Never take internet people seriously, most of them forming hardliners will be begging and crying in their relationships, it's always good to marry someone within your class to prevent see finish. Many of the feminists are married and are very loyal and submissive wives at home, no think am

greiboy:
Many ladies will still remain single for eternity because of this strange mentality.

This mentality has claimed many victims.

You could be the next victim

Watch out

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell sis most broken homes today are been caused by poverty... most women who can't endure with the situation ends up selling their body just to feed their children why can't you just end this for once by getting married to wealthy guy ..... if tables were turned around most women wouldn't have agreed to be married from their previous experience.....
I've said it countless times on this forum BROKE GUYS go work hard and let's make POVERTY A HISTORY......That's why I'm the general queen I keep it real

@ emboldened

Where did you get this statistics from

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

lol, like I don't have my own emotions, biological clock, lyk she isn't getting my own body, like I don't have my own prime, c am not saying spening on a lady is bad but don't make me feel like am obliged to spend on her, the only thing am obliged to spend money on are whatever makes me more money . c babe, if I don't spend on my babe, I wud just hate myself, but don't tag it like you're doing me a favour, like I can't get better trills with another babe, God I can't wait to go outta this country and experience real relationship. Yee babe's mentality is Bleep*d up

greiboy:
Many ladies will still remain single for eternity because of this strange mentality.

This mentality has claimed many victims.

You could be the next victim

Watch out

Just had to quote you. Just one of the reasons you're one of the few I admire here though we do fight once in a while

majekoam:
There is more to this matter than meets the eye.

The truth is that most men understand the concept whether the admit it or not.

The fact is that they don't want to be played a fool by providing for a woman that will then just dump them or jump to another man when they have used them up. Let's not pretend there are not women out there who do such.

A man gives his women money for upkeep but what of the return (If as a woman you are reading this and your mind says "I'm giving him sex" then Its a shame). This is just my experiences so I AM NOT SPEAKING ABOUT ALL WOMEN. Sex doesn't keep a man. Looks don't keep a man. Ask Celebrities.

One former girlfriend said such a sentence to me a few years back. I was in Abuja and knew in my spirit that I wasn't the only guy she was seeing. She said I should provide for makeup, hair, clothes. I didn't provide for all but gave her something. As God is my witness she admitted to me last week that she was seeing others. So wasnt I justified in what I did?

My point is here that many of the women that complain about such are the ones you should be wary of. Big red flag. There are too many good women out there to settle. Find one. Treat her right and this wont be an issue. You will do it happily.

On point!. The lady that always complaining that her boyfriend is not doing enough financially for her that's the lady a man should be wary of. Its a big red flag that's she's probably seeing other men who are splashing her money and she's using that as a yardstick to the one you giving to her. No right thinking man would refuse to spoil his girl a little or give her something when she genuinely needs it. But for her to be exhorting money from a man or issuing threats should be a redflag to the man. Anyway only weak mumu men tend to fall into such trap.

highpriestess:

hahahha,you keep it real queen.
1000 Likes for this,couldn't have said it any better.

Oshie oya let's shake our bum bum for broke guys they can look but don't touch

greiboy:

@ emboldened
Where did you get this statistics from

what do you mean get your own stat and counter it. the General queen has spoken.

greiboy:
Many ladies will still remain single for eternity because of this strange mentality.

This mentality has claimed many victims.

You could be the next victim

Watch out

Nope. I’ve seen so many women who want to play madam to men, and it never ends well. Women who don’t date up or at worst their equal, and always end up regretting in the long run. It’s not about marrying a millionaire or billionaire that can be unrealistic. Just a financial dominant provider, it’s not too much to ask for greyboiy, honestly.

My queen, I am not triggered I am just shocked at some really queer reasoning. There's no need for exaggerated self importance that I see all over this thread, I stand with Makydebbie and I am pregnant for her, she should better come and marry me

Thegeneralqueen:
Chief why are you vexing

Thegeneralqueen:
Oshie oya let's shake our bum bum for broke guys they can look but don't touch

dancing shaku shaku.
nothing for broke idiots queen.
hahaha.

Safiaa:
I was initially talking about marriage, and looking for a long term partner. I was saying how a woman with money will still prioritise a man with money. Then you said no, then I used the cooking analogy, you countered it, and I argued back, then you said we’re not talking about marriage but dating. But we’ve been talking about marriage/ life partners since the beginning of this argument, so I don’t understand why you said that.

The thread is about dating and you made a remark on the first page which I helped you translate to the simplest form, perhaps you need to go over our discussions again.

I was careful to avoid the use of marriage in our discussions.

DonPiiko:
Never take internet people seriously, most of them forming hardliners will be begging and crying in their relationships, it's always good to marry someone within your class to prevent see finish. Many of the feminists are married and are very loyal and submissive wives at home, no think am

You said nothing but the truth brother

DonPiiko:
My queen, I am not triggered I am just shocked at some really queer reasoning. There's no need for exaggerated self importance that I see all over this thread, I stand with Makydebbie and I am pregnant for her, she should better come and marry me

Sweetheart, come and pay your groom price let's get married.

highpriestess:

awww!!welcome back boo.some days are like that.
brace up,better days ahead ahead.

