Stats: 3,190,059 members, 7,939,260 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 September 2024 at 09:42 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me (1918 Views)
It Started With A Look / It Started With Hi On Facebook - Bride Thanks God For Directing Her Husband To / Warning To All Male Romancelanders [PICTURES] (2) (3) (4)
How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Timekeeper: 2:46pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
How it started Remember when I gained admsn to the University in the northern part of Nigeria. During my first lecture, there was this lady I saw and I instantly liked her. We were having a combined class so I thought she was from the other dept, unknown to me, she was in my dept. It took time to get to know that she is my course mate. You know in the north na, apart from hausa, Fulani, ebira, the other girls are mostly from kwara ilorin or osun (I count those two states as muslimize States ). I really had a strong feelings for this lady but later got to know that she was dating a guy we do have lecture together. The guy is from another department but we take some core courses together. Originally I don't want to associate myself to ilorin or osun lady especially their muslim one, I am a Christian and so it will be very tough for a Christian to convince those ladies except you are a Muslim and their people. Sometimes when am talking to people in class and she intervene, I just keep quiet and leave, I don't just want to get too familiar with her. I know myself, I'm this kind of jovial person, I offend people when I'm playing with them and so I don't want to get to familiar with this lady I don't want to offend her, remember that I like her so much... Even in our department group chat, I do see her but don't chat her at all. I just want to be a gentle man for her even though she knows am not a gentle man with others but yet I maintain this level of gentleness when it comes to her. Most time on her WhatsApp, no picture, very rare of her to upload pictures, so I thought it a normal stuff of all these too religious Muslims but a day like that I went to check her WhatsApp profile and saw her use her boyfriend pic, I was like Chai, see the girl I dey tink na she no get intestine even upload a guy picture on her WhatsApp page, I checked the name too and I saw her use the guy surname with her own name. That time, my heart was like God, kuku kill me. A fateful day came, I lost my pen n I needed one, so she offered me. So later I went online to thank her and told her to help me with a pen, she didn't reply. I wasn't happy and I told her, she later replied that okay, what will I do if she doesn't reply? We shall talk n later we started chatting but in class, we don't talk. I later realized that she is from my state, ogun state and the zeal to desire her more was eating me up. A Muslim and a Christian, I don't see it as a problem since Yorubas especially from Lagos, ogun don't care, we have this unending love whether na muslim or Christian. Nairalanders, this is my 3rd year, I don't mind if this lady is from my department, I just love her and I will love to marry her. Honestly speaking, am not after sex but I really love her. My first problem, she told me she broke up with her previous boifrnd coz he was a Christian and now she is dating a Muslim. It's very hard to convince this lady but I truly love her and wish Man never created religion at all Coz it did more harm than good. Nairalanders, make una help me, I need ur advice Pls forgive for calling to lazy Youths. Abeg Cc: lalasticlala QueenSuccubus Highpriestess Izaray RoyalBlak007 Makydebbie Blackhawk03 Zana7 peteremu galaciousbabe Bibi294 sexybbstar rebirthforgoody predmine20 RadicallyBlunt falconey Nickijoy Maryclaire1 faithfull18 Beke2020 delectablegyal Mynd44 Fynestboi Rokia2 egopersonified IAMSASHY tosyne2much Divay22 Dasherz stupidity Rangojack SoapQueen Thegeneralqueen elyna BooTina agbonkamen vivie01 Danty37 TheTrueApostle TheUpsetGirl1 Toks2008 Imapearl handsomeguy4kyf Rocktation farano pornhub Donstan18 Chikita66 MissRaine69 |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by eezeribe(m): 2:50pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Bros,instead of mentioning almost all romancelanders and mods in your post;you should have just called all your English teachers from Crèche to your current level,to come and see the damage they have caused. 5 Likes |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:57pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
![]() Boi, ur a lazyyoot too ![]() Abeeg, she already said she has a Muslim booboo... So, what do u Want? U wanna steal her or u wanna wait til the table flip? ![]() Besides, it's not the end of the world yet. U never even expand ur horizon but ur already thinking of getting married to her..Haba! Free the girl sha & focus on ur studies first. 1 Like |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Offpoint: 3:02pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
