makydebbie:

Love, relationships and everything that comes with it should be mutual. I can't go into a relationship with the mentality that, I'm doing this guy a favor by dating him, then there's no love there. SUCH RELATIONSHIPS CANNOT WORK, because it's one sided. It means the love is one sided too.
For two individuals to come together, overlook each others flaws, whatever they feel should be mutual. The guy would've gone for that cute sexy girl in the street, so for him to choose you and start taking care of you, he's doing you a favor too because it could be anybody. It's better for a lady to remain single than to be in a relationship where she thinks she's doing him a favor. That's a different kind of pride and narcissism.

Lol, I'm trying to understand this, but like you said I really can't understand it, so I'll just respect your opinion.

God will bless u, u will never die young, all the good of this life u shall never lack, God will bless u and give u a bless u with a good home... In fact, as from today's henceforth, u won my heart in a very special way... I never knew we still have ladies with resounding senses and honesty like u...once again, God bless u

Safiaa:
It’s not strictly a transaction. This is not a teenage love affair we’re talking about it, this is adult love. Adult love requires some sort of transaction. What do men go after? What do women go after? When they come together, do they both get what they want? Answer that.

Don't worry, they don't close the gate to SHILOH, by the time u are 40 with thia your poor mentality, u will realize that relationship is not all about offering guys favour or something must be offer and something must be returned

Safiaa:
Maky, what you don’t understand is that a man will always go for the best that his money and status can get. Yes they’ll always be prettier and sexier ladies than you, but can he get them? A man pursuing you and chasing you, he’s looking at you like you’re the best he can get in that period. So it’s not something that you consciously think in your head at all times, but subconsciously you’re doing him a favour by accepting his proposal especially if he’s pursuing you hard. Like I said all these things happen naturally, so it’s not like you’ll have this entitled mentality thinking that you’re better than him. It’s more or less knowing your worth and not accepting less than what you deserve. So if I expect you to financially contribute to the relationship, it really shouldn’t be a problem.

can u do me a favour of keeping your gutter oozing mouth shut for once... Can't u see that u ain't making sense?.... Nobody is in support of your "hoe-loshoistic" comment .... Na wa oooo... Dear God, if this is the kinda girl that will be left for me to marry, please just render me impotent or single for life

CAPSLOCKED:




THIS IS TRUE, FOR MANY GIRLS. BUT,


THERE'S NO HARM IN BUYING "YOUR GIRL" THE THINGS YOU CAN AFFORD.

willingly and not by returning their "presumed and assumed sexual favour" by force ?

prechbills1:
the problem is in Nigeria it s hard to see made babes..
mehn... I took me many years before I saw my fiance..

if you want to marry an independent or rich lady my friend go and school in south Africa..
I did my M. Sc there and I met my fiance there...

she's the best thing that ever happened to me

Olamijuwon Anike, May God bless u.. May u never be curse like some ladies seeing relationship as a favour... She knows how much I valued her, she was there when there was nothing, I'm proud to tell u that we made it a little together still u ain't billing me cos u believe in your handiwork ... God bless my woman and elevate her hand work in Jesus name ... Amen

Safiaa:
Didn’t read everything, but my opinion is that as a boyfriend you don’t have to spend your every dime on your Gf or cater to every single thing she wants to buy. However you need to spend money. If you can’t afford to date, stay single. It’s as simple as ABC. Nobody is putting a gun to your head to have a gf.

While we must spend on our galfrens, what the guy and most of us guys are saying is that it is not an OBLIGATION to meet gal frens' needs just cos we're dating.
You are 100% responsible however, when it is a wive. Shikenan

Impregnable101:


80% of nigerian girls expect u to start footing her bills the moment she agrees to date u like they are doing u a favour

& that's wrong!

Yes absolute wrong

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

Chai! and some people even like the post. So everything about you Safiaa is for the money? How is it diffrent from prostitution?

UDUJ:


At the bold face, I just concluded you got shit for brains. Have you ever worked a single day in your life?

The company is not doing you a favor by employing you, neither are you doing the company a favor by accepting the job. The end goal of the game is money. It's a business and the company needs you to hit the bottom line, same way you need the salary of the company to survive.

Thanks Bro, i know you will address this wacked mentality.

Safiaa:
First of all, Do I know you from anywhere? Why quote me with insults, clearly there’s something wrong with you. You can argue and disagree without being ridiculous. Nonsense.

