Mutuwa:


truth is, the mother carries the child for 9 months,BUT afterwards the dad carries on with the responsibility of the child,for life.

You don't say?
You got to be kidding me

Reminds me of the Oedipus and Electra complex...

Ladyhippolyta88:

"Overhyped" you say?
Go and get pregnant and wait for nine months then you would understand the bond a mother and child shares.

To avoid any injustice arising from a woman's pregnancy role,
No child out of the womb remembers the life in the womb.
Generally, men care for the society;
And women the home.
Think of the many men who have died in Sambisa forest alone for your sake.

I was speaking to a friend of mine the other day who wickedly abandoned his father and was dotting all over his mum even recently took her on a trip to canada while the Dad is wallowing in abject poverty.

The Mum actually poison the mind of this dude cause she and his father were having a little misunderstanding. It pains me so much cause I know the Father in question and go over to see him once in a while. Whenever He starts talking about what his son my friend is doing to him I can really feel the pain and hurt in his words.
Men please dont ever abandon your father for any reason at all because tommorrow you are going to be someones father, think how you would feel if your own children abandon you in old age just because your wife turned them against you.

flamingREED:


To avoid any injustice from arising from a woman's pregnancy role,
No child out of the womb remembers the life in the womb.
Generally, men care for the society;
And women the home.
Think of how many men who have died in Sambisa forest alone for our sakes.

Hippolyta does not believe such or agrees with your view or your conservative ideology.
To each his own.

Greene66:
Many fathers are useless.

Few mothers are useless.

So yes, #TeamMoms

Behind every successful man there is a woman (Mother, Wife, Sister, Girlfriend, etc)

Also behind every useless man, there is an evil woman or women!

Men are less appreciated because we barely show our emotions!

Thank GOD! we are changing now!

Men are becoming more involved in their children's life!

We don't just provide the money only anymore! We provide the care as well!

Your Mother carried you for 9 months abii!

Your Dad's pocket sustained & is still sustaining you till now by God's Grace!

I pray none of our Fathers' will loses this power to make wealth!! https://www.bummyla.com

makavel7:
I was speaking to a friend of mine the other day who wickedly abandoned his father and was dotting all over his mum even recently took her on a trip to canada while the Dad is wallowing in abject poverty.

The Mum actually poison the mind of this dude cause she and his father were having a little misunderstanding. It pains me so much cause I know the Father in question and go over to see him once in a while. Whenever He starts talking about what his son my friend is doing to him I can really feel the pain and hurt in his words.
Men please dont ever abandon your father for any reason at all because tommorrow you are going to be someones father, think how you would feel if your own children abandon you in old age just because your wife turned them against you.

Thank You OP! GOD Bless You! You Just Said It All! One Thing I know For sure! Your children are watching how you treat your parents!! Don't be offended in the future when they mete out the same treatment to you. https://www.bummyla.com

lilmax:
I do not want to be called sweet names

thanks, I'll pass

Exactly. Fathers don't care about the appreciation. Even if they do, they act like they don't need it. Plus their general strict nature and business-like attitude towards their kids. It's absurd to see a father solicit appreciation from his children. It kinda makes him a sissy. Of course he is the god in the house, and a god is not supposed to depend on his worshipper(the children in this case) for anything. That's the thing with Fathers. They act as though that they are above the kind appreciation, thus it is useless to them.

Meanwhile, the favours that moms do come with some drama and emotion(Women and manipulation are like 5 and 6). It is this stuff that play on the childrens' mind to elicit those appreciation and encomiums mothers get all the time. In the end, it doesn't matter if the dad provided more favours; the mother always get a lion share of the praises.

It was as I got older that I began to realise that men endure a lot. To be a man is not easy. All men worldwide, both my enemies, (and minus kitten niggas that worship women)...I hail and respect you all.

Greene66:
Many fathers are useless.

Few mothers are useless.

So yes, #TeamMoms

na lye fathers ar too good just dat many wives ar too useless

the two are important in child life but there role are difference, but mother is very important nd they suffer alot bec of a child

NwaAmaikpe1stSon:
Bleep fathers.



I know there are good fathers out there, but what i pass through my dad's hands, make me to believe that all fathers are the same.


Maybe just maybe it wasn't his fault, maybe it was step mum that manipulate him, but hell no! he is the man of the house...i tagged him aweak man.




The only good thing that happened to me in this life, is my Mum.... that woman is a supper woman, she deserve every bit of respect from me. she sacrifices for me, so my days be better than hers. So fuccck fathers, i said Fuccck Fathers to hell.

Which You Are One Of Them! With So Much Bitterness In Your Heart!! I Pray You Will Make A Good Husband & A Father! Because Most Times Subconsciously we repeat your parents' mistakes!! https://www.bummyla.com

Ladyhippolyta88:

Hippolyta does not believe such or agrees with your view or your conservative ideology.
To each his own.

