I don't know why people see me as someone that has a spiritual problem. I am in my early 30s but not yet married and I don't even have a girlfriend.
It's not like am not comfortable because I have a business with 8 employees and the least of my worker takes home 150k every month.

I do go out with friends and have a good time but when beautiful ladies flock around me I hardly pick interest in any of them. Even my parents are worried because my younger brothers do bring their girlfriends to see my parents but anytime I visit them they have never seen me with a woman.

So many ladies I meet are just too eager to get married and I just loose interest I don't know why.

Do you guys think I have a problem?

Yes

It seems you hàve one

Bros you dont have any problem, but rather you are looking for perfect. I think you show yourself too much that's why these ladies see you as a money bag, even on this thread, you just bragged about yourself and your company.

Be humble So that you will find someone who will like you for who you really are and not what you have.

Cutehector:
Bros you dont have any problem, but rather you are looking for perfect. I think you show yourself too much that's why these ladies see you as a money bag, even on this thread, you just bragged about yourself and your company.

Be humble So that you will find someone who will like you for who you really are and not what you have.

Actually you might be right. I just opened up here because in real life trust me you will never know I make money because am not materialistic at all.

I actually do humble myself and that's why ladies always want to hang out around me but I just don't get to have feelings for any I don't know why.

NeekeyMarvey:


Actually you might be right. I just opened up here because in real life trust me you will never know I make money because am not materialistic at all.

I actually do humble myself and that's why ladies always want to hang out around me but I just don't get to have feelings for any I don't know why.

well then I guess you arent a feelings kind of person. Why not look out for ladies who just understand you completely, in that way, the likeness you have will build up. If she knows what makes you angry, she tries to avoid it, or she knows what you like, knows what you can do or cannot do, all those things. Look for that kind of woman, then the love will build up

Cutehector:
well then I guess you arent a feelings kind of person. Why not look out for ladies who just understand you completely, in that way, the likeness you have will build up. If she knows what makes you angry, she tries to avoid it, or she knows what you like, knows what you can do or cannot do, all those things. Look for that kind of woman, then the love will build up

Nice one bro. I love your matured approach to my question. Thanks alot

Perhaps the desperation in those ladies that flock around you makes you want them less

Perhaps you haven't find the ladies that will tickle your fancy

Perhaps you don't feel that much pressure to settle down because you are getting most of the things you will get in marriage or a committed relationship already


Whatever the reason, i doubt it's spiritual

But then again, this is Nigeria where anything is possible

So don't rule it out

NeekeyMarvey:


Nice one bro. I love your matured approach to my question. Thanks alot

you welcome Boss.

You don't have a problem,you just taking your time. I think it's the marriage stuff that's making you lose interest in them.
I think it's a turn off for you.
I like guys that are not driven by what they see.

NeekeyMarvey:
I don't know why people see me as someone that has a spiritual problem. I am in my early 30s but not yet married and I don't even have a girlfriend.
It's not like am not comfortable because I have a business with 8 employees and the least of my worker takes home 150k every month.

I do go out with friends and have a good time but when beautiful ladies flock around me I hardly pick interest in any of them. Even my parents are worried because my younger brothers do bring their girlfriends to see my parents but anytime I visit them they have never seen me with a woman.

So many ladies I meet are just too eager to get married and I just loose interest I don't know why.

Do you guys think I have a problem?

Your story reeks of lies.

samuelson06:


Your story reeks of lies.

Thanks.

Preshy561:
You don't have a problem,you just taking your time.
I think it's the marriage stuff that's making you lose interest in them.

I think it's a turn off for you.

I like guys that are not driven by what they see.

Nice one.

NeekeyMarvey:
I don't know why people see me as someone that has a spiritual problem. I am in my early 30s but not yet married and I don't even have a girlfriend.
It's not like am not comfortable because I have a business with 8 employees and the least of my worker takes home 150k every month.

I do go out with friends and have a good time but when beautiful ladies flock around me I hardly pick interest in any of them. Even my parents are worried because my younger brothers do bring their girlfriends to see my parents but anytime I visit them they have never seen me with a woman.

So many ladies I meet are just too eager to get married and I just loose interest I don't know why.

Do you guys think I have a problem?

Is your middle name GAYbriel, cos if i were your parents, i would also be worried

Apina:

Is your middle name GAYbriel, cos if i were your parents, i would also be worried

Lol... You sure no well

OP, to truly diagnose you, I have one question to ask.

Do you get aroused whenever you see a Bobrisky picture on the inernet?



If no, then you don't have a problem. All you need is 3 bottles of beer & 1 Pekas olosho tdb.

