highpriestess:
broke guys are constituting nuisance on this play form

not a bad evening though,after a stressful day.
deadrat are you back

This line is becoming stale.

Try come up with an argument that has a semblance of intelligence in it. At least the other lady is giving it a shot, albeit unsuccessfully.

KevinDein:

This line is becoming stale.

Try come up with an argument that has a semblance of intelligence in it. At least the other lady is giving it a shot

lool,so you actually want me to waste time to argue with broke dudes on here whose broke mentality stinks to high heavens.

lol,not now,not ever.
ngwa shift biko.

greiboy:

@Embodened

You have messed up another analogy

A guy that cook very well wouldn't have cooking as his top priority when searching for a life partner, same way as an independent lady shouldn't be bothered about the money and financial prowess of her future boyfriend.

Notwithstanding, not making a future partner's financial prowess a main concern in relationship doesn't mean a lady will rather settle for a broke and unambitious man. it simply means that his money and how he spends it is not her top priority in the relationship.

Clearly, that seems to be your major priority, but it is cool.

We don't need to have similar principles about life.

Yes a man who can cook will still prioritize a woman who can cook as a partner. It goes deeper than just preparing a meal but feeding and nurturing his children. It’s a motherly characteristic that shows she’ll be able take care of his family and probably extended. A woman with money will also want a man with money, it will definitely be a priority for her. Whether you accept it or not is your own.

BiggyB242:


True true bro, no need argue with her. Definitely she will meet her match but that wouldn't me.

There are good independent ladies everywhere all they need is your love na wen you meet all these ajekpako looking for a guy that will upgrade their life. My guy is in Canada as I speak everything was done by the girl but now they are married and he's doing well.

Brothers leave all these slay queen get your self a real independent queen with brains.

That's just the gospel truth. Sometimes I ask myself how come the ladies in Nairaland are so different from those in my office. They seem to be from different planets

Have a great weekend bro

KevinDein:

Birds of a feather flock together. The fact that you and your friends have that mentality doesn't make it the norm or reality. Even on this thread a lady vehemently disagreed with you. I also know ladies who will feel insulted by your posts.

Your opinion is not reality.

Lool. Alrighty I’m not forcing my ‘opinion’ down anyone’s throat. Just stating it, as well as you’re stating yours. We can agree to disagree.

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

to slap this safiaa girl dey hungry me...... see mentality........ doing me a favour my foot....
relationship is supposed to be on mutual grounds.. no one is doing anybody a favour here............

highpriestess:

lool,so you actually want me to waste time to argue with broke dudes on here whose broke mentality stinks to high heavens.

lol,not now,not ever.
ngwa shift biko.

In addition to your outstanding intelligence it's nice to also see you have impeccable manners. I bet lots of rich dudes are queueing to wife you up.

Safiaa:
Yes a man who can cook will still prioritize a woman who can cook as a partner. It goes deeper than just preparing a meal but feeding and nurturing his children. It’s a motherly characteristic that shows she’ll be able take care of his family and probably extended. A woman with money will also want a man with money, it will definitely be a priority for her. Whether you accept it or not is your own.

@ emboldened

We are still on romantic relationships and dating not marriages

Not every woman is motherly in nature and not every relationship will end in marriage

Marriage should be a totally different subject for another thread.

I believe most of these things are internet standards designed to bolster their self esteem and prestige online. If any mumu said off-point to my face I will just walk you out of my presence if we were on a date.

UDUJ:


That's just the gospel truth. Sometimes I ask myself how come the ladies in Nairaland are so different from those in my office. They seem to be from different planets

Have a great weekend bro

KevinDein:

In addition to your outstanding intelligence it's nice to also see you have impeccable manners. I bet lots of rich dudes are queueing to wife you up.

okay,you have been noticed dude.

highpriestess:

lool,who's wasting mb discussing about relationship with people you can never date online. its a blatant waste of time,why argue with them when you are very okay with your caring boyfriend.

Queen,I don't waste time them,all I know is that I can't date a stingy guy,not now,not ever.
Nice comment though.

I tell you sis 90% of guys on this forum are undateable broke guys everywhere the only way they fill safe is by venting their frustrations on ladies on this forum.....

I can't date a guy who doesn't provide for my needs please I'm not in for that kind of stress biko...... just imagine me dating a guy who doesn't provide for me like what do we date about like what will our conversation be about, like how will be bold enough to look into my eyes and say what like I just don't get..... I'm a very straight forward person and the same Way I behaved while dating will be the same when married..... if you can't take care of my needs while dating you can never take care of the family when married..... period never settle for less biko

Safiaa:
A.k.A a woman who can accept me for who I am, but I will not accept her if she doesn’t have the criterias I want in a wife. My brother, I understand completely. Have a fantastic day.

Exactly, get your self a provider and I get my self a supporter/independent lady. We all got our spec, but trying to make the other party see your opinion as the best option is wrong.

Happy weekend.

greiboy:


@ embolden

We are still on romantic relationships and dating not marriages

Not every woman is motherly in nature and not every relationship will end in marriage

Marriage should a totally different subject for another thread.

yeah but dating leads to marriage and you tried to counter my analogy which was based on marriage. What are you saying ? Lol I think you’re confused.

Bro, your babe is hanging out with the wrong friends and fucking another guy... End of story...