Neither is there any thing consequential in your anti-traditional conjectures to me.

Majority of mothers do more

bukatyne:
In general, mothers will do far more for their kids especially in a bad marriage.

It is their curse and the recognition their reward.

Women will do whatever it takes to bring the attention back to themselves.

Una no dey tire?

To start with, yesterday was Mothering Sunday - please, tell me, is there anything like fathering Sunday?

Without your father would your life have turned out the way it did?

Your post is sickening.

I appreciate my father more than my mum. My father has been there nd is still there for me. Shoutout to all the responsible fathers in the world.

There are still some who love their dad more. I am one of them. Yes I love my mum but that can't be compared to the luv I have for my dad. Thoughts of him makes me wanna do exploits.

NwaAmaikpe1stSon:
Bleep fathers.



I know there are good fathers out there, but what i pass through my dad's hands, make me to believe that all fathers are the same.


Maybe just maybe it wasn't his fault, maybe it was step mum that manipulate him, but hell no! he is the man of the house...i tagged him aweak man.




The only good thing that happened to me in this life, is my Mum.... that woman is a supper woman, she deserve every bit of respect from me. she sacrifices for me, so my days be better than hers. So fuccck fathers, i said Fuccck Fathers to hell.

same here bro....same here

I will never appreciate my dad

bukatyne:
In general, mothers will do far more for their kids especially in a bad marriage.

It is their curse and the recognition their reward.

Madam this is a faulty generalization. Some fathers do a great parenting more than the mothers in a bad marriage. The greater part of the statistics tilts to either party involved.

Rozaytee:
I will never appreciate my dad

Why dear?

makavel7:
I was speaking to a friend of mine the other day who wickedly abandoned his father and was dotting all over his mum even recently took her on a trip to canada while the Dad is wallowing in abject poverty.

The Mum actually poison the mind of this dude cause she and his father were having a little misunderstanding. It pains me so much cause I know the Father in question and go over to see him once in a while. Whenever He starts talking about what his son my friend is doing to him I can really feel the pain and hurt in his words.
Men please dont ever abandon your father for any reason at all because tommorrow you are going to be someones father, think how you would feel if your own children abandon you in old age just because your wife turned them against you.

I'm not sorry to say this but that friend of yours is a complete fool

Fathers and mothers play equal but different roles in a family and in the lives of their wards to be specific. Therefore, the two should be appreciated equally.

I appreciate my dad more,I love the both of them but my dad is the best

Fathers deserve just 1/4 of every appreciation while the rest goes to the mothers!

I totally agree with the op! I am an example of someone who has tasted the love of both parents ,separately! What i noticed is that,when mum gives u a meagre(illustration purpose) amount of money say #10k,so much emotions will be played(it could have been the only money she had). But when pallie gives his own say #200k for sch upkeep(he may still have #30 billion in the akant sha, and u will be like why not give me #10 million make i go flex for campus like OBO),there is no emotions played. It is only his stern face and the warning that you shouldn't squander the money. At the end of the day u will think mom loves u more than dad;but it is not always true. I think the idea of mothers being the favorites is a dangerous trend in this our age. This will adversely cause fathers to be less disciplinarians (this is a key factor that influences children preference),and it makes them to act feminine in order to please their children.

The rage against fathers is something else......given the threads I have seen narrating horrible stories.

Op, you are so right. I was raised by a single parent (father) after my mother passed away. Did that man do an awesome job at it.....you wont believe if I start to praise him now. He appears to have done it naturally but, I know how tough it must have been.

I thank him every now and then but silently, its every moment.

234GT:
Very correct.
But it's just natural for mothers to be appreciated more.
The father pays school fees for years and the mother ends up reaping most of the goodies.
Men don suffer

A man that carries his family along will never face this. The ones that face such challenges either marry bad wives or they leave their family in the dark concerning their finances. Some fathers even act like lords and kings in the home making their children avoid them when growing up unless they absolutly must . Giving money is not the onky way a father can show love to his family. That is a very big mistake many men make.
Hardly you find a good father that is neglected by his children.

I have a responsible , sacrificing,strong father figure and mother. I don't do such stereotyping. Anyday,they always get my accolades and gratitude.

Greene66:
Many fathers are useless.

Few mothers are useless.

So yes, #TeamMoms

I beg to disagree or agree. So also many mothers are useless as many father's are. Women just introduce sentiment in their uselessness

So many fathers are fathers and mothers but does this unsang

No be small thing my dear.

A woman will deliver, people will come to visit, the focus will be only for the mother and child.

They Will buy Pampers for the baby, give money to the mother, but the man is left stranded.

If the man no do the CLOSED DOOR meeting work well, the pikin for no come.

MEN , Shall we go on strike ?

Divay22:
Shake my big head and leaves thread

Lol.
Can I see the head please?