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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by femi4: 3:50pm On May 22, 2018 |
RealAdewole:stop arguing blindly, the OP has no form of deformity |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by RandyX: 5:32pm On May 22, 2018 |
RealAdewole: That is the problem you find when someone unqualified to even arrange chairs at family prayer meetings wakes up one day and brands himself pastor without ordination. You can never find me in any church where the pastor feels he can not be corrected and that he is chosen but others can't be and never will, even when it's clear he was not called or ordained. Now know this, any church or gathering where the minister thinks he has grown too big to listen to his followers, any church or gathering where the people perpetually remain sheep and are not in anyway encouraged to grow beyond sheep to become one who can inspire others, is not of God. Even Jesus allowed His disciples to preach when he was sure they were ready. A gathering that does not prepare you spiritually to enlighten others is not a church. When members do not attend church on sundays because of God and the Word of God but because of fear of being flogged by the pastor, you have lost the faith of your followership, people should be led to come to church because they understand the love God has for them and they want to truly worship God not because Pastor David will embarass you in front of the congregation or Sister Bola will gossip about it to your co-workers. I never stopped attending my denomination (Catholic), and that is the only place I have never been judged but encouraged. Most of these new one man churches are dangerous to your faith, and this is because they are mostly formed for economic gain and to increase followership, not entirely to grow you spiritually. When members attend your church because all their friends are there, their livelihood depends on their connections with the churchgoers, and leaving would cause a socially awkward situation for them, it is no longer a church but a cult. A hospital is a place where the sick go to get healthy, and the healthy go to help the sick, A church should be a place where........ complete it yourself. When churches now fill their sits using punishment, embarrasment, bullying and victimization techniques instead of showing them the truth of God's love, we have a real problem. May God help us serve Him in spirit and in truth. 5 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 8:11am On May 23, 2018 |
UPDATE ON THE EXPECTED JUDGEMENT. SO IT RAINED YESTERDAY AND SO MANY PEOLE BOYCOTTED THE REHEARSALS, I DIDN'T GO AS WELL COS I KNEW IT WOULD BE POSTPONED TILL NEXT WEEK..SO ILL FILL THE HOUSE ON WHAT GOES DOWN NEXT WEEK... WAITING PATIENTLY..... |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Oyindidi(f): 9:20am On May 23, 2018 |
RandyX:Get a grip brother. I don't think you're a Christian 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Oyindidi(f): 9:23am On May 23, 2018 |
You for sit with non ministers as you dey pregnant. Madam, it's not by force to go to Church. Kindly practice your religion make we hear word 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Holymann(m): 9:44am On May 23, 2018 |
RealAdewole:Oga see ehn, the lady in question sat down because she felt they were praying the wrong way. Remember the man asked if she was pregnant or having cold?? why didn't she reply or tell anyone (not even her pastor who came to her) She felt they were praying the wrong way and she didn't believe so there was no need to stand up.. Even in the catholic church, there are times the rev. father will ask the members to stands and if for any reason you can't stand you simple say it when asked not snub everyone... It time people stopped bring behaviours that aren't accepted outside to the church because it's a church. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:17am On May 23, 2018 |
Holymann:..... Don't mind her my bro.From her right up,you will notice she doesn't even have regard for her husband talk more of the church. If she was in a function organized by military men,will she not obey all the instructions given? I still find it difficult to understand why most people take God for granted but will remove their slippers once an iffa priest or native Dr ask them to.If she has respect for her husband,she should ve given her reasons to her pastor when asked and not keeping mute. 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Holymann(m): 11:06am On May 23, 2018 |
RandyX, did you read the post at all ![]() Even in the catholic church, there are times when the priest will ask the members to stand up right?? if any member doesn't stand and the priest asks him/her why they aren't standing, aren't the suppose to tell him?? i'm sure the are. In her case, she kept mute when asked if she was pregnant or not well(because she felt he was praying the wrong way by standing up) and even when her own pastor came to ask her to stand up, she snubbed him. THIS IS A CLEAR CASE OF PRIDE Moreover, she was proud to say she rebelled and refuse to stand (this is someone who only attended the church to please her husband) It's high time we stopped taking God for granted by bringing in behaviours that aren't acceptable outside (workplace or government event) into the church. If she had done as little as telling the preacher, her pastor or any other person that she wasn't well, no one would have been angry with her. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by IamPlato(m): 11:13am On May 23, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:... Just Because You Sat Down! I Wonder What That Pastor Will Do If He meets me 3 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by IamPlato(m): 11:15am On May 23, 2018 |
walex2:... My Friend Be Quiet There! Those Who Were Standing Are Bornagain Right? 4 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by IamPlato(m): 11:19am On May 23, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:... Why Are You Bothered? They Dont Pay You. Its A Church, so Expect Worse... |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 11:36am On May 23, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:Wow! Madam , how did you get yourself into this kind of marriage. I guess its love its usually women who allow pastors run their home from the pulpit. In this case it seems your husband is allowing another man run his home through Jesus Christ our Lord Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Diamond23(f): 12:23pm On May 23, 2018 |
Dont know y my mind z telling me that dz marriage z based on fear, pretense and eye service ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 23, 2018 |
You not attending a church but a cult. A reverend King sort of cult camouflaged as a church. Na wetin u do? So Just because u no shake body and stamp ur feet during praying session so dem wan come punish u ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 12:47pm On May 23, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:traits of a cult like church where u have an egocentric religious leader. Talk to to ur husband and convince him u guys should break away from that church. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 1:01pm On May 23, 2018 |
