alphacyborg:

See them

alphacyborg:

See them

johnwell:


what do you mean by fresh and untouched? are you God to know her past?
do you know how many abortions she has committed? do you know the things she has drank to avoid pregnancy in order to deceive people like you?

please forget that thing

Plolly:

what's wrong with them

alphacyborg:

I didn't get you pregnant, stop quoting me plz

Plolly:

no we are not

kense88:
Why did you bother answering that dickhead.

greiboy:
Single moms have issues trusting men because of possible past bitter or unpleasant romantic experience(s)

So patience is the key

Although, we should always learn to differentiate between single moms and career baby mamas like Sophia Momodu

alphacyborg:
Why will I date a single mom or dream of marrying one when their are many good ladies out there with fresh and untouched womb ??

kense88:
Most of them are actually more matured than your regular undergraduate. Depends on what you want though.

Mslovelystar:
why wunt they behave more matured when their immaturity already landed them where they are

Plolly:

cos he needed to be silenced

shaybebaby:

I take it you acquired maturity without any sort of life experience? Do share.

Mslovelystar:
why wunt they behave more matured when their immaturity already landed them where they are

Mslovelystar:
In this case we are talking about single moms and not me. And some people dont have to go through that phase of life to acquire maturity. At times it naturaly comes to them.

kense88:
You actually addressed him like a gentleman. Next time treat him like guttersnipe. That's what he is.

kense88:
Its all about what your getting. Your getting a better version of her, character wise.

Mslovelystar:
why wunt they behave more matured when their immaturity already landed them where they are

shaybebaby:

Do explain what you mean by "phase of life" with respect to single motherhood.

greiboy:
lol

I noticed when I saw the laughing emoji in your comment as I was about to post my previous comment.

Anyways, I noticed that the op didn't point out any possible flaws or difficulty that comes with dating single moms, although I have to say that I have been lucky to meet quite a few nice ones, I didn't date them, but they were quite good friends.

Although, there are a lot of irrational ones like you mentioned in your post

Thats the point, Op made that mistake.You don't come here to sugarcoat things when we know that no one is perfect



How was your day BTW?

RuthDaniels:
Thats the point, Op made that mistake.You don't come here to sugarcoat things when we know that no one is perfect



How was your day BTW?

johnwell:


those are irresponsible men, that is why we have broken marriages everywhere.

Mslovelystar:
you can help me do that with how ever the case applies to your own life
And wow, this comment of mine really got you

shaybebaby:

1.Err.. What you have written isn't unique to single mums. It is common to mothers (whether married or unmarried) as the burden of providing primary care for children often falls on women.

As time is a limited resource, there is only so much you can do to physically care for kids and still find time for a career. Something usually gives and that's the career.

2)For every woman out there going it alone with raising kids physically and financially, there is a deadbeat dad (barring situations when the man late). Relationships end all the time but are we really going to take to task, the person who remains shouldering all responsibilities when two people were involved their creation? Talk about reasoning from the culo!

3) Ever heard the saying "it takes a village to raise a child?" Bear in mind the saying doesn't say a child born to a single parent, it's all children. Support networks are crucial to raising them bubbas, Heck when peeps talk about grandmums going to do omugwo, pray tell how that is different to providing assistance in the case of single parents.

4)Why would any sane man want to come before a child, any child? If the kids were yours biologically, would you still expect to come first? Actually thinking about it, I suppose the answer is yes which explains why men abandon their kids leaving the mothers to raise them alone. Even with their biological kids, THEY (them deadbeat dads) come first. Selfish pricks!

5)Raising kids does not come with a manual, you figure it out as you go along hence every parent, married or unmarried makes mistakes. And kids are forgiving, whilst very perceptive. They figure out whether they are truly loved and accepted or not. So if a step kid hates your guts, it's because they can tell you don't really want them.

6) You peeps will be shouting money money, giver, provide home upandan. Who says only men have a monopoly on acquiring these things? You need to change your social circle because whilst some of your points are applicable in some instances, there are just as many other instances where these single parents have their shit on lock down, raising their kids, providing stability and bringing home juicy bacon all at the same time.

Plolly:
no we are not

greiboy:
lol
Sure
My day is good, yours?

Lol..

Mine was good too, thanks for asking

ipobarecriminals:
some of these single mum are demon from the pit of hell.

Plolly:

I don't insult people anyhow cos I don't know who he is he might be my father's mate

Eddodoh:
Your profile pix though. N u said dat u ain't a demon.
Lolzzz!!!!

shaybebaby:

You are the one suffering verbal diarrhoea, just trying to understand your logic. So far, yous failing woefully.. Probably because there was none to start with.