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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youcanmakeit: 10:22pm On May 07, 2018 |
joeeee240: HARDDON.. I don't no if I should blame you for what this guy (joeeeee240) wrote up there. You've really spoil these guys by giving them lot of fish(drills) instead simply teaching them "how to fish ".. The post you wrote up there about building your (emotional) muscle by taking baby action until you can be able take giant action is the best post I've seen so far from you and from anybody posting here. Because it's about 'learning how to fish' But, the joeeee240 guy and some other guys would not appreciate it. They prefer you keep feeding them with more fish, drills, trick. It's no surprise some guys here will never be good with girls. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by joeeee240(m): 10:44pm On May 07, 2018 |
youcanmakeit: FOR YOUR INFORMATION, HARDDON TAUGHT ME ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!! BUILDING EMOTIONAL MUSCLE AND ALL THAT CRAP IS NOT ENOUGH. IT'S THE REASON WHY 95% OF NATURALS ARE POOR WITH BLOCKING GIRLS ON THE STREETS. NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR SO CALLED EMOTIONAL MUSCLE IS, YOU NEED TRICKS AND SKILLS |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:10pm On May 07, 2018 |
youcanmakeit: The master plan spiralled on me mehn and here we are. This thread was to brush the blunt edges and our BLOG had the sole responsibility of going into the nitty-gritty( bottoms up). But I give kudos to the smart ones who have been extrapolating the skills in here and brewing fine wine with same. The blog is live now and I encourage everyone to Check it out! https://datingdrill.com 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youcanmakeit: 11:41pm On May 07, 2018 |
joeeee240: Lolz.. I don't know your own definition for 'Naturals' but one thing I know about myself and guys who are good with chicks is that: You don't need tricks and drills to approach ( or as you said BLOCK) girls on the streets. What you need is BALLS. When I say balls, I mean CONFIDENCE.. Once you have huge balls, you will never need drills, or tricks ever again. I think Horddon is not a fool, he's actually a smart guy. He knows if you're totally Dependant on drills, you can never be good with girls. And that's the reason he's giving you fish(drills) to get started if you are a novice while simultaneously teaching you to fish. But you joeeee240 and others like are just 'dickheads', you don't wanna appreciate the fact that he 'teaching you how to fish'. You want him to keep giving you fish in your mouth. #lazy youth And guess what; BALLS/CONFIDENCE = Strong Emotional muscle. And that is what Horddon is talking a about when he say you should take baby actions, so you can build you balls gradually.. Women love a guy with huge Balls/confidence NOT a guy that knows lot of drills and tricks. 5 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DCONE1(m): 1:39am On May 08, 2018 |
Interest ing |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by joeeee240(m): 7:35am On May 08, 2018 |
youcanmakeit: YOU ARE NOT A NATURAL OBVIOUSLY. ALSO YOU SOUND LIKE A LEVEL 1 INTERMMEDIATE OR A LEVEL 3 BEGINNER. BALLS AND CONFIDENCE CAN HELP YOU ONLY AS MUCH AS THE APPROACH. YOU'LL JUST BE APPROACHING BLINDLY. I'M ALSO CERTAIN THAT YOU DON'T BLOCK GIRLS CUZ BLOCKING HAS DIFFERENT SCENARIOS WITH DIFFERENT METHODS. AND FOR YOUR INFO. TEACHING TECHNIQUES AND TRICKS IS PART OF TEACHING SOMEONE "HOW TO FISH". WHAT'S WITH THE MUSCLE IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO THROW A PUNCH. WHAT'S WITH A MUSCLE WHEN YOU CAN'T BLOCK A PUNCH. BELIEVE Y'ALL HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO CUZ IT'S OBVIOUS Y'ALL DEAL WITH 5 6 AND 7S. AS FOR HIGH 8 9 AND 10, NONE OF WHAT YOU'RE SAYING WILL WORK 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youcanmakeit: 1:15pm On May 08, 2018 |
joeeee240: Honestly, I don't understand what you mean by Naturals , level 1 intermediate, level 3 beginner.. I don't even know what you mean by : 5 6 and 7s 8 9 and 10.. what up with the those terms and numbers You said "OF TEACHING SOMEONE "HOW TO FISH". WHAT'S WITH THE MUSCLE IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO THROW A PUNCH. WHAT'S WITH A MUSCLE WHEN YOU CAN'T BLOCK A PUNCH." Physically, a guy with huge muscle does not NEED to learn how to block a punch or throw a Punch.. He can decide to learn but he does necessarily needs it. If you throw a Punch at him, his strong muscular body will naturally neutralize the effect of the Punch. So learning to Dodge/block Punch is useless to him. And he does not need to learn tricks, tactics on how to throw a Punch because just one random punch from him can kill you instantly or leave you unconscious. Same with your Emotional Muscle. Emotionally, a guy with huge confidence does not NEED to learn how to block any emotional or hard to get altitude-punch a girl throws at him. He can decide to learn but he does necessarily need it. If she throws a Punch at him, his "strong muscular mindset" will naturally neutralize the effect of the Punch. Strong muscular mind = I don't give a Bleep altitude So learning to Dodge/block Punch is useless to him. And he does not need to learn tricks, drills on how to throw a Punch (I.e woo a girl) because just one random punch from him can kill you instantly or leave you unconscious( i.e make the girl falls for him). And that's the good work the Op, horddon is doing here. He's giving you some dating drills and at same time, teaching you "how to fish". Be Appreciative. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by joeeee240(m): 1:25pm On May 08, 2018 |