It’s a transactional relationship that happens between the boss and the employee. The end goal is money, agreed. How will this goal be met if sacrifices/favours are not made? If a very top notch job decides to employ you out of thousands, you have to look at it like they’re doing you a favour. You treat the job with care, a replacement will be very easy for the company. Transactional relationships are never equal. This is not even the point, the main point is that if I decide to date you after you persue me, I’m doing you a favour by accepting. Nothing in this life is equal, wake up! It’s as simple as ABC, no if buts or maybes.

I can see clearly you have a comprehension issue and lack logical acumen. May be your trade has killed the portion of your brain that process those two. Benin Gal indeed

summerflame:
God will bless u, u will never die young, all the good of this life u shall never lack, God will bless u and give u a bless u with a good home... In fact, as from today's henceforth, u won my heart in a very special way... I never knew we still have ladies with resounding senses and honesty like u...once again, God bless u

Amen, amen and amen! Felt great waking up to this prayers.

Thanks very much and I wish you same.

summerflame:
God will bless u, u will never die young, all the good of this life u shall never lack, God will bless u and give u a bless u with a good home... In fact, as from today's henceforth, u won my heart in a very special way... I never knew we still have ladies with resounding senses and honesty like u...once again, God bless u

Thats why i love her. She is special.

LoRdCaT:
Nothing oo, it's just been so long I heard from you so I decided to call to check up on you.

Alright. Thanks. Good morning.

U Don dey get sense small small oh, pitiable your sister safiaa has insisted she will be senseless for the rest of her life. It's pitiable u know...

makydebbie:
Lol you're typing as if she's doing this grudgingly or something and she deserves to be patronized for it. It's wrong dating a lady who thinks she's doing you a favor by dating you. It's supposed to be mutual. Wtf.

MhisTahrah:
Alright. Thanks. Good morning.

How are you? Happy Sunday

LoRdCaT:
How are you? Happy Sunday

I'm fine and you? I've missed you bro, you're not as active as before, hope all is well? Wish you same.

MhisTahrah:
I'm fine and you? I've missed you bro, you're not as active as before, hope all is well? Wish you same.

Bawo ni

greiboy:
Bawo ni

Uncle Grey, I'm fine and you?

MhisTahrah:
Uncle Grey, I'm fine and you?

Why are you calling me uncle now

How is everything? Sch? bfs? and so on

greiboy:
Why are you calling me uncle now

How is everything? Sch? bfs? and so on

You're my big uncle. Efritin iz palfect.
School is okay, bfs are fine and so on.

Saw your diary, want more.

MhisTahrah:
You're my big uncle. Efritin iz palfect.
School is okay, bfs are fine and so on.

Saw your diary, want more.

hahaha

No wonder you dey call me uncle

Well I will be giving more information soon

I see you more as iyawo kekere

greiboy:
hahaha

No wonder you dey call me uncle

Well I will be giving more information soon

I see you more as iyawo kekere

Will be waiting with my popcorn.

Iyawo kekere keh? I'm heartbroken.

MhisTahrah:
Will be waiting with my popcorn.
Iyawo kekere keh? I'm heartbroken.

Hahaha
Where is your own diary? The one you had last year.
Bring back our diary

greiboy:
Hahaha

Where is your own diary? The one you had last year.

Bring back our diary

I'm on a new one, in which I'll reveal my identity and probably post my picture. But I'm not sure I should do that yet.

MhisTahrah:
I'm on a new one, in which I'll reveal my identity and probably post my picture. But I'm not sure I should do that yet.

dat lady on ur dp

MhisTahrah:
I'm on a new one, in which I'll reveal my identity and probably post my picture. But I'm not sure I should do that yet.

please reveal your identity

lefulefu:

dat lady on ur dp

Lol. Ikr.

MhisTahrah:
Lol. Ikr.

hw u doin?
longtime
goodmornin

greiboy:
please reveal your identity

All in good time. Good morning, hope you had a good night rest?

MhisTahrah:
All in good time. Good morning, hope you had a good night rest?

Morning

Yes, thank you

How was your night?

MhisTahrah:
I'm fine and you? I've missed you bro, you're not as active as before, hope all is well? Wish you same.

All is well oo, it's school that has been keeping me and I am very busy with other things too. Pm me your number so I can reach you on whatsapp. I will try to be regular on here though. How's school