Lalas247 don't you like good food? It can be pricey yunno

Nice one..accolades

DonPiiko:
Lalas247 don't you like good food? It can be pricey yunno

Yes the key to mi heart ...
What’s the issue ... the guy decided to teach the lazy girl a lesson ..
Well you know me I am in full support ... yh is she ordering all sorts with zero balance is he her dad? Mtcheew

Ladies should learn to be independent so guys don’t disgrace them this way .. it’s so sad ..... can’t even feed themselves before the guy pay I don already bring out my card like nigga don’t get it twisted.

If a man takes you out on a date and he asks you to order please make sure you go for the cheapest menu even if you desire the most expensive one.

Let him be the one to tell you to go for more...trust me,you will earn his respect.

Saintmary:

Things have changed, we can no longer apply ancient methods to things nowadays, what worked in those days no longer works when it comes to dating and relationships. Honesty is very paramount if you want to keep anyone. You don't know what the guy said to the lady, yet you're saying she goofed.

I guess u lack the ability to comprehend what the op has written or u have just taken it upon urself to support foolishness and stupidity.

Hanseel1:


.........
what was he thinking when he took out an hungry broke girl for a date?

You can't be too sure she is hungry until you take her out. Some girls should learn to use their head especially if the guy is ordering first.
A smart girl will guess the guys budget from his own order.

Dottore:

Your papa dey lie. Anuofia

Mr man your story was concocted bunch of lies, abeg shift

sexdoll:


Why are you wasting your precious time talking some sense to that leech?

Leave her, let her continue in her folly.

Who knows she might eventually end up being used as a sacrifice by one yahoo plus guy.

I only pity the idiotic and coward men who continue to fuel her useless ego and making her think her useless pussy is worth a dime.

Somebody that cannot buy ordinary 1500 mtn recharge card for herself wants a man who is working hard for himself to buy 15,000 naira worth of food for her at a go!

Onye nzuzu.

No she won't end up being used for rituals. Sense shall fall on her and she will grow up. A very small number are borrn wise most of us are born foolish and a small number of that number learn wisdom. We all could be wiser somewhere.

I hope she learns a few things here

1. ALWAYS carry money on a date and
2.be PREPARED to pay for what you eat ( think about what is in your purse when placing orders) and your transport back home, for dignity and security

Any woman who does not do these is the one that is "cheap"

Lalas247:

Yes the key to mi heart ...
What’s the issue ... the guy decided to teach the lazy girl a lesson ..
Well you know me I am in full support ... yh is she ordering all sorts with zero balance is he her dad? Mtcheew

Ladies should learn to be independent so guys don’t disgrace them this way .. it’s so sad ..... can’t even feed themselves before the guy pay I don already bring out my card like nigga don’t get it twisted.

One thing I find difficult is allowing a lady to share bills with me as they do in U.K.

I believe it is not an ideal thing even when it's a norm in some part of the world...but the lady must be sensible enough to order for what the guy can afford...just ask the guy if he is ok with your choice before making the order...my opinion tho...

As the president of the federal ministry of comment readers association (FMCRA) all i can say to guys is that they should know the type of lady they take out on dates..We always advice guys to date mature ladies that has self control..my babe always lemme know that she does not need my money,infact it has now turned to a competion between us that any time we go on dates its always first person to pay for both meals ordered..So guys? when you are with a lady,you will know if she is there only for the money or she loves you for who you are or even both..

aribisala0:

No she won't end up being used for rituals. Sense shall fall on her and she will grow up. A very small number are borrn wise most of us are born foolish and a small number of that number learn wisdom. We all could be wiser somewhere.

I hope she learns a few things here

1. ALWAYS carry money on a date and
2.be PREPARED to pay for what you eat ( think about what is in your purse when placing orders) and your transport back home, for dignity and security

Any woman who does not do these is the one that is "cheap"

3. Don't be a glutton.
4. Don't show the man you're with how HUNGRY you are.

Hanseel1:


guy 3450....lady 11800k

are you normal?

That's almost X3 of the guys meal. Could it be last supper?

All this girls shouting broke as boys up and down. I shake my head for you. That was how one was shouting and abusing Guys on fb of being broke and all sort of things. I jejely went and dug out her previous post where she was begging for money and any little job to do to keep body and soul together and forwarded all evidence of her brokenness to her. Since then she stopped being a nuisance on fb.

Please our generation ladies should take it easy with that word "broke guy".

Toks2008:


One thing I find difficult is allowing a lady to share bills with me as they do in U.K.

I believe it is not an ideal thing even when it's a norm in some part of the world...but the lady must be sensible enough to order for what the guy can afford...just ask the guy if he is ok with your choice before making the order...my opinion tho...

But when you look into it .. we have less guys bashing females here over money why? Cause they know we can if we want and it’s a choice

I agree if she has no money .. any respectful lady won’t even want to order much so she is not seen as taking the piss ...
But guess back home is different


My own is my purse will be on the table if the guy insist to pay I most like will agree but my dear .. I must pay for something even if it’s petrol for the car or maybe buy a bottle of drink ... that’s how u build a relationship .. it’s give and take and lots of compromises which we practice in the Uk ... don’t get me wrong we have cheap girls here too but they will let u know what the deal is from start .

