Shugavee:
u n this ur dog meme

Don't blame me O. I learnt it from my good friend marvin906

Shugavee:
that virginity thread

Okay.

XhosaNostra:
Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain

Races like?

Opentokwowledge:
Races like?

The rest of them.

XhosaNostra:


The rest of them.

TheUpsetGirl1:
you guys blaming the lady..
it's sad that some ladies are also bashing her.

was the man going to marry her because of virginity?

why would you ask a lady whether she's a virgin in the first place? is that why he wants to marry her?


my dear move on, the bastard isn't worth it

Please, this is not time to be biased just because shes a woman. Think logically about this, she lied. She lied about something thats very serious even to the point where they got married. If a guy lied to you about something so serious and didnt reveal it to you until after marriage, how exactly would you take that? You wouldnt believe anything that comes out of his mouth leading to bigger issues which could eventually lead to a divorce anyways. Please apply sense ahbeg.

[quote author=gabinogem post=66569445] ...two years courtship without testing the engine[/quot

TheUpsetGirl1:


just shut up... why did he ask her about her virginity status in the first place? is that why he wanted to marry her?

is the idiot a virgin himself?

freedom of speech doesn't mean you guys should say nonsense .


#teamInterracial

You're actually extremely immature. Grow up!

MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

100% agree with you.

some things just never change


i see safiaa & theupsetgirl are about to start the very first e-fight i'd be witnessing after my 3months sabbatical off nl


u guys should chill now before this gets bloody and i get forced to grab a chair and some wime

XhosaNostra:


Can't help it, they find me attractive

goodluck with that

Ladyhippolyta88:

Jeez the dude is handsome *opens mouth*
Bluntboy are you as handsome as this?
Reminds me of zayn Malik of one direction
Thank sis I would Google him up.

I am more handsome.

And why are you opening your mouth

BluntBoy:


I am more handsome.

And why are you opening your mouth

Because the guy is obviously handsome.
I have a fish to catch xhosanostra has opened my eyes

Ladyhippolyta88:
Because the guy is obviously handsome. I have a fish to catch xhosanostra has opened my eyes

I will go and catch my own fish too

BluntBoy:


I will go and catch my own fish too

Sweetie you are free to you can go for the foreign ones as well
You cannot break hippolyta's heart it is the other way around.

MissWrite:


Lol......
Yes, exactly like you. Me sef, no want wahala.

oh, one bottle of Hennessy for you by 2:30am

And what is LOVE if not TRUST. Without TRUST it is nothing but a foundation built on DUST which is eventually blown away. Is MARRIAGE not a DEAL? (meaning a contractual agreement sealed on certain terms). And on what terms did he agree to marry her? V-I-R-G-I-N-T-Y!!! That his wife who will be mother to their children has that D-I-G-N-I-T-Y in his own eyes anytime he looks at her. Does such a choice made by a man make him less intelligent?! Does such a choice make a man to be less understanding? Will such a man who makes it his own priority, a dream to marry a virgin be less loving and less caring to a lady who made him to believe whole heartedly that she is a virgin? Will such a man keep loving a lady who he chose to respect dearly while in courtship for 2 years by not deflowering her before their wedding night fill no betrayal if it turns out she has been lying, a dream turn night-mare? What understanding do these interracial men have? Of course they are quick to understand how it doesn't matter if a lady has been jumping from one pen!s to another, PROMISCOUS because, such their understanding is built on a society deep in carnal culture. MARRIAGE IS A DEAL! THIS MAN IS NOT AT FAULT, NOR LESS INTELLIGENT NOR LESS UNDERSTANDING FOR CHOOSING TO KICK HIS SUPPOSE VIRGIN WIFE OUT BECAUSE SHE FAILED ON HER OWN TERMS. Let those ladies who have been humping from one pen!s to another pen!s stop telling men lies in such simple contractual terms that leads to marriage. Indeed, all hope is not lost for ladies who choose to live their life by jumping from one penis to another. A society very deep in carnal culture will always absorb them at their second hand value.

U

mgdimagaladima:
abeg make I hear word .... him na virginnhe be!!!

abi oh.....ask am for me

TheUpsetGirl1:


just shut up... why did he ask her about her virginity status in the first place? is that why he wanted to marry her?

is the idiot a virgin himself?

freedom of speech doesn't mean you guys should say nonsense .


#teamInterracial

I keep saying you're just a pained uncultured mofo. Just because you lost your virginity millions of years ago doesn't mean others can't keep theirs.

Mumu

XhosaNostra:


Is he currently on anything on Telemundo? I wanna check him out. He's gorgeous, no doubt.

Interesting

Some women are actually funny or should I say annoying. Why will you claim to be a virgin when you know that the man will enter into you someday and be able to tell if you are or not? Some will even agree to no touching but give it to some other(s) graciously.
It is even possible she was a virgin at the time the question was asked. Since lots of ladies double date, another man had access.

Abeg, she should wipe her tears and move ahead. Hopefully, some body else will come. I no go gree oo if nah me be the husband. Imagine wanting to touch some women and they'll tell you after marriage cos they are virgin. Only to discover after waiting patiently till marriage. Some will stupidly say they were raped.
Leave lie lie women jare

Safiaa:
Please, this is not time to be unbiased just because shes a woman. Think logically about this, she lied. She lied about something thats very serious even to the point where they got married. If a guy lied to you about something so serious and didnt reveal it to you until after marriage, how exactly would you take that? You wouldnt believe anything that comes out of his mouth leading to bigger issues which could eventually lead to a divorce anyways. Please apply sense ahbeg.