I think of what to eat this afternoon this one dey talk love... who love epp? Don't waste your time on any Muslim girl cuz she won't and will never marry you. unless you gotta a spare time to waste... you can go ahead. |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Timekeeper: 3:11pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
eezeribe: Flat head, never said I was competing in a English competition.. I dey talk as he dey my mind... So gbo, ipob lazy youth |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by BiggerbossAmani(m): 3:27pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
What's your problem nigga |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by mikejj(m): 3:30pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
hmm looters list..vc list ![]() ![]() |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Nobody: 4:08pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Three options 1. You convert her to Christianity and you tie the knot with her 2. You convert to Islam and you tie the knot with her (to me, not advisable) 3. You walk away and move on 1 and 2 come with a sacrifice and 3 with pain. For me i go with 1 but The choice is yours. Make the right decision. Pray and seek God's face. Sometimes God's plan is not our plan. Accept God's verdict. |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by DaniDani(m): 4:37pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
eezeribe: Hahahaha. See finishing!!! |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Auladimeji(m): 5:17pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like
|
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Kaxmytex(m): 5:38pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
What if you eventually end up marrying this lady and she failed to provide a dinner one day, what is the probability u wont call a family meeting on her ![]() ![]() |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Ardebaryor(m): 5:43pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Timekeeper: 6:12pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Godwindanielboy: Thanks.. It's either 1 or 3. 2 can never, I repeat never happen |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Timekeeper: 6:13pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Kaxmytex: The probability is - 0.15.. Meaning I wunt at all |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Just be stressing urself over another person's babe
|
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Dasherz(f): 9:25pm On Apr 29, 2018 |
dude seriously? .. you had to tag everyone to this? ... not tryint to be all rude but this post is senseless bye Timekeeper: |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by MissRaine69(f): 11:56pm On Apr 29, 2018 |
So if you have not told her how you feel how on Earth are you going to plan a future with this woman? The biggest issue here is not the fact that you have different religions it’s being hopelessly in love with someone who does not know it. You want to marry her based on what? Do you even know her favourite colour? This is what’s called infatuation which is borderline obsessive. Come back to reality first see if she will even consider dating you before you start thinking about marriage. |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Holysucker(m): 12:03am On Apr 30, 2018 |
Lol..dis not d op's story,is a copy and paste story.av even forgotten d title..av read (red) d full story...and people are busy advicing d op..lol.. 1 Like |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 12:05am On Apr 30, 2018 |
go and make your life useful |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Nobody: 8:22am On Apr 30, 2018 |
Dasherz:You love her,go for her.Religion can't stop that. |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by Dasherz(f): 10:20am On Apr 30, 2018 |
predmine20:You're supposed to quote the Op not me!!!!!!! |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by ninetiethcrown7(m): 3:56pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Hahaha, my guy cc'd the whole of romanceland. If your name is not on the list (mine included) you need to step up you're romanceland game. Seriously it's funny. |
Re: How It Started.... Romancelanders Pls Read And Help Me by vivie01(f): 4:29pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
What a petty post. Okay, I will advice you let the lady be. You sounded like a timid and introverted person. Notwithstanding, you are at a level where you need to be more focused on you academics; how you can work harder to improve your CGPA. Please know that relationship would be a very bad distraction at the stage you are now and it might negatively affect you academically. There will still be more than enough room for that later-on and you will have more good options to choose from. Best of luck! 1 Like |
(1) (Reply)
You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer / Pls Help Me, Someone I Care About Is Ignoring Me. / See Heartbreaking Note A Girl Wrote How She's Being Sexualy Abused By A Neighbor
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 56 |