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Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:19pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Ok, I'm in a relationship with this girl and ever since, she's been needing one sort of help from me. She is always putting herself in precarious situations which could easily have been avoided, and when she does, I am expected to become the Savior. For clearer emphasis:she used the money her aunt gave her on her needs and she pleaded that I should help her refund her aunt which I did. I also help her out with her numerous frivolities. Just yesterday, her dad told her about his problems and she promised to be of help. She doesn't live with her dad,rather, with her aunty. Her aunty gave her her ATM to make a withdrawal and she withdrew extra 3k which she gave her dad. Her unsuspecting aunty later told her that her bank balance should be more than that, and that she will be going to the bank to complain about it. My girl immediately rushed to her saviour (me) for help, that she will pay back (story for the gods).I have told her countless number of times that she can only give what she has, however, she never heeds my advice So guys, if I decide not to help her, am I not justified 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by highpriestess: 6:20pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
![]() who are you asking,are we her? we are she ?are she we?she us we? is she us? infact,us we she? she is we?? biko,not everything you bring to social media. ![]() 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Like i said before.. But one thing i know is that heaven and hell knows that i can never and i will never date a girl who can't afford to buy iPhone 8 for herself with her own hard earned money.. This is why i will never send any girl in romance land a pm because i know there is nothing they can offer me apart from fishery pvsssy and to bore my life with their family problem.. And i know that girls in romance land have never touch iPhone 8 not to talk of buying it.. op don't date a broke girl.. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by thesicilian: 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
No she's not becoming a leech. She was already a leech long before she met you. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess: I have already, and you can only be of help by commenting responsibly or you keep your thoughts to yourself. Thanks |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess: ![]() ![]() LMAO!!! Seriously o! 4 Likes |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Kingpee2(m): 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
You are just being used,she will live her life still without your help,you volunteered to be a maga and you will continue to be one if you don’t put an end to it .. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
thesicilian: You are wrong bro. I just think she is becoming a leech without knowing. She requests for financial help because she makes too many mistakes, and I intend to teach a lesson. For what it is worth, lemme add that I am her first 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by tee59(f): 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
That girl of yours is a lair and can't be trusted. She sees you as a maga that can be manipulated. Stop been a father Xmas.She is taking your love for granted. She only loves your money and not you. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:37pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
tee59: Do I really love her?? I think I just care about her, that's all. If you read the post carefully, I mentioned that I help her with frivolities 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Olalan(m): 6:38pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
She's just abusing privilege having know you to always be there to sort her at all times. You need to tell her to be more prudent or you let her go 1 Like |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:39pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Sooner or later, you gon have to toughen that magnanimous heart of yours. For your information, always being in a haste to lend a helping hand is indeed not only a sign of weakness but neediness. Relationships like this rarely ever end well as you find yourself giving not because you want to but solely because you feel you have to. In the end it's you who's left hurting when things turn sour cos they ain't never gon be a commensurate level of reciprocity from her part - at least not the way you feel you deserve. Never go that extra mile brah, even if you're up for it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:43pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
CorGier: Thanks for this wonderful piece of advice |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:43pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ☣ ☠ ∆ All these broke ass girls self... ∆ ☣ ☠ |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:44pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess:What's the name of your product i wanna get high as you right now |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by greatnaija01: 6:46pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
BREAK DOWN you are not a BOYFRIEND... but a BOY ATM. She is using you to clear up her debts THEN when there is no more debt she would give u a soothing tale to BREAK UP with you, or ALLOW you marry her just for FINANCIAL PROSPECTS.... Pls ask yourself.... WHAT MADE YOU ENTER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? Is it her BEAUTY? BRAINS? CHARACTER? SHAPE? or PITY? Because relationship is not ADOPTION and you are already being a MALE NANNY for her and her family.... SEE, a girl in NEED will make you BLEED. If you leave her she will date a guy that can HELP her... that is how she is CONFIGURED... but she may END UP FALLING FOR A GUY who has no cash and then YOU WOULD BE SHOCKED HOW HER MOUTH WOULD CHANGE... and HOW she would be UNDERSTANDING and want to suffer together with Him... You MUST be Blind to keep dating a guy that can LISTEN TO YOUR WISE ADVICE.... So IF SHE DIDNT CHARM YOU or you are not under some spell because of her beauty or BODY.... then DELIVER YOURSELF and FLEE.... from every APPEARANCE OF EVIL. SOCIETY has damaged the aura of RELATIONSHIP by music and movies where they paint to us that the GUY MUST ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF THE EVERY NEED OF THE LADY.... You are already a victim bro.... its time for PRISON BREAK Jamie90: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Ojuri20: 6:46pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
If you're in the best position to help her pls kindly do. |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by McBrooklyn(m): 6:47pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
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Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:47pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess: The time it took you to type this nonsense would have been enough to offer a little piece of advice or tips on how to handle such girl Grow up, just grow up! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by UDUJ(m): 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess: ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:51pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
You can't tolerate my kind of shite but you can tolerate your girlfriend's beggarly kind of shite. Interesting! ![]() |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:52pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
greatnaija01: Thanks for your advice;i am truly grateful. However, I must correct something; I am not a victim cos I am not compelled to help. Whatever happened to the word frivolities which I used in my post. It means that I help her with things that are worthless to me. Now, her recent demand of 3k is not so worthless to me, that's why I am taking an exception to it 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Jamie90(m): 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Chikita66: I am going to shoot you off my thread ![]() |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 6:55pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess: 2 Likes
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Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by greatnaija01: 6:56pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Bro, for now you can use definitions o till you BREAK UP in a BAD way or you discover she is having a SIDE-BRO who she truly loves... I have been there before even for 4yrs TILL things got exposed and in the name of frivolities I had CASUALLY SPENT 1.3m on "little meaningless things" that she asked me... BUT I GUESS EXPERIENCE MAY TEACH YOU SHA. IF SHE IS NOT SHOWING WIFE QUALITIES.... DUMP HER.... define if you are HELPER or LOVER... We all know the GOOD BOOK says its the wife that should HELP or be a HELPMEET to the MAN. anyway the BALLS are in your court Jamie90: 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by highpriestess: 7:00pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
UDUJ:goodevening,our dog is missing this night. the cute dog. ![]() |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by UDUJ(m): 7:03pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess: My sweet pretty queen ![]() You've been causing trouble in the other thread ![]() How has your day been ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by DaniDani(m): 7:07pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
[quote author=highpriestess post=66710523] ![]() infact,us we she? she is we?? biko,not everything you bring to social media. ![]() Hahahahaha. Una no go kill me in this forum. See grammar permutation! 1 Like |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by Fadiga24(m): 7:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
CorGier: I appreciate this advice 1 Like |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by highpriestess: 7:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
UDUJ:I didn't cause trouble,was having fun with biaca. I love that dog. ![]() |
Re: Help!! Is My Girlfriend Becoming A Leech by DaniDani(m): 7:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
highpriestess:Hahahaha. Una no go kill me in this forum. see grammar permutation! 2 Likes |
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