I'm back too.

It Was A Youth Marriage Seminar... What Da Hell?!


I Was Kind Of Perplexed...


Boring questions Were Just Flying... Most Question I Already Had Answers To...


I Just Did My Thing As An Instrumentalist and Minded My Business while They Did Their...

wristbangle:
Makdebbie #smiles#

greiboy:


@ emboldened

Where did you get this statistics from

That's the obvious fact go to court and see things for yourself if there is any case of infertility issue on the side of the women most of them claims that the husband doesn't provide for the family that's what lead them to the act.... which 90% of such issues happens to be true

highpriestess:

what do you mean
get your own stat and counter it.
the General queen has spoken.

what about cheating and domestic violence?

DeadRat:








It Was A Youth Marriage Seminar... What Da Hell?!


I Was Kind Of Perplexed...


Boring questions Were Just Flying... Most Question I Already Had Answers To...


I Just Did My Thing As An Instrumentalist and Minded My Business while They Did Their...

lol,welcome back dear.

greiboy:
what about cheating and domestic violence?

lool,she didn't say all broken homes,she said most.

bammy777:
lol, like I don't have my own emotions, biological clock, lyk she isn't getting my own body, like I don't have my own prime, c am not saying spening on a lady is bad but don't make me feel like am obliged to spend on her, the only thing am obliged to spend money on are whatever makes me more money . c babe, if I don't spend on my babe, I wud just hate myself, but don't tag it like you're doing me a favour, like I can't get better trills with another babe, God I can't wait to go outta this country and experience real relationship. Yee babe's mentality is Bleep*d up

Nope you don’t have a biological clock. You can reproduce at any age and get married at 65. Your sexual market increases as you age. You don’t run on emotions like women do, we are completely different. Stop comparing, it doesn’t work like that. Men have a much larger time scale in comparison to women, thats the truth. Men seek for the sex 90% of the time, therefore women give the sex whilst the men receive it, so I’m giving you my body. Men don’t have a “mileage” like women do. Well it’s all up to you at the end of the day.

Is this boyfriend /girlfriend/ money gist on nairaland getting stale or I'm just bored?

Its becoming alarming and worrisome .

Thegeneralqueen:
That's the obvious fact go to court and see things for yourself if there is any case of infertility issue on the side of the women most of them claims that the husband doesn't provide for the family that's what lead them to the act.... which 90% of such issues happens to be true

So you have avoided the very important issue of a cheating partner and the prevalent issue of domestic violence very common among rich men that married their women as sex object

How convenient

Lalas247 contributing would make me happy also, she comes across as smart

greiboy:
The thread is about dating and you made a remark on the first page which I helped you translate to the simplest form, perhaps you need to go over our discussions again.

I was careful to avoid the use of marriage in our discussions.

You used the term ‘“life patner” and other words which insuiated marriage. Anyways whatever innit.

highpriestess:

lool,she didn't say all broken homes,she said most.

Most means majority which isn't entirely true.

DonPiiko:
My queen, I am not triggered I am just shocked at some really queer reasoning. There's no need for exaggerated self importance that I see all over this thread, I stand with Makydebbie and I am pregnant for her, she should better come and marry me

But Chief 90% of men here wants to reap where they have not sown.....
On a serious note Chief can't you provide for the girl you're dating if you don't want her to be with someone else?


I hope she has the strength to carry on cause look at the problems I'm facing while dating a sugar daddy talk more of being married



#SUGARDADDY

Safiaa:
Nope. I’ve seen so many women who want to play madam to men, and it never ends well. Women who don’t date up or at worst their equal, and always end up regretting in the long run. It’s not about marrying a millionaire or billionaire that can be unrealistic. Just a financial dominant provider, it’s not too much to ask for greyboiy, honestly.

I think the marriage discussions should be for another thread.

greiboy:
Most means majority which isn't entirely true.

which is not entirely true according to grey,which is entirely true according to queen.


so,you see,different strokes for different folks.

If you don't want to spend on your lady, fine.

if you want to empty your purse on a lady fine.

My dad didn't give my mom monthly stipends all through their years in marriage but he Spoils her silly with gifts and money to shop whenever she requests.

There are also some marriages where the husband pay some sort of monthly stipend to the wife for her upkeep and it ends there.

Relationships differ. All I know is You cannot claim to Love without Giving.

.Even the bible says; for God so LOVED the world that he GAVE his ONLY BEGOTTEN SON!!!..

You can't love someone and not want to give

greiboy:
Most means majority which isn't entirely true.

Those are the obvious fact

highpriestess:
lol,welcome back dear.

Thanks, how Was Your Day...

greiboy:
I think the marriage discussions should be for another thread.

nope. It’s all in correlation to this thread.