miraclebaby:
Serra doesn't cause pain or bleeding. Do you have fibroid? There could be other underlying causes to your bleeding but I hardly believe it's your period. Serra would make your period flow much without clotting. I've even given it to my younger sis as pain medication and it worked for her; only she got stained next morning at church so linked it to the drug.
You may consider seeing your doctor

Adebayo4christ:
Good morning mummys, am sorry for posting

Adebayo4christ:
Good morning mummys, am sorry for posting this here again but I just want to know why women behaves the way they do sometimes.

please I need your help urgently.
In my former post, I posted about my dad being sick then and how my wife has been behaving to me and to them also, now I lost my dad, instead of my wife to be there for me, she had totally changed to worst. from nagging, to shouting , and other things. i dont know what ny parent has done to her to deserve what she is doing to them. despite the fact that my dad was her teacher in secondary school. part of the reason my dad supported our marraige then cos she was a devoted MFM member. through out my dad's sickness that lasted for almost 3 months, my wife was there 4 times, her parents came just once. the most painful thing to me now is , anytime i want to go and visit my mum during this her period of mourning , she feels reluctant. , i could rememeber how my aunties begged her immediately after the burial to please allow us move temporarily to my parents house just to keep my mum from thinking, later in the night, she called me and said, sebi my mum had achieved her aim of she feeding me and looking after us now, relating what my aunties said in the afternoon, . secondly, I am beginning to hate her , and I am blaming myself for my dad's death. I believe if I had been going to see him regularly as i am doing to my mum now, who knows he may not have died. He died of depression cos of his stroke condition. the morning of the Friday he died, he still called me and asked me if he had offended me and my wife, asking why I have abandoned him, I just had to lie to him that it was cos of my tedious job , and I promised to see him on Saturday morning, he died that Friday night .I didn't see him for three weeks bfr he died and my wife two months , meanwhile we stay in the same ikorodu. now am deeply hurt and I remember those words every now and then. I blamed myself. another thing I noticed was , it was exactly 6 months after my wedding, he died, and exactly a year after my introduction, we buried him. any coincidence with this?
How can I get over this and what can I do about my Wife. to me, the marriage is over. I am just still being considerate cos of my baby she is carrying. and she is also making things worst everyday , making me to hate her the more.
Godly counsel / advice please.

fruitfulchristy:
It is well mama. Such happens especially in TTC period. For him to shed tears, he's really pained. Please make peace with him and apologize and make up. Please do not allow the devil a space in your home whatever happens. I know it's difficult sometimes to maintain peace when we feel frustrated about ttc but we still have to.
I join my faith with yours and that of other mamas in the house and I declare that you will give birth for your husband in Jesus name. Every word that both of you have spoken in anger are cancelled by the precious blood of Jesus. Testimonies shall abound in Jesus name, amen.

Cuppymummy:
Both of you went too far like many of us have. It's part of the growing-up process in marriage.

But a heartfelt "Sorry" with tears sef will go a long way, and heavy petting and a gift no matter how little.

He too may apologise. If he doesn't, ask for it because he hurt you too. If he still refuses to apologise, let it go.

Bless him and speak positive words over the two of you by a prayer of agreement.

adamapple:

Pls dear, go on ur knees nd apologize 2 him bcs u indirectly told him he's not a man. Dts d worse tin u can tel a man in dis tryin period. And make sure he takes bck his word of u neva borning 4 him. Make sure he 4givs u and forget d whole ugly episode and try ur best 2 bridle ur tongue wen angry. Bcs I no men. He wil go and impregnate 1 yeye girl out dre just 2 prove 2 u dt he's a man. Pls 2 of can't show werey attitude @ dsame tym. Its disastrous. In marriage, one humbles himself or herself 4d oda until d oda partner realizes it and humbles himself or herself too. I pray 4 peace in ur home and may dis quarrel neva happen again. Insted it shud b agriment on baby names and sex.

