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Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 2:11am On Apr 14, 2018 |
as a budding relationship advice coach and counselor, i normally give advice to readers asking for help on how to go about certain issues. yesterday night i received an email. but i wasn't entirely satisfied with my response. Please guys i do need your help to know if my response was OK, and your opinion on the matter will be highly appreciated. Dear Dav, I have a problem. My son is 5. About 2 days ago my wife and i went shopping and we coincidentally ran into a high school friend of hers. As they were trying to catch up, my wife told her friend that we had a son. When the old friend asked of his name my wife hesitated and I told her. Her friend had a strange look on her face when i told her, and she said referring to my wife now. "you mean like your ex boyfriend". Our sons name is very unique to the point that I've never met another person with the same name. Now my wife refuses to talk to me about it. I feel betrayed and disgusted with her. It's like a switch was flipped in my mind and I just can't look at her the same way.\ please Dav i need your advice on this one. Here was my response You certainly do have a problem. First things first, you need to get a DNA test. Don't make a big deal out of it, or tell your wife, just take your son to any hospital with such facility - and secretly test your son to make sure he's yours biologically. Assuming your son is biologically yours, it's probably no big deal. Your wife may have simply liked the name, or admired some of her exes characteristics. But she definitely owes you at least one conversation about it. 1 Like |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by MhizAJ(f): 2:50am On Apr 14, 2018 |
I will read and comment larra I'm still at work 2 Likes |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Timagex(m): 2:54am On Apr 14, 2018 |
I see no reason why the son is his.... #fear women #respect men!!! |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 3:05am On Apr 14, 2018 |
The evil that women do surprises devil, himself 1 Like |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 3:19am On Apr 14, 2018 |
I can see why the guy would be upset about this but it could be that she genuinely just likes the name? She's not with her ex now 1 Like |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by pussyeater(m): 4:38am On Apr 14, 2018 |
My guy have enter one chance. SMH |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by SoapQueen(f): 5:01am On Apr 14, 2018 |
When you break up with someone, heal properly and get "dry" before you start dating someone else. Even if it takes months for you to move on, it's worth it. If I were the husband, them no born me well if I no change the pikin name. 3 Likes |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by happy200(m): 5:27am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Hapened to me also; A Zimbabean lady (former employee) asked me out i was reluctant in the end we didn't date. I was surprised she named her son after my name. One day she and her boyfriend came to buy something at my shop and the boyfriend asked her did u buy for ---------(my name) i turned back with surprise and asked the man who is --------- (my name) the lady quickly said ''no it's a mistake'' 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by hurumnanya: 5:52am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Women should learn to put everything ex away for good. That lady will most likely sleep with that ex any day they meet unarranged |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 7:09am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Mr relationship advisor and coach coming online to seek opinions on his advice. I pity those sending you emails if they actually even exist. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Acidosis(m): 8:08am On Apr 14, 2018 |
MhizAJ:You work with Edo Airways? 1 Like |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by MhizAJ(f): 8:17am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Acidosis: How can a beautiful lady like me work with Edo airways |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Acidosis(m): 8:53am On Apr 14, 2018 |
MhizAJ:lol Good to see you say something nice about yourself. So what kind of work keeps you awake at odd hours - 2am? 1 Like |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by MhizAJ(f): 9:07am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Acidosis: Has it ever occurred to you that there are people on this forum in other parts of the world? Engrs,medical practitioners etc could be awake at odd hours working ... So i fall in one of those category |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Acidosis(m): 9:18am On Apr 14, 2018 |
MhizAJ: *sighs* You know I've stumbled on some of your 'male-bashing posts' on this forum, and I'm quite surprised that you fall in the aforementioned category, especially the bold I've always thought people who despise and speak ill of broke men don't have a definite job. 1 Like |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by MhizAJ(f): 9:24am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Acidosis: Really Oh you think i'm a lazy biatch I know ryte |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Acidosis(m): 10:25am On Apr 14, 2018 |
MhizAJ:It is well |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 1:05pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
QueenUtum:on what inference is your based |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 1:09pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
happy200:i bet the look that was on her face was priceless |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 1:11pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
1stCitizen:guy read the post very well b4 you start opening your gutter mouth trash. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 2:57pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
daviesblaze: Read your ghetto language which gives you away as an impostor. A relationship coach with the outburst of a ten year old. Anyway I read it and again and this part below shows how clueless you are, mr attention seeker Please guys i do need your help to know if my response was OK, and your opinion on the matter will be highly appreciated. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 3:12pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
1stCitizen:oh really, maybe i should direct your attention to my opening sentences in the post. unfortunaly, users like you are the main reason nairaland cant compete with forums like Quora. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Prognose: 4:41pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Recycled old story. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
daviesblaze: I have placed the opening sentence below so your stupidity will be a bit more glaring
I pity the fictitious readers mentioned Please don't take your 'mumurism' to another forum |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
daviesblaze: I have placed the opening sentence below so your stupidity will be a bit more glaring
I pity the fictitious readers mentioned Please don't take your 'mumurism' to another forum |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Blonchilli(m): 6:29pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
That woman is a cheater. First go for DNA test then change that name if the child name asap. Why would I name my child after my ex? Someone I want to forget about. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by OShepherd: 12:22am On Apr 15, 2018 |
MhizAJ:U be security personnel |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 8:33am On Apr 15, 2018 |
1stCitizen:hey niggi, just an advice. go get yourself a job and stop wasting your precious time on nairaland. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Hector09(m): 9:25am On Apr 15, 2018 |
Maybe her ex was her first boy frnd or she genuinly luv the guy, am going to name my first daughter mary mariana cus of d kind of luv i ve for this girl |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by Nobody: 9:54am On Apr 15, 2018 |
daviesblaze: At least my time is precious. Yours is valueless hence you became a self appointed relationship expert who lacks confidence in the advice he gives so comes to nairaland to seek validation from others. |
Re: Nairaland, Advice Needed: His Wife Named Their Son After Her First Love. by daviesblaze(m): 12:19pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
Hector09:Hmm, i still wonder, why would a man allow his wife to name their first child. |
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