUST CHANGE?

I will try to be objective as much as possible. I have heard different men lament especially the quiet ones. So I will just list out what most honest, well meaning men are going through.

1. A wife earns above 200,000 naira while the man earns about 100,000 naira. The wife starts getting pompous. The husband provides for his home and even settles the lady's debt. Yet the woman denies the man sex and only allows him when she is in the mood.

2. The woman demands for details of how the man spends his money but she does not tell the man how she spends hers and when the man asks she gets angry and start unnecessary quarrel.

3. Everybody envies the marriage from outside they see it as perfect because the wife acts her best and shows more love when people are watching.

4. Is it a crime to be quiet? She decides what he wears but the man has no right to decide what she wears.

5. The man's manhood no longer stands when with her, he cannot explain why?

6. She has stopped washing the man's clothes or even cooking because she claims too busy. Even the man now washes her own clothes.

7. This man meets his responsibilities very well.

8. The pride of the wife multiplies when she discovered she is pregnant.

From this it's like most ladies prefers domineering men and the ego of a man is what makes him a man and not the responsibility.

Are all quiet men going through this? A concerned husband is asking. Should he pray or change.

I just came to hail you .



You are on point. to the core

I know where that shoe pinches bro...but there xomes a time when you have to become a demon just to create contrast and let her see what an angel you can be.

First you need to be sure that no man is a woman's firs t or best choice and if you die now .. . You shall be replaced.

Secondly a woman needs a man first before a companion... You need to have scenarios that remind her that you are a quite man but no less of a man...

If you are like me, I would guess you share every personal info with her becasue you " don't want to keep secrets " I would say start there... Don't keep secrets but don't be a basket protect some information from her. Think of this the reason why once a new iPhone comes out we rush it even though have the one before it is becasue they mess with our minds. ... They control our curiosity... And we always ask for more...

Women are the same control thier curiosity... Don't tell them everything It doesn't make you honest,, but boring

Also change your routine, your style, your pattern stop being predictable. .. if you are always at home at 6 try to stay out till 11

If you always dress like a daddy once a while baff the Bleep up let her wonder if you are seeing someone out there... Make yourself unpredictable.

Women like to be chased but there is a time they will have to so the chasing.


Please in ALL never raise your hands at her becasue she will try to push you there. .. Don't!

Instead when momemt like that Come just do this...
Keep mute... At best chuckle at things she says to hurt you. .. You will see how she will begin to align to her role as a wife...

This is a universal expo..

Be bold and brave
Let sorry be scarce from your lip... Use. I have heard instead...

There is more if you need... I was in your shoes... But i took the bull by the balls!!!

Oga Op, I don't think the man you painted his picture is quiet, bro, he is simply dumb. A certified mumu.

This is not the definition of a quiet man but a foolish one.

Nobody can take me for granted, you will not even enjoy it

Mr Quiet husband if you're as perfect as you described you don't deserve someone who treats you like this. Pray to God to touch your wife and change her and keep enduring with prayers until God changes her.

I think you should also check yourself or ask her if anything is wrong on your part. You'll be shocked to discover she has a textbook of complains against you.

Let Ubunja comment first before I do.

Ha ha ha.. this brings many memories and smiles to my face. being gentle and nice all the time does not work with women.

For two good years I was telling her that I don't like drama and prefer tranquility. The more I was calm the more dem she and her people dey throw one crap after the other.

The more i tried to be peaceful,the more they thought I was spineless and weak. I had promised that the day that I will display my own drama,they would never ever forget.

On that wonderful day, I did not say a word and did not argue with anybody but what I did...they almost run mad. I just dey one corner dey look all of them dey look the person wey go near me with the angels of anger wey surround me.

One month after they were still waiting for apology phone call from me. I ignore all of them but dey relate with my wife everyday.

Since that glorious day her head and everybody wey dey ginger am for silly thing correct and peace entered our home.

Choose one special day and let her see the other side of you

You have to let her no that you are not alright but you just prefer to behave normal all the time.

But never raise your hand on your wife, you will never regain your respect.

otipoju:
Ha ha ha.. this brings many memories and smiles to my face. being gentle and nice all the time does not work with women.

For two good years I was telling her that I don't like drama and prefer tranquility. The more I was calm the more dem she and her people dey throw one crap after the other.

The more i tried to be peaceful,the more they thought I was spineless and weak. I had promised that the day that I will display my own drama,they would never ever forget.

On that wonderful day, I did not say a word and did not argue with anybody but what I did...they almost run mad. I just dey one corner dey look all of them dey look the person wey go near me with the angels of anger wey surround me.

One month after they were still waiting for apology phone call from me. I ignore all of them but dey relate with my wife everyday.

Since that glorious day her head and everybody wey dey ginger am for silly thing correct and peace entered our home.

Choose one special day and let her see the other side of you

You have to let her no that you are not alright but you just prefer to behave normal all the time.

But never raise your hand on your wife, you will never regain your respect.

would have loved to know what you did though.

@uchkochi, hope you're reading this. You're right, a lot of "quiet" guys are going through this, regardless of whether the woman earns more or not. Sometimes it seems women just enjoy pushing men's boundries to see how far they can go. The "sex only when she wants it " is particularly frustrating. When the man begins to cheat they will now start shouting up and down.

Take courage from this thread and see what you can do to improve the situation.

A man should never be too calm, neither should he be too hot. But being too calm is worse off.a A woman will grind you, ride you, and dumb you to be with a strong man. Women generally detest when a man is soft. Such a man becomes a doormat. My hubby is soft and hot. I have come to respect both sides because he has created a balance.There's nothing wrong with helping out at home, or being a calm man, but if you do it often, your woman will take you as a weakling. Yes tell your wife things, but hold some information until she has proven herself worthy of holding such information without abuse.
To the scene painted, my dear, MAN UP and watch her SIT DOWN to honour you as a woman should a husband.