If yes, your village people have swapped your destiny for half plot of virgin land around Mowe/Ofada.

ShyCypher:
OP, to truly diagnose you, I have one question to ask.

Do you get aroused whenever you see a Bobrisky picture on the inernet?



If no, then you don't have a problem. All you need is 3 bottles of beer & 1 Pekas olosho tdb.

If yes, your village people have swapped your destinyfor half plot of virgin land around Mowe/Ofada.

Hahahahaha... Bob what??
Is that the name of a new breed of dog.

NeekeyMarvey:
I don't know why people see me as someone that has a spiritual problem. I am in my early 30s but not yet married and I don't even have a girlfriend.
It's not like am not comfortable because I have a business with 8 employees and the least of my worker takes home 150k every month.

I do go out with friends and have a good time but when beautiful ladies flock around me I hardly pick interest in any of them. Even my parents are worried because my younger brothers do bring their girlfriends to see my parents but anytime I visit them they have never seen me with a woman.

So many ladies I meet are just too eager to get married and I just loose interest I don't know why.

Do you guys think I have a problem?

Absolutely!
You have got attitude problem/Ego Issues. Lay low, dude!

u dnt have any problem oo.U are simply a shy type.Grow some balls and approach a lady.Cast ouy dat fear of rejection. Act quick b4 ur parents com dey drag u from one Alfa to Pasto an Alawo(those ones nor com scam u join)

UyaiIncomparabl:


Absolutely!
You have got attitude problem/Ego Issues. Lay low, dude!

Hmmmm.... I will keep this in mind ok

ipobarecriminals:
u dnt have any problem oo.U are simply a shy type.Grow some balls and approach a lady.Cast ouy dat fear of rejection. Act quick b4 ur parents com dey drag u from one Alfa to Pasto an Alawo(those ones nor com scam u join)

Ok noted bro

NeekeyMarvey:
I don't know why people see me as someone that has a spiritual problem. I am in my early 30s but not yet married and I don't even have a girlfriend.
It's not like am not comfortable because I have a business with 8 employees and the least of my worker takes home 150k every month.

I do go out with friends and have a good time but when beautiful ladies flock around me I hardly pick interest in any of them. Even my parents are worried because my younger brothers do bring their girlfriends to see my parents but anytime I visit them they have never seen me with a woman.

So many ladies I meet are just too eager to get married and I just loose interest I don't know why.

Do you guys think I have a problem?

You have no problem brother. You are also not alone. It gets to a point when getting into a relationship or getting married looks like a distraction. Especially when these girls (who have nothing more to offer other than good looks) think too highly of themselves.

Nobody has time to be saying sorry to one small girl with daddy issues. When you decide to get married, pick someone who adds value to your business.

Edit: Go for someone who has handled money on a serious level not some needy clingy lady that commands no respect at work.

Also, this goes without saying: no jobless babes please. Only those who earn well. And I don't mean those ones selling weaves and cream on instagram.

Brugo:


You have no problem brother. You are also not alone. It gets to a point when getting into a relationship or getting married looks like a distraction. Especially when these girls (who have nothing more to offer other than good looks) think too highly of themselves.

Nobody has time to be saying sorry to one small girl with daddy issues. When you decide to get married, pick someone who adds value to your business.

On point bro... Thanks for that

NeekeyMarvey:


On point bro... Thanks for that

You're welcome brother

Op there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Don't seek people's validation on the internet. It's a blue pill thing. Just enjoy and take life as it is. You could consider getting a surrogate to give you children. Relationships and the senior brother marriage are heavily overexxagerated.

Move closer to God Uncle... One of my old friend was once in your shoes... Thank God for his mercy,he got married @40

NeekeyMarvey:


Hmmmm.... I will keep this in mind ok

May God help you in your wishes.

story for the gods,

Cutehector:
Bros you dont have any problem, but rather you are looking for perfect. I think you show yourself too much that's why these ladies see you as a money bag, even on this thread, you just bragged about yourself and your company.

Be humble So that you will find someone who will like you for who you really are and not what you have.

if he didn't explain his issue fully u will say he didn't say it all that something is missing , now u feel he's bragging because his intention is for u to understand him fully and u tag him bragging? truly notin u can do to satisfy humans especially nigerians

tensazangetsu20:
Op there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Don't seek people's validation on the internet. It's a blue pill thing. Just enjoy and take life as it is. You could consider getting a surrogate to give you children. Relationships and the senior brother marriage are heavily overexxagerated.

exactly bro u no lie ...

NeekeyMarvey:

On point bro... Thanks for that

bros, i greet u