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9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 8:09pm On May 29, 2018 |
Chess is a wonderful intellectual game. It is not merely an idle amusement as wrongly believed by those who may not understand the beauty of the game. It is a game in which several wonderful capacities of the mind can be developed. Many things happen on a chess board from which we can pick vital lessons that could help us in our daily lives. It is almost eight years long since I learnt how to play chess. And so far so good here are 9 life lessons I have learnt from the game: 1. Never give up This one comes first because I feel it's the most important lesson I've learnt from playing chess. Many times when I play with stronger players and find myself in a bad position, I tend to easily lose hope. I'm like "What's the point?" "The game is already lost." But as I advanced in gameplay, I stopped giving up easily when I've made any errors or when I appear to be losing. I just focused on playing as best as I could given the situation. In doing this, I often found many other opportunities which help me to bounce back into the game and gain an upper hand. I realized that any mistakes I made wasn't the end. Despite my position, I should focus on making the most of my moves. And I have applied this lesson to life to liberate my mind from depression. 2. Women are powerful In chess, the queen is the most powerful piece on the board. Not the king. The queen can move in any direction and for longer distances. While the king has one step to move around it. Though the king is the most important piece, it has limited mobility. I have often asked why this had to be so until the message became clear to me. Women are powerful influencers. Hell hath no fury like that of a woman. The place of women in the society and their capacities even though they may look physically weaker must never be underestimated. And if you take a peek at history, the downfall of most great and powerful men were simply orchestrated by a devious woman! The creator of chess must have had these in mind before creating the game. 3. You can never win if you don't make a move In Chess you have to make a move if you are to make any form of progress. In the beginning, white has to make the first move, before black. If white refuses to make the first move, then there would be no game. And no game means no action and no forms of progress. So it implies that of you want to succeed and make any form of progress in your life, you must make a move. You must use the resources you have and move/manipulate them to achieve your desired results. Failure to do anything will keep you trapped in the same situation. You see many people pray all the time for God to bless them, but they don't make any moves towards what they want. They pray from January to December and nothing happens because I believe God is waiting for these guys to just make a move. 4. Attack is often the best form of defence While playing chess, I have often found myself in dangerous positions when my opponent is launching very aggressive attacks on my side. The attacks are well sustained that oftentimes the first thought that comes to mind is to run back and defend my territory. But experience taught me that the best way to defend is to also carry out strong attacks on your opponents side. When you learn to also launch deadly attacks instead of just defending, your opponent will have a hard time continuing his own attack because he has to attend to his own territory. Don't always be defensive in life. Don't always relax and wait for things to be given to you or just happen on its own accord. You should learn to attack. Make plans and carry them out. You will stand a better chance of surviving when you attack sometimes in response than when you always crawl back to defend. 5. Consider or think about the future Foresight is a lovely attribute of the mind that you learn from chess. In playing the game, you have to think of what your opponent is planning to do and also think up of various plans you can use to defeat your opponents. You think about the future consequences of the move you want to make and how better or worse it will make your position. You're careful responding to your opponents move because you have to try and see the future moves they are planning. In life, many of us have made terrible mistakes because we don't really think deeply about the actions we take presently.Chess teaches us to remember the future before making any moves in life. 6. Understand your situation or position Chess teaches circumspection. The ability to consciously observe, understand and analyze your position very well before moving. If you don't understand your identity, situation and position in life. You may not really be able to achieve anything meaningful. You must understand your situation and that begins with how you know yourself, your tribe, your history, your community, your race, your continent etc. When you have known this about yourself. You can then take time to learn about other people, cultures and beliefs. Wherever you find yourself in life, take time to study and understand the environment. Get access to important information and always update your knowledge of what is happening around you. It is a key ingredient to living successfully. 7. Learn to recognize your opportunities, don't waste moves Opportunities they say comes but once. Although on a chess board opportunities usually arise, it is important to take advantage of the opportunity that you are presently aware of rather than gambling with it. I have had opportunities of taking my opponents unguarded pawn and I usually did. It often proved sufficient to finally win in the end game. So it is in life, sometimes we are too keen on the big opportunities that we lose sight of the opportunities that surround us every single day. And sometimes we are lucky enough to recognize these little opportunities, but yet we despise them and don't take advantage of it. The truth is somebody else will take advantage of the opportunities you missed. And in chess, it's your opponent. So it's important you learn to quickly recognize and make good use of opportunities that come your way whether on a chessboard or in real life. 8. Time is one of the most valuable resources Is there any other game that could better teach you the precious value of your time? Chess is a game that greatly valued time. Once your time is up in chess, no matter how good your position may be, you will inevitably lose the game. It teaches