joshrare:


Weakling..Amature.....
you know what? Quit that relationship and work on yourself coz to me you are the problem here... You are not ripe for dating yet, irrespective of your age n status..
You can't confront her coz you are scared of losing her yet you run to nairaland for advice...

Abeg shift....
Buhari is still the president of Nigeria, that's a big deal

Lexusgs430:


When OP is asking a stupid question, he only deserves equally served answers........

You own a poultry, a mysterious snake is eating all your eggs + killing your chickens. Would you keep replacing the killed chickens?

tintingz:
This is not always true, what if she met someone rich, kind and good looking than this OP?

Don't think reality is like the movies you watch.

antidisestablis:
Hello guys, I hope you are doing good, also i want to appreciate everyone that contributed to my last thread I created last year. https://www.nairaland.com/3803311/dont-trust-anymore

Pls read through the thread .
It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.

To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.

Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.

I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.

My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.

I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all

antidisestablis:

Thanks very much once again my guy, I have made up mind this time to break it off and d only person that might want to stop me is my sis which I respect so much. I have told her everything,she was so shock with all my findings. She has told me to dump her ass without looking back.
The major challenges is that everyone has known her with me, the two families, the Church of God and my place of work. I know I will overcome it.

ednut1:
doesnt make a beta person. Anyone who marries such is destined to be unfortunate na

teemy:
it depends on the way you guys go about the breakup.

Make it a mutual thing and so should your announcement to the public. That way, she would not be shamed and can easily move on to her ex leaving you in peace.

Keep it matured, cheers dear.

Malawian:
Pls i want to ask a question...

Why do women leave evidence of their cheating on their phones?

This stuff is what really baffles me.

isybeke:
My dear dump her cheating ass and move on fast without looking back

ednut1:
Funny thing is those guys no go marry am. She would later see ur marriage pics on FB nd cry

antidisestablis:

My guy, no cheating partner will leave any evidence on their phone. Take for instance my babe never leave any traces on her phone. Being hi-tech guy I was able to get both chat and phone conversation.

dnapstar:
if you want to stay sane, never go through your partner's phone.

antidisestablis:

Thanks dear, she is highly emotional, I just need to do it with wisdom.

antidisestablis:

My guy, no cheating partner will leave any evidence on their phone. Take for instance my babe never leave any traces on her phone. Being hi-tech guy I was able to get both chat and phone conversation.

sexy74:

My guy u Dey laugh abi I for say go back to the street!

sexy74:

My brother gbam, thanks for adding to my knowledge this your two points Na the bomb.

sisisioge:
Me sef told you without mincing words that she was cheating.

I sympathise with you o. We all go into relationships for different reason...there is always a catch. Maybe you were too christianly for her...maybe she likes to mix water with a pint of flavor. Maybe God just love you like kilode, He won't let you choose wrongly.

Pele once again, sheet happens.

happney65:
oloriburuku nii bobo yii sha...oshisko..

happney65:
oloriburuku nii bobo yii sha...oshisko..

OboOlora:
Op. If there’s an award for dullards, u deserve a gold version

sexy74:

My guy u Dey laugh abi I for say go back to the street!

antidisestablis:
Hello guys, I hope you are doing good, also i want to appreciate everyone that contributed to my last thread I created last year. https://www.nairaland.com/3803311/dont-trust-anymore

Pls read through the thread .
It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.

To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.

Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.

I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.

My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.

I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all

antidisestablis:
Updates
Hello guys, I have finally broken up with her and the intro things is canceled. She has been crying and calling my people including my dad and some other people, but I'm resolute in my decision to end things between us.
Thanks everyone.

antidisestablis:
Updates
Hello guys, I have finally broken up with her and the intro things is canceled. She has been crying and calling my people including my dad and some other people, but I'm resolute in my decision to end things between us.
Thanks everyone.

Khayri:



If you love her don't end it because you have no idea if her ex used charms on her that keeps drawing her back, I know many adodun charms like that, anyway Do you still want her back? I will help you separate her from her ex permanently.