You have my respect Sister - Truth is golden no matter whose table it graces. Thanks for being so objective - a quality lacking in the pained, deceptive lots whose ways are the serpent's and they arrogantly match on as queens of hell to hell where they hail from.
Thanks again for being so objective, respect!

Safiaa:
You're actually extremely immature. Grow up!

TheUpsetGirl1 is actually not jist :..actually extremely immature..." but also lacks comprehension of simple english passage. "Half education..." (whatever that means), they said, "...is actually dangerous".
She and the lots here are just so pained whenever the matter of men, especially that relates to virginity comes up - why the bitterness? Who forced you to keep flapping legs upandan like butterfly to every tom, deek and harry?
I for one can forgive any wrong provided you confess to me by yourself, but if you lie to me before marriage on anything and i find out the truth after marriage, shikenan, e don finish. I can not trust you anymore.
I wanted a virgin because i kept myself, and when my forst 3 gals came i told them so, they lied to me to keep me but i later found out they lied and even though because i wanted to make the relationship work, they were scared and they left. I later met someone who isn't a virgin but told me the truth the moment i asked her out because she knows what i want, she told me all her dark sides, i accepted her that way and habe no regrets being with her all these years.
Ladies if u want to about bleeping everyone, be proud to admit who u are or who u have being - DO NOT LIE about your past, otherwise it will come knocking, he who love u truly, will stay with you irrespective.
Finally, you can't eat your cake and still have it - It's either you keep your virginity intact and enjoy the prestige and respect that comes with the virginity (sexual chastity/purity) or fuxk your life around 'enjoying' yourself and be ready for the 'sweeting'/'guilt-filled' monent that question will be popped at you as a non-virgin

nobilie:
Some women are actually funny or should I say annoying. Why will you claim to be a virgin when you know that the man will enter into you someday and be able to tell if you are or not? Some will even agree to no touching but give it to some other(s) graciously.
It is even possible she was a virgin at the time the question was asked. Since lots of ladies double date, another man had access.

Abeg, she should wipe her tears and move ahead. Hopefully, some body else will come. I no go gree oo if nah me be the husband. Imagine wanting to touch some women and they'll tell you after marriage cos they are virgin. Only to discover after waiting patiently till marriage. Some will stupidly say they were raped.
Leave lie lie women jare

It's just their deceptive nature at work!

MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

true talk

BabbanBura:


TheUpsetGirl1 is actually not jist :..actually extremely immature..." but also lacks comprehension of simple english passage. "Half education..." (whatever that means), they said, "...is actually dangerous".
She and the lots here are just so pained whenever the matter of men, especially that relates to virginity comes up - why the bitterness? Who forced you to keep flapping legs upandan like butterfly to every tom, deek and harry?
I for one can forgive any wrong provided you confess to me by yourself, but if you lie to me before marriage on anything and i find out the truth after marriage, shikenan, e don finish. I can not trust you anymore.
I wanted a virgin because i kept myself, and when my forst 3 gals came i told them so, they lied to me to keep me but i later found out they lied and even though because i wanted to make the relationship work, they were scared and they left. I later met someone who isn't a virgin but told me the truth the moment i asked her out because she knows what i want, she told me all her dark sides, i accepted her that way and habe no regrets being with her all these years.
Ladies if u want to about bleeping everyone, be proud to admit who u are or who u have being - DO NOT LIE about your past, otherwise it will come knocking, he who love u truly, will stay with you irrespective.
Finally, you can't eat your cake and still have it - It's either you keep your virginity intact and enjoy the prestige and respect that comes with the virginity (sexual chastity/purity) or fuxk your life around 'enjoying' yourself and be ready for the 'sweeting'/'guilt-filled' monent that question will be popped at you as a non-virgin

which wrong?

dude go and sleep abeg.

if you're marrying because of virginity then you're not emotionally matured enough to go into marriage.

as if marriage is all about sex
Nigerian guys with their wack mentality


this why ladies need to be independent so that all these useless talks would end..

if that lady is financially stable that bastard won't try this shít

these guys ain't loyal

UDUJ:


I keep saying you're just a pained uncultured mofo. Just because you lost your virginity millions of years ago doesn't mean others can't keep theirs.

Mumu

keep quoting me everywhere since your life depends on it.

TheUpsetGirl1:


keep quoting me everywhere since your life depends on it.

Will do

Safiaa:
Please, this is not time to be unbiased just because shes a woman. Think logically about this, she lied. She lied about something thats very serious even to the point where they got married. If a guy lied to you about something so serious and didnt reveal it to you until after marriage, how exactly would you take that? You wouldnt believe anything that comes out of his mouth leading to bigger issues which could eventually lead to a divorce anyways. Please apply sense ahbeg.

she lied about which thing that is very serious?
having the guts to quote me in thrash is what amazes me

what's serious about Virginity?
if he wanted to marry her because of Virginity, he should've told her that when they started their relationship.

nonsense, as if the bastard is a virgin himself

you're the one who needs to grow up, because this time you won't only deactivate your account, you'll quit nairaland finally.

mumu

mmmm

TheUpsetGirl1:



she lied about which thing that is very serious?
having the guts to quote me in thrash is what amazes me

what's serious about Virginity?
if he wanted to marry her because of Virginity, he should've told her that when they started their relationship.

nonsense, as if the bastard is a virgin himself

you're the one who needs to grow up, because this time you won't only deactivate your account, you'll quit nairaland finally.

mumu

if Virginity was not serious she would not have felt the need to lie. noone bothers lying about useless things.