RandyX:if she goes to see the pastor privately and tell him she doesn't adhere to their style of praying don't be surprised if he uses her as a subject of discussion in his next Sunday preaching. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Holymann(m): 1:05pm On May 23, 2018 |
lefulefu:B4 you conclude issues like this, try and read everything the Op wrote. I'm sure she wrote somewhere that the man in question was from another denomination and was only came for that virgil. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Holymann(m): 1:10pm On May 23, 2018 |
Netanyahu1:If you had carefully read everything the op wrote on this thread, you'd have realized that 1. her husband wasn't in church 2. she hasn't told her husband what happened. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Holymann(m): 1:15pm On May 23, 2018 |
lefulefu:Is it that you'll didn't see the part where she said the man in question was from another church ![]() |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 1:18pm On May 23, 2018 |
balaclava:from the way she described the church it sounds like a cult.A denomination that you don't have freedom and where the pastor is looked on as a small god. Like the Reverend king type of cult and the David koresh type of cult in Waco,texas. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 23, 2018 |
Holymann:for the choir to make the decision to punish the op because of the displeasure of the invited pastor shows the pastor has a sort of influence in the church. I didn't read any part it was said he was from another denomination. If his action could spur the choir to make d decision to punish d op then it could be the invited pastor could be their G.O or a senior member. Either way op should talk to her husband about her discomfort in the church and attend a church that connects to her heart. A pastor or any religious leader has no right striking a member. Is he the one feeding her? 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UDUJ(m): 1:42pm On May 23, 2018 |
balaclava: I will get crucified for saying this, but majority of these so called churches are cults masked as places of worship. Places where they worship their pastors instead of worshipping God. Brainwashed church members #ENDTIMECHURCHES #ENDTIMEPASTORS 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by RandyX: 1:45pm On May 23, 2018 |
Holymann: Brother I will let you know, Even in the Catholic Church when people stand they don't force anyone to stand, the priest doesn't go hitting or flogging you on the back. There are church wardens to handle the situation in a way that it doesnt bring about embarrassment in the house of God. During ceremonies where people are required to stand for extended periods of time, the officiating priest usually says those that are ill, weak or old can remain sitted. They don't judge you and make a spectacle of you from the pulpit. I understand there are traditions in different churches where people may be required to stand. But in this case, the pastor was just in the heat of the moment and wanted everyone to start shaking and stamping their feet on the ground. For someone that is weak, that is an almost impossible task to do. He should have silently asked the aides to get her to leave if he didn't find her in good enough state to participate without making a spectacle of her in public. He should have reprimanded her in private or tried to understand what problems she had with her faith not judging and making mockery of a soul you should be trying to bring closer to God in front of the entire congregation. Even if her faith is still at the initial stages, How is she supposed to feel comfortable to come to church next time to grow that faith? When everyone there are wearing judge wigs with a hammer ready to pass sentence on her every move? His manner of approach was already set to place her in a defensive mood in the first place. How can he say, look at this one is she pregnant or what? Is that how to address someone who came to pray? He was already biased and judged her as not suitable for ministry before getting her own part of the story. Trust me I know how mushroom pastors behave, it won't be the first time. There is a reason random people do not just wake up in the morning and turn leader of a flock without having served first. It takes a lot of spiritual maturity to lead people of God, or you risk putting the spiritual lives of your flock in danger. 4 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Ayobami7(m): 1:51pm On May 23, 2018 |
This my comment |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by RandyX: 2:05pm On May 23, 2018 |
lefulefu: She doesn't adhere to the guest preacher's (C.A.C. pastor) style of praying not the church pastors style. However, I am not happy they actually went physical on her. The Op said she is still trying to understand Christianity. They should spend more time enlightening her about God than resorting to abuse and punishment. If the church pastor turns her statements into a sermon, he had better make it a constructive sermon meant to unite and not a way to ridicule her. This sort of behaviour among the pastor and members of her choir has nothing to do with the church of God but with a very bad Nigerian mentality. They feel when they help you achieve something they own your life, if her husband was dangote, would they have the guts to hit her like that? But a faithful member of their church, look how they treat his wife, simply because they can claim they made her husband what he is today. 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 2:18pm On May 23, 2018 |
RandyX:If her husband was Dangote the pastor wouldn't dare touch her even if she misbehaved. Is it not our nigerian churches again that worship money and status. Na only poor man pickin dem fit oppress inside church but a rich man they will be bowing to him. 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 2:24pm On May 23, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:All I can say is thank God for making me a man 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 3:09pm On May 23, 2018 |
lefulefu: If u check my responses well about those who asked same question, u"'ll see that my husband will rather choose the church over me, he has been committed to the church right from cradle and won't have me rebel against the church..... |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 3:18pm On May 23, 2018 |
UnknownQueen: You are an adult, a mother and a wife... Yes you messed up by rebelling in such a childish manner, but regardless, do not let anyone humiliate you or treat you like a child. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 3:25pm On May 23, 2018 |
Bidobado: How do I? I need ur guidance... |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:00pm On May 23, 2018 |
Bidobado:. Nobody is humiliating her. Let her simply apologise for her childish and rebellious act. I doubt if she will behave the same way to a babalawo. People do any how in the house of God but scared to do it in a deity. If she was in the mosque,won't she have obeyed the imam. Let's stop covering the truth abeg. Simple apology she is here claiming right. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by movid(m): 4:11pm On May 23, 2018 |
Which punishment do they want to give u, dey won cane u? No matter the punishment ..It can't kill u |
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