Kearl:


Thank you, but am scared of crashing d marriage. If our families know then d marriage is a goner.

Sorry to say this but you sound like a simp. Little wonder she's bold enough to cheat.

What will people say as if they are the one wearing your shoes.
Walk away now that you still have the chance. Don't give a cheating woman second chance.

Kearl:


I know she did, not just suspecting. She’s smart and I want to gather enough b4 we sit down to talk or throw everything down d drain

Oyindidi:
Talk to her now, don't wait till the deed is done. Maybe she is yet to do the main thing

Mcbussy:




Guy, you are doing great, don't succumb to any pressure to talk to her now. Oyindid is only advising you from a lady's point of view, she probably doesn't know that if you rush it without all the necessary facts, you'd only give the cheating wife an opportunity to deny it and turn it all on you. She'd retrace her steps, probably slow down a bit and cover her tracks better.....In the end the problem won't be solved and thesame thing still continues, taking you back to square one.

Whether you dump her or choose to forgive after repentance is your choice. But none of this will come if she doesn't get busted beyond any reasonable doubt.

Oyindidi:
He'll be more hurt

Saff:
Women cheating more than men, the tables have really turned.

lenghtinny:


Sorry to say this but you sound like a simp. Little wonder she's bold enough to cheat.

What will people say as if they are the one wearing your shoes.
Walk away now that you still have the chance. Don't give a cheating woman second chance.

Kearl:
My wife is having an affair, but she hasnt known that I know that this is going on. Discovered about it not long ago. Still thinking d best course of action.

It was first d feeling of pain, but that phase has passed now. Right now I need to strategize on what next to do.

Still painful though, cos I never knew she could do such.

Just typing this to let off the steam.

pocohantas:
Go and do DNA o.
Let's not hear of another woman that jumped into lagoon.

zeenaman:
I just fear ladies badly. Lately, i was going through my fiancee's whatsapp chat with a supposed admirer she herself once told me about. I read a chat in which she was asking the guy if the sexes were out of love. I really trusted this girl. But she is a history in my life now. We actually spent two lovely years together, but i have forgotten about her as if we never crossed paths.

Kearl:
My wife is having an affair, but she hasnt known that I know that this is going on. Discovered about it not long ago. Still thinking d best course of action.

It was first d feeling of pain, but that phase has passed now. Right now I need to strategize on what next to do.

Still painful though, cos I never knew she could do such.

Just typing this to let off the steam.

Kearl:


I know she did, not just suspecting. She’s smart and I want to gather enough b4 we sit down to talk or throw everything down d drain

dairykidd:

Pray she doesn't silence u b4 u gather all the evidence u need bro.. A cheating wife can go to any length to cover her tracks & protect her image... Be wise... Very wise

Oyindidi:
Stop it before its too late. My brother, help her out of it. She may not really know what she's doing is wrong. If possible talk to this evening.

vingeophysicist:
what moral right do you have to advise couples having infidelity issue. you that frequent sexuality section like your life depends on it. People like you are not even fit for matrimony and you even boastfully announce that you are married. I really pity your husband for wasting his precious money on you.

kunleweb:



her tone is not balanced. She's covertly biased, Read her comments carefully. I advice the oP not to go ahead with whatever suggestions she came up with, she's playing soft cover-up for her female-folk

CptBule:


It should be a good proof, but there is no point sending her packing when the deed is repeated by her because your in-laws may doubt the truth in the story. it is therefore even wiser to give them a call, to convene a meeting of her relatives, far and near, then you pay a visit, and with your evidence, express your disappointment in their daughter and the trainings she received, it is now left for them to call home their daughter and sleep with her for at least a week, putting into her a new orientation and reminding her of the family's integrity which she is set to destroy if she continues on her fool's path.

kunleweb:

vingeophysicist:
what moral right do you have to advise couples having infidelity issue. you that frequent sexuality section like your life depends on it. People like you are not even fit for matrimony and you even boastfully announce that you are married. I really pity your husband for wasting his precious money on you.

dairykidd:

Bro we both know say woman get mind pass men for bad things. Any Nigerian wife when done cross mind to cheat done also make her mind up to damn the consequences of her actions... So to protect their ass based on the stigma for these part of the world baba dem ready do anything including ur worst fears... No be joking matter. Well i believe the op is smarter than her sha. If i were him i go travel sef, give her enough room to fvck her new lover man, track them & dissolve the marriage with all the evidence....

Oyindidi:
Lol, come beat me as he pain you like this.

Kearl:


I know she did, not just suspecting. She’s smart and I want to gather enough b4 we sit down to talk or throw everything down d drain

Kearl:


Am just scared. Cos when I start I know we are done for.

vingeophysicist:
what do you expect from her."Birds of same feather flock together"

kunleweb:



Nice idea

We recommend a spy camera that can be placed somewhere around the location

dairykidd:

I dey tell u... I have always been thinking of going into this kind of biz as a PI but make them no go use juju kill my enemy this is Africa