youcanmakeit: YOUR POST IS IGNORANT. THERE ARE PROPER PUNCHES. YOI CAN'T JUST BE RANDOM WITH YOUR PUNCH. THERE ARE TECHNIQUES TO A GOOD PUNCH WHICH ALL THAT MUSCLE WONT GIVE YOU. EVEN IF SOMEONE FALLS FROM A RANDOM PUNCH FROM A GUY WHO IS ONLY ALL MUSCLE, IT DOESN'T SHOW HIS GAME IS INTACT. IT ONLY SHOWS HIS OPPONENT IS VERY WEAK. IT'S LIKE FOOL'S MATE IN CHESS. YOU HAVE FINALLY PROVEN MY POINT CUZ THIS METHOD WILL ONLY WORK ON NOT SO FINE UGLY AND INSECURE GIRLS. YOU MUST LEARN THE TECHNIQUES. YOU JUST SOUND INEXPERIENCED. ABOUT THE NUMBERS THERE ARE BEGINNERS INTERMMEDIATE AND ADVANCED. EACH CATEGORY HAS LEVELS 1 2 3 IN INCREASIN ORDER. YOU ARE EITHER BEGINNER 3 OR INTERMMEDIATE LEVEL 1. WHEN IT COMES TO GIRLS, GIRLS ARE RANKED FROM 0-10 0 BEING THE UGLIEST AND TEN THE HOTTEST. YOU ARE ONLY GOOD WITH 5 6 AND 7 GIRLS. ALL THESE YOUR QUESTIONS AND STATEMENTS SHOW YOU KNOW NOTHING . PS I'M NOT A FAN OF HIS SUBSTANDARD WORK 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youcanmakeit: 2:25pm On May 08, 2018 |
joeeee240: Then what are you doing here and why are you telling him to explain more on drills on how to block women on street , you hypocritical rat.. In as much as I don't need the Op tips because I'm already OK with girls, But out of curiosity I always find myself here. I respect the fact that he's helping inexperience guys over here. If you don't like the good work the Op is doing here, you can get lost. Nobody is forcing you to stay. Most people here appreciate it, and they are learning from it everyday. .. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by joeeee240(m): 3:20pm On May 08, 2018 |
youcanmakeit: I'M GLAD YOU SAID YOU'RE OK CUZ THAT'S JUST WHAT YOU ARE, SIMPLY OK. SO NEXT TIME DON'T COME SPILLING TRASH YOU DON'T KNOW QUARTER OF |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by youcanmakeit: 3:29pm On May 08, 2018 |
joeeee240:Yea bro, I'm absolutely OK with women.. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by adamsbadoo(m): 4:06pm On May 08, 2018 |
wehdone ooo my people.. there is this girl i met last year december. i collected her digit and called her that night. i do call her like twice a day for straight 2 weeks wooing her and she only called me once during that period. she told me she has a bf buh i didn't oblige. after 1month and some days i stopped calling.... before i stumbled on this thread and i realise i got no ball .. it's more than 2months since i stopped calling ... so, 2 days ago I called her With my 2 line and i told her i am one of her bf she has been drooling about that am dissappointed she couldn't recognise my voice and hung up.. she has been calling me buh i no gree pick.. i wanna date this girl. plz HOW do i keep the tension going? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:16pm On May 08, 2018 |
adamsbadoo: hahaha! You just jump on the thread, pick one line and boOOOMM! you went to explore with it huh? Now you are stuck, you run back for more flows ? Here is the only advice I would give to you: go back to the beginning and pick wisdom off the pages. Your answer lies in there 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by adamsbadoo(m): 4:50pm On May 08, 2018 |
HARDDON: OK boss, i will try |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:05pm On May 08, 2018 |
adamsbadoo: Positive vibes from you. Hence I would give a lil light while you are reading. You have punished her enough. You have to pick her call at some point. But if you cant hold a fluid fun suspense filled convo that is challenging with a sendless voice and attitude, send messages instead. Whatever you do, never reveal who you are to her, she would find that out when you guys get to meet after you have broken all her defenses 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by adamsbadoo(m): 6:37pm On May 08, 2018 |
HARDDON:Thanks bro. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by summerflame(m): 6:44pm On May 08, 2018 |
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:30pm On May 08, 2018 |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:48pm On May 08, 2018 |
HARDDON: Boss Ballz! 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:25pm On May 08, 2018 |
