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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:47pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242:Do you know what happens in their home? Do you know what goes on in her mind? Listen, the truth will always remain the truth, take it or leave it. Women want men who can provide, period. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Intrepid01(m): 4:47pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
omo that Safiaa girl mistook this discussion for that of a prostitute. Even a fellow lady tried correcting her, yet she refused..I pray and I pray for myself not to meet your type of lady for relationship in life....Amen. 11 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:48pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
lefulefu: Yea so stupid of them. Funny enough they are girls who wouldn't ask dime from you. That's why I don't bother myself trying to convince a lady, I will simply walk away. There are ladies who don't have this mindset. Just search brothers. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: Your statement is full of contradictions @ highlighted red You believed it's important for women to be independent in a relationship, which is to suggest that you can take good care of yourself without a man @ highlighted blue You are advocating for dependence immediately after your relationship status changes Why should a man contribute to your financial situation? is the man going to bring other financial burden into your life that requires additional financial support? Aren't you going to be the same safia before and during a relationship? Are you suggesting in any way that you will start living above your means because of a new boyfriend? That is not far from a gold digger's mentality you know 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Intrepid01:lool. Nothing to do with prostitution lol, its just the reality. ![]() |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: My dear, happy family they got. As I speak they plan relocating out of the country. My dear, you and those in your circle are the ones with that mindset. They might have issue but is never "money" My current gf don't ask me a dime she is doing well for herself. I do give her some trips and she reciprocate. Cooperation and understanding is the key. It doesn't matter who has to take care of who. 2 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:55pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greiboy:How is that a contridiction? So because you can cook for yourself does that mean you shouldnt look for a wife that can cook? Listen, there must be a purpose when somebody comes into your life. A woman having her own money doesnt mean she should lower her standards and date a man without money. A woman should always aim higher, thats how the dynamic of a relationship should be. Anyways you dont have to understand, but those who do, will do. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:56pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa:a girl can actually date 30 guys sef at d same time and the so called boyfriend might not be any wiser. The day a lady starts complaining that her boyfriend is not taking care of her financial needs seriously then that's d day d boyfriend if he's wise should know dats she's seeing other men that she's sleeping with in exchange for money. She's just comparing these men to her boyfriend. 3 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 4:57pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242:gbam! |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 4:58pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242:You dont know what goes on in their family, like i said you can only assume. Generally women want providers as hubands, men want nurturers as wives. It’s that simple. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 4:59pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa:Don't waste your time here arguing with all this low lives who don't have anything to offer broke guys everywhere ..... a real man will never complain when you asked him for money......any man that can't take care of you while dating? expect worst in marriage cause such men ends up being stingy in marriage and prefer to spend the money outside than spending it for the upkeep of their .... men of this century don't want to work hard like there fathers did always wants to shy away from their duties..... ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 5:01pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
lefulefu:Theres no way you can be with someone and you won’t see signs she’s seeing multiple other people. Unless you’re blinded by love, very slow or just naive. Women are good at cheating, but they’ll always be signs. Trust me. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by UDUJ(m): 5:01pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242: You sir deserve a bottle of chilled heineken ![]() From the very first time I discuss with a lady I already know the type of lady she is. I decide there and then to cut off foreever or proceed to the next phase of attack ![]() 1 Like
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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by KevinDein: 5:02pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: Your opinion is not reality. Don't mistake the two. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by makydebbie(f): 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa:Sure darl. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
makydebbie:I won't type again. My mind is spoken. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by makydebbie(f): 5:04pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 5:05pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
KevinDein:To you, but to me is is. ![]() ![]() |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: Lol, you should say " I want a provider" not women. Secondly, get yourself a sugar daddy, he will provide for you. As for the young men, we want a symbiotic relationship not a saprophytic one- someone who we can plan together and achieve our goal not leaches. Sign out. 3 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: @Embodened You have messed up another analogy A guy that cook very well wouldn't have cooking as his top priority when searching for a life partner, same way as an independent lady shouldn't be bothered about the money and financial prowess of her future boyfriend. Notwithstanding, not making a future partner's financial prowess a main concern in relationship doesn't mean a lady will rather settle for a broke and unambitious man. it simply means that his money and how he spends it is not her top priority in the relationship. Clearly, that seems to be your major priority, but it is cool. We don't need to have similar principles about life. ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by makydebbie(f): 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
prechbills1:No, it's not about head. You said it once that you hate black women. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: 1 Like
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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Intrepid01(m): 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa: Madam , any world where that is the reality is a shithole. it's a world where relationship, companionship, love has no meaning. I'm actually more worried about ladies like you who have for caught up in such mentality. Cos such ladies believe they are to be used by the Guy in a relationship and as such must ensure that get enough financial gains as possible while they keep looking out for another that can pay more for their service....wow what a world indeed . 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 5:08pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BiggyB242:A.k.A a woman who can accept me for who I am, but I will not accept her if she doesn’t have the criterias I want in a wife. My brother, I understand completely. Have a fantastic day. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa:it takes a man to be smart and sharp to know if his woman is playing around. A simple minded naive man can never figure or smell it out cos women very good in covering up unlike we men if we cheat then the lady can easily figure it out even if she never caught the man red handed. Why do u think ex runz girls go for naive men when it comes to marriage? Like i said b4..it seems more richer men are already asking the op's girlfriend out and are luring her with money hence her dissatisfaction in the way op spends on her.@ op.... The ball is in ur court dude. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 5:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
[quote author=Grayjoy post=66708856][/quote] Wow ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 5:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:lool,who's wasting mb discussing about relationship with people you can never date online. ![]() ![]() Queen,I don't waste time them,all I know is that I can't date a stingy guy,not now,not ever. Nice comment though. ![]() |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:10pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greiboy:Anytime I see comments like this. I know there is hope. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by KevinDein: 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Safiaa:Birds of a feather flock together. The fact that you and your friends have that mentality doesn't make it the norm or reality. Even on this thread a lady vehemently disagreed with you. I also know ladies who will feel insulted by your posts. Your opinion is not reality. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
broke guys are constituting nuisance on this plat form ![]() not a bad evening though,after a stressful day. deadrat are you back ![]() 1 Like |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:I miss road. Ur comment d vex me. |
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:13pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
UDUJ: True true bro, no need argue with her. Definitely she will meet her match but that wouldn't me. There are good independent ladies everywhere all they need is your love na wen you meet all these ajekpako looking for a guy that will upgrade their life. My guy is in Canada as I speak everything was done by the girl but now they are married and he's doing well. Brothers leave all these slay queen get your self a real independent queen with brains. 3 Likes |
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