Good evening ma,

I work in the same company with someone who introduced me to your whatsapp group. Though I have not been commenting,I read all the posts everyday. ma,please I need your help and your counsel. I know what I have done is really a heavy sin but I have been asking God for forgiveness. I just want to seek your advice because I dont want to die without telling anyone the truth.Please dont judge me. If you want to post on the group,its fine,I know you will not use my real name.

I am 31 years old. I was abused as a child by my brothers’ friend. I got exposed to s*x quite early. My parents were not always around,so it was me and my four siblings. We did alot of things children should not be exposed to. When I was 17,my landlord started to sleep with me. He would give me money and anything I wanted. I was his girlfriend for almost 3 years. My upbringing was rough ma. I thought having s*x with anyone is just a way of life once you just have the urge to do it. I also realized that it gave me what I wanted as a woman. I used it to pass most of my exams in my HND.

When I started working,I had a boyfriend but he was not the only one I was sleeping with. I was just not used to the idea of only one sxual partner. That would not be enough for me. Two years ago,I met my husband. He was a business man who shuttles between Nigeria and China and Turkey. He was into importation. My relationship with him was fine. He never suspected I was seeing other people cos he was always travelling. And to be honest,I am not a bad person,I just am a little addicted to sx. I treated him very well. Its just that the times he was not around,I was with another man. I knew how to disguise my business well.Last year,October,my husband proposed to me. We got married in November.

After our wedding,my husband traveled but came back again in December for Christmas. He traveled just before new year. I found out....Read full story from

https://livelystones.com.ng/confused-and-feeling-guiltyam-i-responsible-for-my-husbands-death/

posting the full story here na crime ba? make I help you.

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After our wedding,my husband traveled but came back again in December for Christmas. He traveled just before new year. I found out I was pregnant in January. I knew this pregnancy was not my husband’s own. It was for one of my bosses that I was sleeping with at work. I was so scared. I didn’t know what to do. I decided to have an abortion. But something very strange happened,the day I went to the hospital for the abortion,I met our pastor’s wife in the hospital. She came for ante natal. she greeted me warmly and was telling me one day I would be like her and have my own babies. It was like God was talking to me. I just turned back and didn’t have the abortion again. I was thinking what if I do this abortion and never have a child again. So I made up my mind and told my husband I was pregnant. When I told him over the phone,he took the next flight and came home. He was so happy. I couldn’t believe how the thought of him being a dad made him so happy. I thought I made the right choice. No one needs to know the true identity of the father of this child. As far as its concerned,my husband is the father.
But ma,my joy was short lived. My husband died in March this year. He died in Turkey. He was not sick. He was not injured. He just slumped and died. My life has not been the same since. I have been mourning. I have been crying. I also feel so guilty. I feel so bad. I feel like I am responsible for his death. My people have a superstition that if a married woman is cheating on the husband and lies about it,the man will not live long. I dont know if that is true but with what happened to my husband,my mind has been troubling me. His family thinks this child I am carrying is their grand son. Should I continue to keep quiet and make them believe so? I am not a bad person,I just have made so many bad choices in life.
I have been asking God to forgive me. I want to confess my sin but I am so scared of the consequences. What will people say? My husband’s people will kill me. They will even take away all his property once they know this child is not for their son. Ma,should I continue to keep quiet since I have confessed to God and I have begged for forgiveness? What should I do? I have not been in peace ever since. Please help me.
Ososa (Not real name)
From Benin

Every girl now uses the abused as a child story as an excuse for being sexually active...

if u can't complete d fabricated story here,4get it

deep sigh! if dis tori is true,i can imagine how her toto go be now. Probably like typical face me/face u "shalanga" The moment u open ur mouth and ask God for mercy/forgiveness of ur waywardness/ s*xcapade.He hear u.God is a merciful God.But one thing is certain,ur evil will torment u still till old age.

u have not sent ur

sim37:
if u can't complete d fabricated story here,4get it

Clap for urself mr/mrs offpoint

Offpoint:
posting the full story here na crime ba? make I help you.

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After our wedding,my husband traveled but came back again in December for Christmas. He traveled just before new year. I found out I was pregnant in January. I knew this pregnancy was not my husband’s own. It was for one of my bosses that I was sleeping with at work. I was so scared. I didn’t know what to do. I decided to have an abortion. But something very strange happened,the day I went to the hospital for the abortion,I met our pastor’s wife in the hospital. She came for ante natal. she greeted me warmly and was telling me one day I would be like her and have my own babies. It was like God was talking to me. I just turned back and didn’t have the abortion again. I was thinking what if I do this abortion and never have a child again. So I made up my mind and told my husband I was pregnant. When I told him over the phone,he took the next flight and came home. He was so happy. I couldn’t believe how the thought of him being a dad made him so happy. I thought I made the right choice. No one needs to know the true identity of the father of this child. As far as its concerned,my husband is the father.
But ma,my joy was short lived. My husband died in March this year. He died in Turkey. He was not sick. He was not injured. He just slumped and died. My life has not been the same since. I have been mourning. I have been crying. I also feel so guilty. I feel so bad. I feel like I am responsible for his death. My people have a superstition that if a married woman is cheating on the husband and lies about it,the man will not live long. I dont know if that is true but with what happened to my husband,my mind has been troubling me. His family thinks this child I am carrying is their grand son. Should I continue to keep quiet and make them believe so? I am not a bad person,I just have made so many bad choices in life.
I have been asking God to forgive me. I want to confess my sin but I am so scared of the consequences. What will people say? My husband’s people will kill me. They will even take away all his property once they know this child is not for their son. Ma,should I continue to keep quiet since I have confessed to God and I have begged for forgiveness? What should I do? I have not been in peace ever since. Please help me.
Ososa (Not real name)
From Benin

This is not in any way justifying your actions,you were wrong on all accounts and I hope you have truly repented and made amends with God.

