lestat:
Time waits for no one

When you waste time chasing shadows instead of goals you have yourself to blame.

Lay your treasure were termites won't devour them

Build up yourself and leave chasing women or in this case love

When you are successful women will come knocking

tyup:


no bro you cant understand this has always been my notion to but if you know this girl well i'm talking about you wount say this. Building a future foundation can also start now

lestat:
Time waits for no one

When you waste time chasing shadows instead of goals you have yourself to blame.

Lay your treasure were termites won't devour them

Build up yourself and leave chasing women or in this case love

When you are successful women will come knocking

You will continue to get your heart broken until you get your priorities straigwomen are attracted to ambitious focused men not loafers

Get your mind right and stop catching feelings

Time waits for no one

henro4niger:


this is it, but most young men won't understand this. Its a very popular advice but many would overlook it. thanks for helping him out though from his response, he is too young to understand

lestat:


Building a future?

Are you a graduate ?

Are you an enterpreneur?

Do you have any thriving investments ?

Do you have a 5 year planned alid out for your career that you are currently pursuing?

Do you have a place of your own?

What properties are you in the process of aquiring ?

Shugarlord213:
some women are prostitutes who have only pussy to offer and come with the baggage of disgusting sense of entitlement.

These creatures should be avoided like plague and left to rot in their misery

Bro go hustle and make yourself comfortable first otherwise we way get car go nacck your babe and we don’t care how you feel

MissRaine69:
It’s best if you tell her how you feel and expect and respect the fact that it’s very possible she might not feel the same way. She has the right to not share the same emotions as you so please don’t give her a hard time if this is the case.

You have gone on to build this whole idea of blissfulness in your head and it’s way way too premature. What have you done with your life to improve it? Are you now in a position to say you have a career? Every sane parent wants what’s best for their child daughters especially she may be destined to leave the country have you thought about that? You can have dreams and hopes but you also have to be realistic. You can start as hard as it is with how you feel.

lestat:


Exactly my brother
.but unfortunately for him life doesn't care about your age she will deal one serious blows till one learns by force

I am scared for.him if he doesn't change his mindset

Garri is getting expensive

tyup:


thanks for the advice tho but concerning focusing on making it life yeah sure that my main focus rn atleast at 18 i'm into marketing and also solid minerals and me calling home for money was since 100L and of course i'm just trying to balance the two

tyup:


yeah i do have a lil business i do that fetch me money even at 18 anyways thanks for contributing

#peace

tyup:


went to jos four days ago sold some tanterlite and got about 230k and guess what i'm investing so i'm sure of a better future i'm just trying to balace the two up to be atleast happy later

tyup:


went to jos four days ago sold some tanterlite and got about 230k and guess what i'm investing so i'm sure of a better future i'm just trying to balace the two up to be atleast happy later

CarlosTheJackal:
At 18 you should channel your energy into building your life and becoming successful not coming here to seek advice on how to woo a girl who is building her life and career

tyup:


went to jos four days ago sold some tanterlite and got about 230k and guess what i'm investing so i'm sure of a better future i'm just trying to balace the two up to be atleast happy later

wristbangle:
You didn't give us a clear description of your current status. Maybe you are almost through from school or still at early stage

Anyway you are still lobbying under fantasy and it's okay for your immature mind not to be at rest.

What is yours, will be yours. Don't kill yourself and have sleepless night because of a girl. Also, if you truly have feelings for her, take a bold step to tell her how you feel. The worst answer you will get is NO and that will not kill you boy.

internationalman:
Stop acting like your destiny is tied to her.

One thing I have come to realize is that the more u explore different relationships with different girls, you realise that the previous girl u thought was the best is actually not the best when you meet the next girl...

wristbangle:
You didn't give us a clear description of your current status. Maybe you are almost through from school or still at early stage

Anyway you are still lobbying under fantasy and it's okay for your immature mind not to be at rest.

What is yours, will be yours. Don't kill yourself and have sleepless night because of a girl. Also, if you truly have feelings for her, take a bold step to tell her how you feel. The worst answer you will get is NO and that will not kill you boy.

Elanqy:


Am interested in joining the tanterlite business