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I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by dayoola1: 8:23am On Mar 31, 2018 |
My name is dayo im currently in the university. Before leaving for the december break i slept with a girl whom at the third month of the pregnancy her aunty found out called me to tell me and told me and tried to abort it but d doctor declined saying its too late for that. My parents sponsor me and the girls parents expect me to take full responsibilities for the child which is something i just don't have the finances for and i can't risk telling my parents about it. Please i want to give the child up for adoption to a good stable family which needs a child and can take care of the child (boy/girl) august or september should be her due date please email me on olaniyanoladayo52@gmail.com if u need a child for adoption or u know someone who does. I think its better i solidify the future of my children if im not sure i can raise them right i hope my mistake is a lesson and a blessing to someone else please contact me. |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Blakjewelry(m): 8:36am On Mar 31, 2018 |
you no get money and you no fit hold your preeq |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Oyindidi(f): 8:49am On Mar 31, 2018 |
Go siddon oga, you know all these and you impregnate a girl. |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Nobody: 8:53am On Mar 31, 2018 |
i hope your girlfriend is aware of this |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Nobody: 11:16am On Mar 31, 2018 |
Well, its not the end of the world. Having a child can never be a curse, its always a blessing. And that's why I'll suggest you tell your parents immediately. If you are scared, go with and elder that you know they respect a lot. Let the girl stay with your parents while she gives birth and you finish with your studies. Aborting the baby is tantamount to cold blooded murder, so don't try it. Then, you'll have to tighten your belt because you need to show your parents that you are indeed remorseful. You need to get a job alongside your studies. There are shops looking for sales boy and girls, I'm sure. You need to start earning to at least contribute to the upkeep of the child and his mother. Don't expect your folks to do that and keep sponsoring you in school. That'd be crazily crazy. I wish you the best. And congrats on the becoming a father soon. So many want to be but can't be. |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by dayoola1: 3:40pm On Mar 31, 2018 |
5thElement:Yes you said so many people want to be but can't be...........this may be GOD's blessing to one of them |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Nobody: 4:41pm On Mar 31, 2018 |
dayoola1: No it isn't. Take care of your own kid yourself. Don't pass off the buck to some household where she may be sexually molested by anybody in that household. If in future God blesses you with wealth you'll now start looking for the child up and down to create a relationship that isn't there, right? This is Africa. There's always family that can help you bear part of the burden. Don't give away your child. If he's a male child and then later in future you give birth to a female child and the two of them meet in the university or something, do you know how disastrous that can be? |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Shugarlord213: 1:17am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Bro leave that child for the woman to carry abeg Why can’t she take contraceptives ?? Let me tell you you aren’t the only one that is baaanging her neither are you the father. They just want to rope it on your head since you are gullible you accepted. Guy comot hand for the matter she got served!! |
Re: I Want To Give A Baby On The Way Up For Adoption by Nobody: 1:29am On Apr 01, 2018 |
dayoola1: I don't think it happens this way. This is not the US. In my country adopting parents are not even allowed to chose the kids they want. And ... the baby belongs to the person who carries it for 9 months and pushed it through hard labour. You two are not married and even if you were, it's not your decision. For good reason - like this thread of yours. In this case, her parents have more say over you as far as the future of the baby is concerned. Thank God. I don't know why you college is an excuse. The kid does not start school for at least four years to come. You will be done with college. And kids eat very little food. |
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