HARDDON:



Ads! If this is home, I'm going back to where da heck I came from

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

Generally it is said that to make any marriage(r/ship work), one party must develop a blind eye and the other party, a deaf ear.
The man must develop deaf ears while the woman, blind eyes.

What is the essence of bonding if we are gono live retrained? that is Chaos prosponed

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

Don't do the DAVIDO!

Obviously, it is the first time Davido is falling and feeling in love. Hence his uncontrollable appetite for Chioma praises and show offs! All these can't but make her love wane( if ever she had any). He is not man enough. And if ever they last, the bond would be nothing but money and probably the hyper fun of visiting places.

Ask yourself: How many times has the said gurl mentioned him anywhere? Put up his pixs. Leaned into him?

Watch their body language when in public and you would notice one thing: He is trying too much while she's always posh and peachy, reserved in her skin around him. It should be the other way round.
He is meant to be Drown in, he is the celebrity for heck's sakes. She is supposes to be the one leaning in. But no. Such a pity.


Sense Pill 133
Money can buy the good life, just not balls!

Don't tow this lane guys!

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HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

To the married folks( ermmm, clears throat; like me.

The TERM BREADWINNER IS A RELATIVE TERM.
Do not for once think that because you roll with Jrod, the title belongs to you.

the term belongs to HIM/HER who provides for the home and pays the bills.

And
Sense Pill 134
Balls, in marriage, could easily switch allegiance, if you got no dough in your dome though Jrod still dangles within your den.

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

To the married folks( ermmm, clears throat; like me.

The TERM BREADWINNER IS A RELATIVE TERM.
Do not for once think that because you roll with Jrod, the title belongs to you.

the term belongs to HIM/HER who provides for the home and pays the bills.

And
Sense Pill 134
Balls, in marriage, could easily switch allegiance, if you got no dough in your dome though Jrod still dangles within your den.

HARDDON:



HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

As a man, don't condon the saying: your money is our money but my money is my money. You would end up giving birth to some kids that are stingy. Life is all about giving . If she isn't open handed to you and the only gift she's ever gotten for you is a cheap a33 brief when she can afford good ones, quit now before you complicate things for yourself.

HARDDON:



HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

As a man, don't condon the saying: your money is our money but my money is my money. You would end up giving birth to some kids that are stingy. Life is all about giving . If she isn't open handed to you and the only gift she's ever gotten for you is a cheap a33 brief when she can afford good ones, quit now before you complicate things for yourself.

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

As a man, you must learn to be serious with life. Right from the beginning of the r/ship marriage, you can't lie in bed all day because the day is free. No. Ladies love such; gist, eat, play, sleep and other bonding moves all day. We don't. There should be time for everything and as the saying goes, The way you lay your bed is how you lie on it. So have time for the aforementioned but dont forget your YOU TIME( thinking time, work time)

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

As a man, you must learn to be serious with life. Right from the beginning of the r/ship marriage, you can't lie in bed all day because the day is free. No. Ladies love such; gist, eat, play, sleep and other bonding moves all day. We don't. There should be time for everything and as the saying goes, The way you lay your bed is how you lie on it. So have time for the aforementioned but dont forget your YOU TIME( thinking time, work time)

afamjb:
there is this girl I met online.. we have a date today.. I have been leading her on since we started chatting online from facebook to whatsapp even tezts, my problem is I don't want her to follow me home today, but weekend will be better. please how do I tell her without hurting her feelings because me I want to be serious somehow with this one

majormofor:


hurting her feelings .
better go ahead with that o.just HP she doesn't follow u at ur back wanting to see Wat ur hiding ... u also seems to be new..

afamjb:
hello... meeting girls online page is no loading in your blog.. it's missing.

afamjb:
there is this girl I met online.. we have a date today.. I have been leading her on since we started chatting online from facebook to whatsapp even tezts, my problem is I don't want her to follow me home today , but weekend will be better. please how do I tell her without hurting her feelings because me I want to be serious somehow with this one

HARDDON:
Sense Pill 128:

You can't have the machinery to mine gold and be digging for clay!

Tempo1644:
@Harddon, thanks but what is the solution now


@iLegendd, do you have to quote my name in your new thread? Really? Who does that

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

HARDDON:


What exactly is your plans, you want to settle down with her? Has your financial situation improved?

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

Flocky:
Hey Big Gees in the house. After going through the drills, I've had lots of stories which turned out really cool but here is my most recent although this one turned out somewhat different.

I used the drills on this particular girl and it turned out real cool, she got all over me and she always longed to hear from or be with me every single day but then, I noticed I started falling in love with this girl and then I screwed up by asking her out. Damn! She said NO.

Well, I didn't talk to her about it again and since then I noticed she has been trying to bring up the issue again as all her talks bothers around the issue, (she wants to say YES this time, lol) but she doesn't want to come out straight and say it cos of the African woman's mentality in her. She is waiting for a heads-up from me but I kept avoiding it.


Now, where the problem lies is that I really do love this girl and I want to make her my woman. She z everything I ve always wanted in a woman but I want to do this without acting clingy and needy. How do I go about this?

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident , I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

Flocky:
Hey Big Gees in the house. After going through the drills, I've had lots of stories which turned out really cool but here is my most recent although this one turned out somewhat different.

I used the drills on this particular girl and it turned out real cool, she got all over me and she always longed to hear from or be with me every single day but then, I noticed I started falling in love with this girl and then I screwed up by asking her out. Damn! She said NO.

Well, I didn't talk to her about it again and since then I noticed she has been trying to bring up the issue again as all her talks bothers around the issue, (she wants to say YES this time, lol) but she doesn't want to come out straight and say it cos of the African woman's mentality in her. She is waiting for a heads-up from me but I kept avoiding it.


Now, where the problem lies is that I really do love this girl and I want to make her my woman. She z everything I ve always wanted in a woman but I want to do this without acting clingy and needy. How do I go about this?

HARDDON:


You dabbled from one mistake right to the other as you wobbled through trying times.

Haven't you heard? Tough times don't last, tough people do?

Mistake 1: Making mockery of a lady that decides, against all odds and rich side attractions, to be with you. If she is beautiful/endowed, she got richer guys on her tail.

Mistake 2: Going on Sabbaticals in challenging times. Times that she is most vulnerable to lil money temptations. Apart from that, her thought process would be, " if a lil challenge and he is pausing us even though we ain't married, what will he not do when we are married? "



That said, I did ask you what you want from her, you skipped it. That is very vital here because after NYSC, her people would be expecting her to bring some1 home. If you ain't down for marriag, what do you want from her?