DonPiiko:
I believe most of these things are internet standards designed to bolster their self esteem and prestige online. If any mumu said off-point to my face I will just walk you out of my presence if we were on a date.

The Don, the enboldened is on point

lwanga1993:


to slap this safiaa girl dey hungry me...... see mentality........ doing me a favour my foot....
relationship is supposed to be on mutual grounds.. no one is doing anybody a favour here............

Subconsciously she is doing you a favour.

Safiaa:
yeah but dating leads to marriage and you tried to counter my analogy which was based on marriage. What are you saying ? Lol I think you’re confused.

Where did I counter your analogy with marriage, perhaps my use of the world "future partner" might have confused you

BiggyB242:


Exactly, get your self a provider and I get my self a supporter/independent lady. We all got our spec, but trying to make the other party see your option as the best option is wrong.

Happy weekend.

Why is it wrong? Isn’t that what arguments are about? To see your option as the best? Anyways I was being sarcastic, but you didn’t get it.

Same to you.

greiboy:
Where did I counter your analogy with marriage, perhaps my use of the world "future partner" might have confused you

future partner? Abi na boyfriend and girlfriend you want to remain in the future? Like I don’t understand you guy.

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell you sis 90% of guys on this forum are undateable broke guys everywhere the only way they fill safe is by venting their frustrations on ladies on this forum.....

I can't date a guy who doesn't provide for my needs please I'm not in for that kind of stress is that biko...... just imagine me dating a guy who doesn't provide for me like what do we date about like what will our conversation be about, like how will be bold enough to look into my eyes and say what like I just don't get..... I'm a very straight forward person and the same Way I behaved while dating will be the same while married..... if you can't take care of my needs while dating you can never take care of the family when married..... period never settle for less biko

You see why you are the General queen.
profound knowledgeable facts you have got about relationships,how can i even start dating a stingy broke idiot,lol.


whatever he displays while in relationship, will be applied when he walks you down the isle.
nothing for broke idiots,nothing.

they should work hard and earn there money,while I'm also doing the same.

we shall meet when he becomes rich.

I can't even advise my enemy to date a stingy broke idiot,mtchew.

Safiaa:
future partner? Abi na boyfriend and girlfriend you want to remain in the future? Like I don’t understand you guy.

You have managed to confused yourself. Where did I use marriage to counter your analogy in my previous post.

btw all those words mean literally similar thing

All the girls I know thinks its okay that a guy spends on them but thinks its stupid when their brother or uncles spend on other women/gf and at times wives..

Na girls wey dey ginger here go talk say their brother has been charmed by his gf, because he chose to spend on her, they will curse the heaven, gossip and keep malice with his partner

greiboy:
You have managed to confused yourself. Where did I use marriage to counter your analogy in my previous post.

btw all those words mean literally similar thing

yeah I’m genuinely confused.

Makydebbie #smiles#

highpriestess:
broke guys are constituting nuisance on this plat form

not a bad evening though,after a stressful day.
deadrat are you back

I'm Back Baby...

The Event Wasnt What I Expected though

Many ladies will still remain single for eternity because of this strange mentality.

This mentality has claimed many victims.

You could be the next victim

Watch out

Safiaa:
yeah I’m genuinely confused.

Kk can you do me a favor and point to where I used marriage to counter your analogy ?

highpriestess:

You see why you are the General queen.
profound knowledgeable facts you have got about relationships,how can i even start dating a stingy broke idiot,lol.


whatever he displays while in relationship, will be applied when he walks you down the isle.
nothing for broke idiots,nothing.

they should work hard and earn there money,while I'm also doing the same.

we shall meet when he becomes rich.

I can't even advise my enemy to date a stingy broke idiot,mtchew.

I tell sis most broken homes today are been caused by poverty..... most women who can't endure with the situation ends up selling their body just to feed their children why can't you just end this for once by getting married to wealthy guy ..... if tables were turned around most women wouldn't have agreed to be married from their previous experience.....
I've said it countless times on this forum BROKE GUYS go work hard and let's make POVERTY A HISTORY......That's why I'm the general queen I keep it real

DeadRat:



I'm Back Baby...
The Event Wasnt What I Expected though

awww!!welcome back boo.some days are like that. brace up,better days ahead ahead.
I'm back too.

greiboy:
Kk can you do me a favor and point to where I used marriage to counter your analogy ?

I was initially talking about marriage, and looking for a long term partner. I was saying how a woman with money will still prioritise a man with money. Then you said no, then I used the cooking analogy, you countered it, and I argued back, then you said we’re not talking about marriage but dating. But we’ve been talking about marriage/ life partners since the beginning of this argument, so I don’t understand why you said that.

DonPiiko:
I believe most of these things are internet standards designed to bolster their self esteem and prestige online. If any mumu said off-point to my face I will just walk you out of my presence if we were on a date.

Chief why are you vexing

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell sis most broken homes today are been caused by poverty..... most women who can't endure with the situation ends up selling their body just to feed their children why can't you just end this for once by getting married to wealthy guy ..... if tables were turned around most women wouldn't have agreed to be married from their previous experience.....
I've said it countless times on this forum BROKE GUYS go work hard and let's make POVERTY A HISTORY......That's why I'm the general queen I keep it real

hahahha,you keep it real queen.
1000 Likes for this,couldn't have said it any better.