you how best to manage your time and make the most use of it. We all believe that our timeline on this planet is limited. And every second counts. So wasting time is usually not good. Time is meant to be managed and used well. 9. Luck always favors the good planners Chess isn't really a game that we say is dependent on luck, just as in rolling a dice. Chess is a game of strategy and tactics and luck has a little role to play here because, whatever happens on the board was created by your moves. When you are a good player(one who is thoughtful, careful, resilient and determined), you will always be lucky. You won't be lucky in the sense that luck just happens. You will be lucky because you created your luck by playing very well from the beginning. And that's it: 9 Life lessons from the chess game. Have you played chess? Do you have other life lessons from the board that you can add? You can leave a comment or share the post. source: https://www.boldwinner.com 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:18pm On May 29, 2018 |
The most important shd be dont underestimate anyone 1 Like |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 8:39pm On May 29, 2018 |
Goodlyhrt: That should be number 10. Great point! |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by emdeey(m): 8:56pm On May 29, 2018 |
Lalasticlala |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by IamPlato(m): 10:13pm On May 29, 2018 |
... Great |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by IamPlato(m): 10:13pm On May 29, 2018 |
... Great |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 11:16pm On May 29, 2018 |
IamPlato:Thanks |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Divay22(f): 11:24pm On May 29, 2018 |
Nice |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 29, 2018 |
Protect your Queen (Wife or Girlfriend) 1 Like |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by rawpadgin(m): 11:29pm On May 29, 2018 |
11. The pawn is the least of them all but sometimes it becomes anything u want it to be 3 Likes |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 8:36am On May 30, 2018 |
Divay22:Thank you |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 8:36am On May 30, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: lol |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Nobody: 9:05am On May 30, 2018 |
A pawn can later become a queen. Never underestimate/look down on anyone. 4 Likes |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Nobody: 9:09am On May 30, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: In the game of chess, the queen protects the king. 1 Like |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Iamdmentor1(m): 10:01am On May 30, 2018 |
Vv |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 4:40pm On May 30, 2018 |
locust: Lovely! How did I forget to include this? 1 Like |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 11:47am On May 31, 2018 |
rawpadgin: you meant pawn |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by rawpadgin(m): 12:45pm On May 31, 2018 |
Boldwinner:lol. Yea thanks |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Blackfire(m): 1:23pm On May 31, 2018 |
It is a mind game... Just like draft /checkers, go (Asia) 1 Like |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by eezeribe(m): 2:36pm On May 31, 2018 |
Wonderful post... |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by eezeribe(m): 2:38pm On May 31, 2018 |
Goodlyhrt:Nice point,but nothing justifies it as the most important except your subjective point of view. |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by pocohantas(f): 8:44pm On May 31, 2018 |
I'll say: don't be too predictable. Have more than one game plan to achieve your desired goal (i.e) Always have a plan A,B,C,D...even Z. Learn to use every weapon in your arsenal. Never be too attached to any piece. Lest you lose it and become useless. Never lose hope. Even when you're left with just the king, pawns and a bishop ![]() That said, my best piece has to be the rook, it has the second highest point (that's after the queen, which I intentionally omitted). 2 Likes |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 9:55pm On May 31, 2018 |
pocohantas: lovely! You Play on Lichess? |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by youcanmakeit: 10:57pm On May 31, 2018 |
I love this post |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Boldwinner(m): 11:16am On Jun 01, 2018 |
youcanmakeit:Thanks. There's more on boldwinner.com |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by babyfaceafrica: 11:24am On Jun 01, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:will you keep kwayet..you only lose if you king dies..so protect the king at all cost 1 Like |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
Nice one op, but in the game of chess, i’d rather invest my moves in building a stone wall defence around my king before attacking. It has always worked for me ![]() |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:Thanks |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by movid(m): 1:35pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
Blackfire:No! You can't compare chess with those games. Chess is for d pros, those that can think..but their is something that really baffles me about the game, the gurus I know in the game are mostly engineering students..I wonder why. |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Sheenor: 3:31pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
locust:Wonderful! A wise man once said, Pawns are the souls of Chess. In Chess, anything can happen... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 9 Life Lessons From The Game Of Chess.. by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
pocohantas:we need to get on the board someday! Chess confirms there is nothing like luck as people think but real luck is a product of Hardwork, critical thinking and the right opportunity. Continuous practice, with critical thinking and the opportunity is the weak move your opponent makes. You must be fully awake to see that opportunity as it may be the only one you might have in the game. Another lesson: No one is useless in this life. The pawns seems to be the weakest but sometimes they can be the saving piece. Treat every one nicely. No one wins alone, you need the moves of all the pieces in a game. Trapping your opponent’sking= victory: You either kill or buy the competition. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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