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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:56pm On Apr 09, 2018
you guys blaming the lady..
it's sad that some ladies are also bashing her.

was the man going to marry her because of virginity?

why would you ask a lady whether she's a virgin in the first place? is that why he wants to marry her?


my dear move on, the bastard isn't worth it

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:57pm On Apr 09, 2018
MissWrite:



Lol...... cheesy

Yes, exactly like you. Me sef,no want wahala.
cheesy..... even me sef...
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

On point cool
Reminds me of the other thread the man obviously married her believing she was a virgin and not because he loves her
.I plan on marrying a Latino.

#fact
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:00pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

How on earth do you know I watch telemundo? cool
I plan on marrying Fabian Rios.





Not a fan of Telemundo, but the guy below (Jorge Salinas) made me watch every episode of Que la podia amar, when he played Rogelio. I was sprung! He's still one of my biggest crushes of all time.

Just look at him!!!!!!!

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Tozara(m): 8:01pm On Apr 09, 2018
MissWrite:



Awwww.......boy, I missed you! Where have you been?
Hehehe. Thanks. smiley

I took a break to better explore the wild. Now I came back with some delicious game. cheesy

Actually, I've been busy with stuff and almost forgot nairaland. grin

I hope you've been good.
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by andyanders: 8:03pm On Apr 09, 2018
The guy is damn right by his decission to ask her to get out ' not because she claimed that she was a virgin,but she lied.
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:04pm On Apr 09, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Not a fan of Telemundo, but the guy below (Jorge Salinas) made me watch every episode of Que la podia amar, when he played Rogelio. I was sprung! He's still one of my biggest crushes of all time.

Just look at him!!!!!!!
Jeez the dude is handsome *opens mouth*
Bluntboy are you as handsome as this?
Reminds me of zayn Malik of one direction
Thank sis I would Google him up.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:06pm On Apr 09, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
you guys blaming the lady..
it's sad that some ladies are also bashing her.

was the man going to marry her because of virginity?

why would you ask a lady whether she's a virgin in the first place? is that why he wants to marry her?


my dear move on, the bastard isn't worth it
I agree with you on this one. cool

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:07pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

Jeez the dude I handsome *opens mouth*
Bluntboy are you as handsome as this?
Reminds me of zayn Malik of one direction
Thank sis I would Google him up.

I just Googled yours, he's hot, I just don't like his squinty eyes though lol.
I'd still take him over these NL guys with their yellow eyes grin

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:09pm On Apr 09, 2018
XhosaNostra:


I just Googled yours, he's hot, I just don't like his squinty eyes though lol.
I'd still take him over these NL guys with their yellow eyes grin
Hahaha you won't kill me.
Fabian is handsome but I love his physique
He plays the bad guy in their movies I fell for him when he acted labour of love and Elena's ghost.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:15pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

Hahaha you won't kill me.
Fabian is handsome but I love his physique
He plays the bad guy in their movies I fell for him when he acted labour of love and Elena's ghost.

Is he currently on anything on Telemundo? I wanna check him out. He's gorgeous, no doubt.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by MissWrite(f): 8:17pm On Apr 09, 2018
Tozara:
Hehehe. Thanks. smiley

I took a break to better explore the wild. Now I came back with some delicious game. cheesy

Actually, I've been busy with stuff and almost forgot nairaland. grin

I hope you've been good.


That's great, sweetie. It's good to be busy and almost forget NL........that equals productivity smiley. I hope everything is going well? I'm happy to see you back though kiss

I've been all right.
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Telsa(m): 8:19pm On Apr 09, 2018
XhosaNostra:

About?
... go interracial, men of other races are less judgemental...
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:19pm On Apr 09, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Is he currently on anything on Telemundo? I wanna check him out. He's gorgeous, no doubt.
No not really the last one I think he acted was shown in 2016.
Telemundo is basically showing some shows I don't like so I rarely watch it.I plan on watching it when Aracely Arambula comes back to the screen with her movie "the boss" it's an old film but I wanna watch it.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:20pm On Apr 09, 2018
Telsa:
... go interracial, men of other races are less judgemental...

Because they are imo.
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

No not really the last one I think he acted was shown in 2016.
Telemundo is basically showing some shows I don't like so I rarely watch it.I plan on watching it when Aracely Arambula comes back to the screen with her movie "the boss" it's an old film but I wanna watch it.