But I get your point if you are a man and happy to pay without complaining , moaning and later using it abuse her then kudos ..

rubyjan:

You must be stupid to quote me without being able to comprehend and /or differentiate between an original post and peoples comments

Ogun kill u dere

FannySwindler1:
My dates pay for our meals except I decline and I insist on paying. No lies..fortunately they are not hungry Nigerians. Sometimes it's like a competition, when we both insist on paying for each other. Unlike a similar experience where I invited a Nigerian lady for day out first time meeting me, while she was in UK on visiting, she claimed she was out for her clothing shopping before going back to Nigeria. After buying her food, I accompanied her to shopping malls, she picked clothes for herself, friend and siblings. When we got to the payment section, she was standing with no intention to pay, not even reaching for her bag. No prior arrangement of me paying. I gladly paid the £236 bill. Not still satisfied, she went into other stores but couldn't find what she wanted. While seeing her off she still had the guts to ask me for money. That pissed me off and not the initial payment. What kind of lady does that? Now she claims she is into me and wants a relationship. I had to write her off. Poverty mentality.

You paid over 200 pounds for a dead, poverty stricken broad.

Guy you either have too much money or you have no sense... but I'll go with the former

See, these people don't deserve this treatment.

I was once like you, paying, forming Mr nice guy, Mr gentleman all that stuff is a lie.

I know you know there are a million people out there who deserve that cash, but for you to take 236 pounds and give the first homeless man you meet go hard you.

See your money is yours, if you don't give them all they would do is shout this guy is stingy, he can't spend on his woman etc. At least you are 200 pounds richer, and you can give that money to someone who actually cares.

As a lady. I always carry my ATM nd some money anytime am going on a date. Nd I don't order anything higher than wat the guy orders. It's a date not a business venture.

Saintmary:
That's a glutton. But guys, tell them before the date not to over-order. Some of you tell the lady to order anything she wants, leading her into a trap and then complain about it later or hang her out to dry. If you know it's not in your budget, be plain about it.

That's why we are higher animals. Use your brain if given that privilege. Don't auto turn yourself to borehole driller cos you were given a blank cheque to make an order.

Where are the feminists?

nahzyla:



Mr man your story was concocted bunch of lies, abeg shift

I don't owe u or anyone any burden of proof. Mkpi

nahzyla:


No need for your plenty analysis abeg, the story is a lie. Twitter peep will fabricate anything to gain followers and trend.

What kind of restaurant serves dishes of 3,800 and eleven thousand? The price range is not even close. If it was a high end restaurant the guy's bill will not be so low. If it was a cheap eatary it wouldn't make sense for one dish to cost up to eleven thousand. What was she ordering? Three dishes at the same time abu wetin?

I sorry for girls coming to support guys on this thread. Its better you ignore threads like this because if their fellow man did stupid shi..t like this to a woman they will still gang up to praise him and bash the woman.

Haba Guy, meals range from different prices. He could have ordered a meal of 3k and a drink, the babe could have ordered some kind of fish platter, which is usually around 7 or 8k, a cocktail, extra 1.5k to 2.5k and a desert for another 2k, bringing the meal to around the price.

There are restaurants that have meals from 3k to 10k depending on the source of protein. Eg (you can't compare the price of chicken to that of shrimp or lobster)

Common sense 101!

Hanseel1:
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he's now childish because he conserved his hard earned money in a wise way...

ladies stop ordering what you can't pay for

Thank you!

Ellabae:
As a lady. I always carry my ATM nd some money anytime am going on a date. Nd I don't order anything higher than wat the guy orders. It's a date not a business venture.

9gerian:
Thank you!

U re welcome

Ninetiethcrown7. I quite understand you. The reason I took her out for a meal and paid was to give her a nice UK experience probably she would save her own funds for use when she returns to Nigeria. I know things are hard over there. I wasn't trying to impress or be Mr nice. She was just shallow in reasoning.

pocohantas:
He did well.
How can a broke lady eat almost N12000 at a sitting? N6000 less than minimum wage? Haba!!!

LMAO, I weak... You must be an economist...

There's nothing like an independent lady that has her own money, it's very attractive. I respect them more but we are used to the system of paying for everything the female wants. I will usually foot the bills 100% including tipping you, but I will gauge you to know if you are a hungry chic, most females I know are hungry but I blame myself for attracting the wrong kind of persons. I remember when 1 chic fell my hand in an eatery, she took me and my goons out and when it was time to pay she said it was a joke and she didn't mean to pay, we had to do emergency fundraiser to clear our bills.

Lalas247:

Yes the key to mi heart ...
What’s the issue ... the guy decided to teach the lazy girl a lesson ..
Well you know me I am in full support ... yh is she ordering all sorts with zero balance is he her dad? Mtcheew

Ladies should learn to be independent so guys don’t disgrace them this way .. it’s so sad ..... can’t even feed themselves before the guy pay I don already bring out my card like nigga don’t get it twisted.

Toks2008:
If a man takes you out on a date and he asks you to order please make sure you go for the cheapest menu even if you desire the most expensive one.

Let him be the one to tell you to go for more...trust me,you will earn his respect.

It's a very simple mindtrick that so many of them will never learn.

They will just display their 'long throat' characteristics which will only make the guys see them as highly disgusting as a first impression.

Frankdamaxx:


How can you write all this without punctuation? Jeez..

na her type them dey talk about, beauty no brain, na only make up them sabi and na ajegunle dem dey live o but yhem go dey form lekki babe, proverty with pride

you black men are complaining too much.....women are learning more and more to dont depend on men no more......

i dont think you black men will be happy with what is coming....

when quarrel start women will not be understanding like our grandmothers no more....they will show una the middle finger quick....

keep on disrespecting them....

solasoulmusic:
he is wooing her he invited her me I’ve settled for shawarma before na you go know your own budget choose the restaurant that fits it and be honest on your limit you Dey form bill gates

learn to use punctuation in ur with up for easy reading, stop writing like the girl in the story

Youwin:
Guy 3450 Lady 11800

na bride price money the babe chop so ooo