WFKruger: This is coming really late because I was on sabbatical. And what DA heck of fun you guys had without me! Now I'm the one doing catch-up. To your question: Yes you can. Generally, people would advise you to make sure you discuss it with her @ the very beginning if she would be cool with it. But in reality, it has a lot of challenges. Since love is involved, you guys would spend alone time together which would lead to touching, smooching, kissing and if you have no self control, you guys would do the DO before you realise it. Even if you can control yourself, she might not be able to and when you leave a gurl with wet pants, be rest assured some predator out there would help you weed the wet fallow forest. And this is always the beginning of two timing from her if she really digs you. But if she doesn't dig you, she would naturally grow cold feets with you because she's ghehin it hit somewhere else. My Advise? It is pointless going into a relationship. Just make friends generally. Sense Pill: An unsatisfied gf is a time bomb waiting to blow! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by YomiTee123(m): 8:09am On May 09, 2018 |
you deserve some accolades HARDDON: 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 8:21pm On May 09, 2018 |
HARDDON:haha Dude picked a witty line Haddy help the niggga Someone cannot play with yo |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:59pm On May 09, 2018 |
2dice01: Guys' play? Nah, I prefer that of soft dolls |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Newbielearner(m): 8:32pm On May 10, 2018 |
HARDDON: Good to have you back bro. I have two questions : How can aman stop some ladies from being attracted to himself? I approached some, went out with them, and later found out some were just beautiful, bold and rich, but not quite my taste (they just want that thing and I don't wanna have it with someone I don't plan on having a home with). The more I avoid them the more I get their messages. And this is really becoming tough to deal with. Secondly, when I eventually find that taste, they now start playing hard to get. Pulling those tricks you mentioned that ladies would pull. Do I have to now turn to a bad boy? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:14pm On May 10, 2018 |
Newbielearner: Yea, feels sleek to be back. To your question, we've stated it in clear terms: Sense Pill 126: sendless attracts while being all over them repels. So from the above pill, what do you think I should do to get rid of a gurl I don't fance? On a second thought though, why would you want do that? I'd rather friendzone them and use them as target practice. Hone some new skills( learn from ladies Gee: they always fzone guys they derive benefits from but they don't fancy emotionally. Do same) However, if you must, you can either do everything opposite all you have learnt here or apply distance and ghost mode. Second question; I don't quite get you. Rephrase. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:34pm On May 10, 2018 |
HANDLING LUV & BALLS I must reiterate this: With men, the L word comes like a drop of water in the desert. While average guys sing it like chorus in a radio station. we all know which envirom values it more. Love is an action word. However, average guys and all psuedo relationship experts would always advise you to Always tell her how you feel. And when you guys have started dating, that you should always sing it like a song to her every morning and night! Arrrhhhh gross! Simply yucks! I come with a different light: Yea, I know ladies love to hear sweet words. They are usually easily swayed by them. NOT JUST THIS ONE. By telling her you love her everytime, you kill the spark! Singing love everytime kills the attraction, fun, challenge and vibe. For real men, a look, touch, kiss, hug, surprise gift, surprise vacation ticket, sing her a song, write her a peom, suprise dinner/breakfast in bed, surprise spank etc are much more effective ways of saying I luv you instead of turning a luv choir master. And when you do whisper it into her ears( very rarely) some day, after giving her a knees-weakining surprise pack, she would get hung on you so dear! Notice how I kept using the word "SURPRISE"? Go figure 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:58pm On May 10, 2018 |
HANDLING LUV & BALLS Sense Pill 127: A man who is scared of war would never experience the thrills of Make-up Fun Heat! And his portion is the fzone. Sense Pill 128: Break up and Make up opens the eyes of Love to new dreams and dimensions. Sense Pill 129: Love couples chaos; like minds must always repel. Sense Pill 130: He is not worth his balls who cannot tear down the nest and rebuild same with more fun and flexibility anchored a a rugged rigidity 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:17pm On May 10, 2018 |
