bilulu:
Please house I want to ask is there a certain amount of cash you need to have before planning to settle down? for instance one need to have up-to 500k in his account before thinking of settling down. please I need you input.

Enice:
you don't need any particular amount. All you need is a good job or some business/investment that can provides a stable income.

pedrilo:
i pay utilities n tfare but very very small amount. But I live like a student, no frivolous spending or carrying women n giving dem tfare. I live like I will enjoy later.

Peterosky:
My dear,all you need is to make sure you do your wedding according to your financial ability. 500k can give you a good wedding as long as you do not want it to be like Mr A,B,C's wedding. I have attended a wedding where by my calculation, was less than 200k and it was successful,and the family is a happy one till date.I will advise you to give more consideration to the marriage than wedding. Have a wonderful marriage life ahead when you finally take the bold step.

odimbannamdi:


Hello sir

By "maximum insured deposits" being 500k, does that imply that the maximum amount a bank will repay you in the event of a loss of your savings which isn't your fault is 500k?

Kindly enlighten me.

thanks

Platony:
First of all...be optimistic of a reliable source of income, it is very necessary. Though, i had abt 2.2mil in my acc n seriously had a source of income. I invested abt 1.5mil into d marriage event et al. In a nutshell, jst av a good source of income.

bilulu:
Please house I want to ask is there a certain amount of cash you need to have before planning to settle down? for instance one need to have up-to 500k in his account before thinking of settling down. please I need you input.

kimbraa:
If you can feed yourself and two other mouths then you can get married.

angelbulksms:



Buy loyalty? Force loyalty?

Such won't work o.

You train/raise loyalty in her through love, affection, instruction and understanding per time until it is formed in her for you.

It might be better to start the training before marrying the lady so that you can be sure if you would be able to be her husband.

And it is very important. A disloyal wife would put the husband in trouble. It is only a matter of time.

kimbraa:
If you can feed yourself and two other mouths then you can get married.

swiz123:


Your question looks childish; the replies you've gotten so far, childish too.

You don't literally need to have 500k in your bank account before thinking of getting married.

You just need to have a steady source of income that will be enough to cater for a family.

A man might be running a business with less than 500k, but he makes steady profits from the business. He might decide to folk out 150k for traditional marriage(depending on the state he intends to marry from), then later he can do church wedding.

Having the mentality that I need to save up to half a million before getting married has kept many men above 35 single.

If you can clothe, feed, provide health care etc for 3 persons comfortably, then getting married shouldn't be a problem.

But while at it, avoid marrying leeches

slap1:
Depends on how you plan it. For me, I will do only traditional wedding. That is our culture. If my wife likes church wedding, she can sponsor it. Unless I am marrying a pastor's daughter, I don't see why a pastor should join me and my wife.

Holamscoh:


But pls don't tell me u spend only 20k monthly.

AroOkigbo:
First work on your maturity.
The journey of marriage is not for the fainthearted.

Modified:
FTC!!
I dedicate this to my 5th child (last for now) who turned 3 months same day as I placed this comment

pedrilo:
thanks boss, ur assessment is noted. And yes I live in Lagos n also live close to my office in lagos mainland. I only spend 100 naira as tfare daily. Thanks once again

zinaunreal:


You get mind.... And how much did she bring?

Eagba:
my take is, you r almost on a sound footing, but increase the money you spend month, 20k is too small. Saving isn't really the key, keep making shrewd investment, eat better and you r good.

oriyomi56:
I saved tru my nose plus financial discipline, no impulse buying plus I only buy wats important, many ladies called me stingy but I didnt care cos my focus was to build a house for myself b4 I clocked 30 n I did!
Pm me.


love your plans and am a good saver too,but the part that's baffling me is,you said you're currently earning 120k monthly, and you've gotten a bungalow that you rcv 350k annually and you got the bungalow b4 you clocked 30,pls what was you earning monthly?,how many years it took you to get a land?,the area the property is?,the total cost of the building project? and also what time did you start working considering your age as in when you graduated?

pedrilo:
for where? Abeg leave dat side. No be man like me buy porshe of 20m for him babe?

Cutehector:
Vizkiz, why do you argue with that girl? She knows nothing.

3verblazing:
ashualli.. It's 45mil... Some pple no fit afford wating u Don get already.. To dem ur present worth dey like that 45mil... I earn as much as u do as a contract staff in Abuja monthly.. 30yrs.. No reasonable extra pay from anywhere yet.. Except for the little I earn as a graphic designer (seriously working to earn more). N I wan marry next year... Obviously I need a miracle

Holamscoh:


Like N1000 steady stable income lol, Point of correction u must be specific with the amount which should be a reasonable steady income. At least 6 figures monthly.

Enice:
At 55, your child would be about 4 or 5 yrs which is a shame really.