mimimile93:


Your head dey there..
Reading their comments you will know say na two persons in one body.. Smh

you're entitle to your opinion sir beleive whatever you want

QuietHammer:


My guy-my guy. Two in one. How far na? Honestly you are too dull for a scammer Go learn a trade.

may God put a situation before you so that you will know what am passing through if you can't help move on if you like call me an alien it's your beleive

mxpinky:
may God put a situation before you so that you will know what am passing through if you can't help move on if you like call me an alien it's your beleive

Lol. My nigga, leave matter for Mathias. We know as e dey go

QuietHammer:


Lol. My nigga, leave matter for Mathias. We know as e dey go

whatever

mxpinky:
you're entitle to your opinion sir beleive whatever you want

Asalamu alaikum

mimimile93:

Asalamu alaikum

walaikum sallam good day

EazyMoh:
Hnmm Hajiya be careful fa, no one here can claim to love you more than your parents.
As I understand your parents may be conservative northern Muslims who sincerely believe a good marriage is the best thing that could ever happen to a daughter. From your narrative they aren't trying to marry you off to one old man nor a guy you never know or liked like that...
With the way you look (beautiful) and sound (educated, wise and smart) I am sure you have many suitors already. Choose one and make him (and your parents) give you the grace of at least reaching final year in your study or closest negotiation. Your mum shall be on your side mediating between you and your dad. This rebellious path you are trying to follow isn't gonna lead you anywhere good.
Also marriage never mean end of your studies, in fact it could be an excellent catalyst to make you more focused, comfortable and blessed.
Don't you have sisters? Grandparents? Your parents friends and siblings whom they respect and listen to, so they can at least persuade them to give you some grace to graduate?
By bringing this your case to nl don't you know the type of people who make up majority of the commentators here? If you don't know they are about 80% southerners (who do not know/understand your cultural background) more than 70% non-Muslims who consider marriage as a future event they may choose to do or not. With or without it they can sleep with as many men/women they like and have as many kids as they like.
I am not saying you shall agree and marry whomever your parents decide, No even prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was clearly against that.
So my advice go and beg your parents for forgiveness. Tell them you never to disobey or make them unhappy, that with the way they raised you it's your dream to someday get married, but they shall give you two or three years grace to go a bit further in your study. Mention stuff like you are worried you wouldn't be able to take care of your babies as you would like if you are still a student. If they are still adamant include other family members I mentioned earlier. If still they wouldn't bulge chose the best among your suitors and settle down. Pray it's for the best. Trust me Allah will see you through in the most spectacular way.
Karatun Boko is grossly overrated nowadays. You may even graduate and find out the degree isn't even worth it!
I have two sisters both are graduates the eldest has always wanted to get married while she was in school, now she has a degree she is not using and still not married.
I pray you find happiness in your life and get to reconcile with your parents as soon as possible.
Ramadan Mubarak

Well said brother. Communication and understanding is key.

Asha ruwa lafiya.