No problem. Will check YouTube. Thanks smiley

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 8:22pm On Apr 09, 2018
andyanders:
The guy is damn right by his decission to ask her to get out ' not because she claimed that she was a virgin,but she lied.

just shut up... why did he ask her about her virginity status in the first place? is that why he wanted to marry her?

is the idiot a virgin himself?

freedom of speech doesn't mean you guys should say nonsense .


#teamInterracial

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:24pm On Apr 09, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


just shut up... why did he ask her about her virginity status in the first place? is that why he wanted to marry her?

is the idiot a virgin himself?

freedom of speech doesn't mean you guys should say nonsense .


#teamInterracial
So it seems Xhosanostra and I are not the only ones considering foreign men. shocked
You go girl cool

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Shugavee(f): 8:25pm On Apr 09, 2018
MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.
loud it kiss kiss kiss * handing u a microphone*

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by MissWrite(f): 8:25pm On Apr 09, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:

cheesy..... even me sef...


cheesy........ wink

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:30pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

So it seems Xhosanostra and I are not the only ones considering foreign men. shocked
You go girl cool

Lol, I'm not considering, I've been in the game for a very long time tongue I'm what they call a "sapiosexual". I really like intellectual men. Foolishness is a major turn off.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Tozara(m): 8:30pm On Apr 09, 2018
MissWrite:



That's great, sweetie. It's good to be busy and almost forget NL........that equals productivity smiley. I hope everything is going well? I'm happy to see you back though kiss

I've been all right.
Thanks a lot. I'm equally elated to read one of your posts again, in its gleam and awesomeness. Always making sense. kiss

Everything's fine, and It's a delight to know you're good. smiley

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:31pm On Apr 09, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, I'm not considering, I've been in the game for a very long time tongue I'm what they call a "sapiosexual". I really like intellectual men. Foolishness is a major turn off.
wow so you have been in the game grin
I doff my hat for you sis cool.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 8:33pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
wow so you have been in the game grin
I doff my hat for you sis cool.

Yup. Holla when you wanna upgrade tongue grin

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Shugavee(f): 8:35pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

I agree with you on this one. cool
lol babe she had to see that other girl's thread grin grin angry angry grin
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:36pm On Apr 09, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Yup. Holla when you wanna upgrade tongue grin
Will sure do.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by UDUJ(m): 8:36pm On Apr 09, 2018
Segzee1:
Help! My Husband Wants to Divorce me because I am not a Virgin

Hello friends,

Please, I want you to help my friend.

She is currently in a big trouble and if she doesn’t take care of her marriage of two weeks, it will crash.

It all happened that she lied to her fiance then (now husband) that she is a virgin.

According to her, she said that when they first met one of the questions her husband (then fiance) asked was if she was a virgin and because she saw the serious look on him and she didn’t want to lose him, she lied.

When I asked her why she lied, she said that when her husband eventually finds out in marriage, she would beg her husband for forgiveness.

But things did not work out as she had planned for her husband has given her 7 days ultimatum to pack out.

Everyone has begged her husband including me but he didn’t listen to our pleading. He believed that if she can come up with such big lie then she is capable of killing him one day.

Now, a marriage of just two weeks after 2 years courtship is about to crash.

Please, friends, I need your advice on this issue

https://dailyfamily.ng/help-husband-wants-divorce-not-virgin/

Most people here will say the man has no right to want a virgin since he himself was never a virgin, that’s not the discussion here.

The problem is of a simple lie thus leading to mistrust. He wanted a virgin and had asked so clearly. If she lied to him, then that’s her problem.

Right now the man will be asking himself if he can build a lifetime relation with his wife after this lie.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:37pm On Apr 09, 2018
Shugavee:
lol babe she had to see that other girl's thread grin grin angry angry grin
What thread?

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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Shugavee(f): 8:38pm On Apr 09, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

What thread?
that virginity thread
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Opentokwowledge: 8:39pm On Apr 09, 2018
I won't tolerate a deceiver too. This is someone I'm gonna be entrusting my everything with gadammmit!
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Shugavee(f): 8:39pm On Apr 09, 2018
UDUJ:


Most people here will say the man has no right to want a virgin since he himself was never a virgin, that’s not the discussion here.

The problem is of a simple lie thus leading to mistrust. He wanted a virgin and had asked so clearly. If she lied to him, then that’s her problem.

Right now the man will be asking himself if he can build a lifetime relation with his wife after this lie.
u n this ur dog meme grin
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Safiaa(f): 8:40pm On Apr 09, 2018
I suport him, i wont lie. Somethings you dont lie about. Although i believe its good to lie to a certain extent.

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