See a counselor or therapist to address your addiction,you cannot live like that anymore.

Beke2020:
Good evening ma,

I work in the same company with someone who introduced me to your whatsapp group. Though I have not been commenting,I read all the posts everyday. ma,please I need your help and your counsel. I know what I have done is really a heavy sin but I have been asking God for forgiveness. I just want to seek your advice because I dont want to die without telling anyone the truth.Please dont judge me. If you want to post on the group,its fine,I know you will not use my real name.

I am 31 years old. I was abused as a child by my brothers’ friend. I got exposed to s*x quite early. My parents were not always around,so it was me and my four siblings. We did alot of things children should not be exposed to. When I was 17,my landlord started to sleep with me. He would give me money and anything I wanted. I was his girlfriend for almost 3 years. My upbringing was rough ma. I thought having s*x with anyone is just a way of life once you just have the urge to do it. I also realized that it gave me what I wanted as a woman. I used it to pass most of my exams in my HND.

When I started working,I had a boyfriend but he was not the only one I was sleeping with. I was just not used to the idea of only one sxual partner. That would not be enough for me. Two years ago,I met my husband. He was a business man who shuttles between Nigeria and China and Turkey. He was into importation. My relationship with him was fine. He never suspected I was seeing other people cos he was always travelling. And to be honest,I am not a bad person,I just am a little addicted to sx. I treated him very well. Its just that the times he was not around,I was with another man. I knew how to disguise my business well.Last year,October,my husband proposed to me. We got married in November.

After our wedding,my husband traveled but came back again in December for Christmas. He traveled just before new year. I found out....Read full story from

https://livelystones.com.ng/confused-and-feeling-guiltyam-i-responsible-for-my-husbands-death/

ososa, only God saves through Jesus our savour. let the sleeping dogs lies, give birth to the baby and conduct a DNA to confirm the real father before taking any decision. u might never tell d father by assuming is one of ur bosses.which of the boss any?

kirkirki ipobarecriminals

Saviour22:
kirkirki ipobarecriminals

Saviour22:
kirkirki ipobarecriminals

wetin i do oo.Why u dey summon me to winch coven

ipobarecriminals:
wetin i do oo.Why u dey summon me to winch coven

no mind me jare

Wisdom !
thumbs up.

Destiblack:
ososa, only God saves through Jesus our savour. let the sleeping dogs lies, give birth to the baby and conduct a DNA to confirm the real father before taking any decision. u might never tell d father by assuming is one of ur bosses.which of the boss any?

women are always responsible for their husband's death

Statistics

DOUBLEWAHALA:
women are always responsible for their husband's death

Reading this just made me so angry!!!!!!! So you knew about the superstition and you continued now he is dead and you want to hide in the comfort of his struggle to confess to God and continue enjoying ur life......... Some one even said raise the baby well and tell him you and daddy loves him, May God punish you first then forgive you later

You broke his trust, you lied to him for two years straight, to even worsen the case you said you are not a bad person but you just love sex!!!!!! Guess what I am not a bad person but I love money and I haven't done blood money yet.


Tell the family, they should take his house and take all from you, if they forgive then God has forgiven you but if not, just Bleep your way to the next husband.......Rubbish

Kumar4india:
Statistics

too much expending

That I disagree with. Lot of women been victimized, just because one was found wanting in her husband death, doesn't make all same

DOUBLEWAHALA:
women are always responsible for their husband's death

Destiblack:
ososa, only God saves through Jesus our saviour. let the sleeping dogs lies, give birth to the baby and conduct a DNA to confirm the real father before taking any decision. u might never tell d father by assuming is one of ur bosses.

Seconded!
While not condoning what you did, I think you should still exercise patience till you give birth, Go for DNA test and confirm if your husband is the father. You take further steps based on the result.

vivie01:

Seconded!
While not condoning what you did, I think you should still exercise patience till you give birth, Go for DNA test and confirm if your husband is the father. You take further steps based on the result.

I concur

really?
atleast there be a percentage or you use Buharic word, out of 60% , alot are uneducated . looool

DOUBLEWAHALA:

too much expending

This sh1t here is why many men are scared of marriage. Imagine a married woman sleeping with men recklessly to the extent of getting pregnant.

The day God will touch the heart of hospitals to reduce the cost of DNA tests, 90% of Nigerian marriages will crash.

Idiotic woman, go and eat the corpse of your husband. Fool.

God is our help.

But not just women that sleep around.

Some married men too flirt.

CaptJeffry:
This sh1t here is why many men are scared of marriage. Imagine a married woman sleeping with men recklessly to the extent of getting pregnant.

The day God will touch the heart of hospitals to reduce the cost of DNA tests, 90% of Nigerian marriages will crash.

Idiotic woman, go and eat the corpse of your husband. Fool.

Kumar4india:
God is our help.

But not just women that sleep around.

Some married men too flirt.

hmnnnn

Beke2020:
hmnnnn

Bro you harsh oooh

CaptJeffry:
This sh1t here is why many men are scared of marriage. Imagine a married woman sleeping with men recklessly to the extent of getting pregnant.

The day God will touch the heart of hospitals to reduce the cost of DNA tests, 90% of Nigerian marriages will crash.

Idiotic woman, go and eat the corpse of your husband. Fool.

Beke2020:
Bro you harsh oooh

My sister only God can tell n can judge. Seek him