NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, the op seems not to be in Nigeria which is why he's scared of lawyers and blackmail, so he needs to be smart.

dairykidd:

Lolzz hope u know i wasn't referring to u sha.. Was responding to ur post tho based on the topic

kunleweb:



He has a fear which i don;t understand, though it's clear to see he loves more. She cares less, He holds the relationship and bears the weight of the burden, which is unequal and unhealthy in their case, so the slightest flinch he feels it. Babe, she's cheating forget it. This dude is the burden bearer of the relationship so when a bolt is missing it's easy for him to feel it, he's been overprotective has caused him to nurture her to spoilage. Hmm, there should be a medical test that tells if a married woman is cheating to save men from this kind of dilemma. This guy is burnt already, [/b]i feel for him[b]

TonyeBarcanista:

Na double wahala for am...

But I think he's a Nigerian but he's just being Sissy about the whole thing

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Seems I'm the only one to figure out he's not in Nigeria.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Nigerian based abroad. Wife is probably the main bread winner.

kunleweb:



it's a universal scenario ma

TonyeBarcanista:

Lol he should stop being a Lazy Nigeria Youth abroad and start fending for himself

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Turaki for president huh He's already putting up posters

TonyeBarcanista:
Like seriously?

Will you give your brother or son same advice if they were to be in his shoes? (God forbid though)

kunleweb:



Oyin.didi is playing coy on this one.. Before now, she made sense and can be categorized as partially biased but on this one, it's clear to see the lady could be Oyind.id's younger sister or friend, she's playing protective counseling like she has a stake in the cheating palaver. May God help people speak without fear of favor or support of gender. Oyin.didi don fall hand big time. Men stay clear off her counsels from now plz.

TonyeBarcanista:
Na Turaki send am message?

TonyeBarcanista:

Lol he should stop being a Lazy Nigeria Youth abroad and start fending for himself

Oyindidi:
I know why I advised him to talk to her first

kunleweb:



You fall your own hand. Talk to a cheat first, what do you expect? The feeling is in the gut, you're married, the moment the lip doesn;t taste like , it doesn't add up. No need for hard facts

TonyeBarcanista:

What is there to confront her for? This is what I don't understand...

kunleweb:



You fall your own hand. Talk to a cheat first, what do you expect? The feeling is in the gut, you're married, the moment the lip doesn;t taste like , it doesn't add up. No need for hard facts

Oyindidi:
That he is suspecting her doesn't mean she's doing it ALREADY. He can still save the situation reason I ask him to talk to her

Oyindidi:
Stop it before its too late. My brother, help her out of it. She may not really know what she's doing is wrong. If possible talk her this evening.

Oyindidi:
Na you cheat with her?

kunleweb:



i'm sorry you;re my favorite sister here and icontinue to bless God for your wisdom, but i have to fight you on this one, the undertone of your counsel was biased towards the lady. No vex.

Kearl:
My wife is having an affair, but she hasnt known that I know that this is going on. Discovered about it not long ago. Still thinking d best course of action.

It was first d feeling of pain, but that phase has passed now. Right now I need to strategize on what next to do.

Still painful though, cos I never knew she could do such.

Just typing this to let off the steam.

Oyindidi:
The brother(op) will be more hurt. Read his posts. My brother, things dey happen for marriage, you know watin push her out? Him sat na emotional relationship. I read before I talk

Saff:
Women cheating more than men, the tables have really turned.

kunleweb:



Na all of us na. Multi-some

kunleweb:


Taar Mechionu Dia. One minute you say he's not sure, the next you know what pushed her out. Taar, stop this vacillating. You're not your usual self today, please go kitchen go cook for your dog abeg

Oyindidi:
Mpia gi. I just enter house. Make I chop before we fight

pocohantas:
Go and do DNA o. Let's not hear of another woman that jumped into lagoon.

kunleweb:



Hian. Chop before fight ke. Which kain play be this. No go let uncle request for your phone. My hand no dey dia. Go do pillow fight abi na after-we-chop-finish fight with uncle

Oyindidi:
Hahahaha...bad pikin. Good night dear. before I go off, what's your old moniker?

Oyindidi:
Stop it before its too late. My brother, help her out of it. She may not really know what she's doing is wrong. If possible talk her this evening.