HANDLING LUV & BALLS Sense Pill 127: A man who is scared of war would never experience the thrills of Make-up Fun Heat! And his portion is the fzone. A man must be sleek enough to throw fun jabs, strong enough to have war of words with his woman. Usually, I'd walk away. But there are times love dictates you got to have heated arguments. Bring down the roof if you so suit. But however you decides to do it, be calculated enough to know that the anger should be skin deep. Just your voice and facial expression. Inside, you should be laughing and excited. Generate heat. Create rows. Push her to the edge. Let her spill. You can never truly know a woman until she is angry. Do this most especially if you plan on settling down with her. Be difficult sometimes. Ouch! Let the fights begin! But if you notice she's getting off rail, walk away. Let this kul for a day or two. Real ones, loyal ones would call to apologise even if you are the one at fault. We do this to achieve 3 things: 1. The thrills from the heat of make-up humping And 2. To truly know who is really hiding behind the kul mask she is wearing. 3. To let her know that even though we like peace, we ain't scared of war! Place em exactly where they belong While at it, 1. you must avoid abusive words. Counter any point she raises with other kul ones. Pick her words out and blast her with it( they hate that) 2. Notice her anger level, restraint level, note her words and her reaction generally. These should inform you more about her kind of person. Whether or not you would luv that kinda energy around you 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:51pm On May 10, 2018 |
Finally, it's here! The most anticipated, most talked about, long-awaited, life-impacting, life-transforming, balls inducing, brain reformatting, men's liberating mother of all blogs! DATING DRILL'S BLOG IS LIVE! Hurry now and visit https://datingdrill.com/ To Do within DD Blog 1.Allow our push notification( this would enable you to be first to get our drills as they drop hot and heavy) 2. Sign up by providing your email and names( We would be organizing loads of Balls competitions/challenge and dishing out lots of prizes and freebies that only our registered members are eligible for. We also respond first and promptly to our registered members' questions/queries before any other) 3. Go through our Glossary. It is your helpline to our ballful verbiage. VERY IMPORTANT 4. Read the posts in a chronological order because they are like building blocks. Don't break the sequence so that you can gain maximumly off the drills. 5. At the end of every post, we have Ball Tasks(BT; refer to the glossary to know what they mean). You must carry out each and every BT. They help you practicalize what you have learnt. 6. Always use our balls' comment box at the end of every post to ask questions, make general comments, give improvement recommendations/suggestions, participate in our balls' competitions and interact with me personally. I would always respond promptly. 7. There are two balling levels; the Rookie Readers' Ranch( RRR) and the Executive Members' Lounge(EML). RRR is always visible and open to everybody but EML is private and only accessible and visible to a privileged few( in here, very few words are used. rather they have unreserved access to loads of my top private stuff. My Magic Wand. Find out) 8. Finally, I cannot overemphasize the importance of practice. Remeber, I would always say; A seasoned sniper-hunter is frigid with his weapon. He takes out target no matter how far with cold precision but to get to that peek of perfection, one thing is most needed; PRACTICE. HE would miss great kills while at it but if he keeps his head down and never gets discouraged, the experience would be his lifelong anchor. So what are you waiting for? hurry now and visit Dating Drill's Blog! https://datingdrill.com/ 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by FreshGuy2(m): 9:08pm On May 11, 2018 |
HARDDON:HARDDON I greet you... How do I get a particular girl that has been proving stubborn to come to my house?, she only came once and left immediately because it was getting late and that was it.. She gives me one or two excuses any time I ask her to visit me. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:44pm On May 11, 2018 |
FreshGuy2: You obviously haven't read the thread. If you have you would have noticed how I have been sound two things very clearly! : 1. NEVER ASK A LADY OUT 2. WITH LADIES, THE WAY FORWARD IS THE WAY BACKWARDS: FOR THE MORE YOU TRY TO GO STRAIGHT UP AND FORWARD WITH THEM, THE MORE YOU OOZE NEEDINESS AND DRIVE THEM OFF! Never be despirate( SENDLESS ) with Ladies! Of all the beautiful places to hang out and still have her why your place? Your place is a Red flag for any lady you haven't broken all her defenses. And I'm very much sure there is more you didn't tell us about her first coming. Hear this; whenever you tell her to come to your place, the meaning she reads into it is : he wants to BED me! because she is well experienced going to guys or have read lota stories that touches the heart about other ladies who went visiting.... Arrrhhhh! Be a boss not a jrod toy boy. I did treat meeting ladies to a very high degree. Do yourself some good and read that section. While at it, visit dating drill's blog and learn the robe from scratch. https://datingdrill.com 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:54am On May 12, 2018 |
Sense Pill 128: You can't have the machinery to mine gold and be digging for clay! 1 Like 5 Shares |
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