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Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 10:33am On Jun 16, 2018 |
As the world sickle cell day approaches in three days time, I think about sickle cell and the impacts on various aspects of my life, especially my love life. I haven't actually been in a relationship yet. And while I want to think that it has nothing to do with the fact that I'm a sickler, I've noticed a certain trend in the guys I've come to like. The initial promises, the show of affection, the hesitation, lies and sudden disappearance seems to be a vicious cycle. So I want to ask, why is that so? Would you date a sickler if you could? Why wouldn't you want to date a sickler? Cc: Lalasticlala, Ishilove 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Maximinenabila: 10:36am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Honestly speaking I can't. 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Maximinenabila:Why? |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 16, 2018 |
I'm AA. You should marry me. 12 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Faithscharms2(f): 10:55am On Jun 16, 2018 |
My dear that shouldn't be something to worry about now..concentrate on growing friendship FIRST and knowing each other very well and trust me it would workout for you..I know a few Sickle cell patients happy in relationships and even marriage..the first thing u must do is stop pitying urself first and foremost and don't think u are a second class human being because if u know ur worth then u will realise that no man is doing u a favour to be in a relationship with u dear,rather he is lucky..trust me I have seen these cases for real and know alot of people with the disorder happy in their relationships. See how really beautiful u are so y think no body would want u?lol the right man for u will definitely locate u but keep a positive attitude cos it's very important 11 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:22am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Faithscharms2: Thanks for the advice. But I never stated that I'm sad or dejected or pitying myself. I just used my personal experience to ask a question. So, would you date a sickler if you could? 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:22am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Funnicator: |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:27am On Jun 16, 2018 |
NO |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Slym180(m): 11:29am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Been a sickler is not a big deal, as long as i love her and we are compactible i can date and even marry a sickler if the love is there. Been a sickler is not the end of the world. 10 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:30am On Jun 16, 2018 |
beardlessdude:Any reasons? |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:35am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59:scared of the whole shít. Sorry |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:37am On Jun 16, 2018 |
beardlessdude:No need to be. One man's meat... |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by izzou(m): 11:38am On Jun 16, 2018 |
She's SS, I'm AA Kini big deal? I mean for dating oh. If Na marriage,.... 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:39am On Jun 16, 2018 |
izzou:If she's good for dating, why not marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 16, 2018 |
My genotype is AA. So, i can marry a sickler. Sicklers didnt create themselves, it wasnt their mistake. 8 Likes |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by izzou(m): 11:42am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59: Like that dude said, it's scary But that's a good question anyway. If I eventually fall in love while I date her, why not? We all die once anyway 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:49am On Jun 16, 2018 |
desiregold:I love your mindset 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:50am On Jun 16, 2018 |
izzou:True |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:55am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59:Forget about my moniker babe; I'm really a gentle man. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 11:57am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Funnicator:Lol. I like gentle guys. Although I'm not. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Oyindidi(f): 11:59am On Jun 16, 2018 |
Yes though I'm scared of crisis. I am AA |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59: I guess we are opposite of each other in all ramifications. From genotype to personality. Magnetic poles are usually attractive to opposite poles. Also don't tell me now you're Muslim. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Oyindidi:We all are. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by MissRaine69(f): 12:01pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
No ...I have seen first hand the effects of the disease in men |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Funnicator: I'm a Christian. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Priapism? |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Oyindidi(f): 12:02pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59:Scared of the crisis? |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Oyindidi:Of course. But then there's no other choice but to face it. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59:The stage is set |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by MissRaine69(f): 12:09pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Chi59:That does not occur with all men but it’s among the types of ED that men with sickle cell could have. Other ED besides priapism will affect fertility and I am aware that men tend to die from complications more than women based on recent research. So knowing all that I am conflicted. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by agrovick(m): 12:16pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Look to the bright side, you don't have to worry about my malaria. |
Re: Would You Date A Sickler If You Could? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Not so. I know a few married folks both male and female. And 90-97% of them have kids. Some are even on this forum. Apart from priapism, which can be managed, sickle cell doesn't have any major effects on fertility. 1 Like |
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