Adiahaakwaibom1:


Apologise dear... Just apologise 4rm ur deepest heart. He might not rightly forgive/forget( never mind dats a man's ego 4 u ). Mean ur words & time will do rest

Ayun:
Hmnnn I have never been this overwhelmed and depressed in my life. It seems this ttc is taking forever to conquer.God pls show me mercy n forgive me wherever I have erred Have important drugs to buy but no money When will this end oh lord!! I'm just fed up.

Good morning house n pardon my small ranting

Any Abuja mama's pls indicate I need someone to bond with.just need a talking mate

Bossaanu:
Hi,evening house,pls have been taking serrap and vitex for fibroid treatment, but doing d time i was taking it i had my period but noticed my tommy was big i even tink it was bloating but after d period d tommy was still big,thou dere was changes wen using it but just dat I noticed my tommy was a little bit big, so my husband told me to stop d serrap and vitex and see wat will happen wc i did,a day after i stopped it i used guife bao.pls house could it b d serrap or vitex DAT make my tommy big,cos i want to start using it bk.

Bossaanu:

Pls i need reply on dis

Ayun:


Any Abuja mama's pls indicate I need someone to bond with.just need a talking mate

mojisolani:




Thank you my dear Sister, but that particular supplement was prescribe for me by my doctor.

Thehomemaker:
Hi Mama, happy sunday to you.

For how long have you been taking the drugs?do you feel see any improvements in the fibriods symptoms i.e bleeding, pelvic pressure, pain etc?

Bloating is well associated with fibriods though and I always felt bloated before my surgery so it may not be the drugs.

Also, have you done a scan recently to check the progress or it could just be that you are adding a few inches around your waistline and may need to hit the gym.

Try and do a scan though just to keep tabs on your progress.

Please my able sabi mamas will help you.just relax

Loads of love and baby dust.

Tanks so much for ur reply,
I just started using d 3weeks nao,and dere is improvement no bleeding,pains etc but before i started using d drugs i did scan but ave not go for scan again to check d progress.

Bossaanu:

Pls i need reply on dis

Thehomemaker:
Happy sunday Mama, please be strong, I know it can be like this sometimes but find strength in God's word and promises. This too shall pass and your babies are closer here than you know. Your expectations will not be cut short.

Please can you share the cost of the drugs maybe Mamas can help to bless you as the Spirit leads, I will love to share the little I have if you don't mind. You can pm me.

Abj Mamas please where una dey, our sister needs you.

Loads of love and ehugs

fruitfulnathia:


my dear it is well it would end soon just keep trusting God. Am in Abuja pm me so we can connect I too need a friend

ananne:
Please is anyone using the gynaecologists at R-jolad hospital in gbagada. I have been married for close to two years without a child. My wife has fibroids. Her fibroid don't have symptoms. She isn't in pain, doesn't bleed and all. She just has a bulge at her pelvic region.


Her gynaecologist is suggesting surgery because he couldn't see the Fallopian tubes during a scan. So he concluded that the fibroid is lying against the tube making it less visible.


She also has a high prolactin of about 64ng/ml. She started taking dorstinex today.

I believe she isn't ovulating because of the prolactin.

She got pregnant immediately after our wedding but lost miscarried a month later.

Please can someone explain how progesterone relates to ovulation. She is planning to do it in the 21st Day of her cycle.


For those who have used dorstinex... Did you finish the pack of 8 tablets before seeing results?

Should we do the surgery even though her fibroid ain't showing any symptoms?

We intend doing the surgery at R-jolad hospital when we decide...


I did semen analysis and my count was 43 million per MIL. Motility was 80 percent and 90 percent were normal sperms without any form of disability.

I am 35 years while she is 34

shithapuns:


http://www.fertilityafter40.com/omega-3-oils--fertility.html

a doc doesnt know everything, he is human. do your research starting with the link above and others, so you are better informed

Ayun:
Hmnnn I have never been this overwhelmed and depressed in my life. It seems this ttc is taking forever to conquer.God pls show me mercy n forgive me wherever I have erred Have important drugs to buy but no money When will this end oh lord!! I'm just fed up.

Good morning house n pardon my small ranting

Any Abuja mama's pls indicate I need someone to bond with.just need a talking mate